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Last night I slept over one of my best friend Maries house and we were just talking and stuff, but then we didnt even ask we just started to do sexual stuff and saying dirty stuff, kind of, like half laughing it off. Im a girl. And so we fingered eachother and rubbed eachothers boobs. It felt really good. But, I wanted a guy to be there with us more than anything. Im confused. What was last night? Am I a lesbian? Or bi? Or straight ?? Im confused. And is last night normal for 14 year old girls to do? (link)
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Hey well, you're not a freak or anything. But I wouldn't say that it is completelu normal for most 14 year old girls to do that. I mean, it happens, just not that frequently. I think more than anything last night could be considered a "curious experienment with a friend". What I mean by that is that you and your friend both probably want to do stuff with a guy but because there was no guy there and because the two of you are probably so comfortable around each other, you did it on each other instead. I don't think this necessarily means that you are bi, or lesbian. I think you were just curious. I think the reason things 'felt good' was because it's a sexual experience. I think if it's really bothering you just try talking to your friend about it and maybe mention to her some of the things I have said here. Don't let things become akward between the two of you now. And in the future, whether you find that you are bi, lesbian, or straight-it doesn't matter. You're still you! :)
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