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ok I know I know I am totally screwed probably and I know I messed up big time but please dont tell me that over and ove...but ok I was raped last week and I didnt tell anyone yet...I cant im scared i dont now why but i feel like its my fault cuz it was my bf and Im the one who went out with him...so ya i know im screwed cuz the evidence is probably gone but I really need help on how to tell someone so thats why I came here..plz help!!
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Ok you need to tell your parents. Just say "Mom, *boyfriend's name* raped me last week. What should I do?" It's not your fault that it was your boyfriend and you went out with him...you didn't see it coming, right? It's true that the evidence is probably gone...but you could be pregnant and have an STD. you might even have AIDS! You absolutely should see a gynecologist and have a pelvic check. Cuz some STD's like gonorrhoea and clymydia are easily curable...if you do something about it quickly. AIDS is not!

Hang in there, babe!

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