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is it such a turn off when girls are sorta shy but really pretty...or do guys like confidence and don't care about looks....or do u have to be confidente and pretty....I think i am pretty but the confidence idk....i am courious...what do guys like?

In most cases, the most average, second-rate, popular, skin-deep, typical, pretty girls are the ones who attract guys. Guys are kind of arrogant and want someone they can feel above/someone to control. Deep girls make them feel dumb and threatening to their intellect. Most guys aren't even aware of this. They like to say they are attracted to intelligent, selfless girls with a sense of humor, but that's not usually true. Don't worry about guys liking you, it will only make you feel self-conscious and you get nowhere. Know that you're better than any guy. I learned this lesson awhile ago. Remember that the older you get, the more guys will appreciate you for being smart.

hang in there babe

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