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i have no idea what to do. my boyfriends friend (Karly)was getting in the way i talked to her and set her striaght.(we r in a lone distance realtionship) and now one of the other girls (katie)that did like him drug her self and died on his porch. the other friend of his who was a guy which he was so closed the used to do everything together found out the girl kaitie (who drug herself) and took a guy and killed himself. i have no idea what to do about my boyfriend he is really depressed and he thinks it is his fault i dont know why he does. i am scared he is going to do soemthign stupid and hurt himself. and know him and his sister want me to email Karly and talk to her make her feel better , but i dont want to do this because she slept with my boyfriend 5 months ago while he was drunk.. some one please help me!if i email her what should i say?? i need to do something i cant sit her and listen to my boyfriend tell me "if i dont email u back.. u will no it is becuase i have died of sadness in my sleep. Me.. The boy who is sitting in a coner crying... the bastrd, remember me? " please help me!

For 14 year old girl, you are far to young to be mixed up with a guy with this many problems, or in a long distance relationship. How do you even find a way to see eachother? And I can't understand why you would still be with him after he cheated on you. Why put yourself through this misery?

You are upset right now because he is not giving you the attention you want. Well, at them moment he has a lot of problems to deal with, he can't give you attention. I think you should give him some space; end the relationship and let him figure things out. Clear your life of this drama.

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(Rating: 5) thanks but i dont want to! i like this guy way to much to let him go plus it isnt his fault that the girl who is 15 tryed doing him he was drunk!!

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