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... there's a man who's hittin' on me. I'm 20 he's 13 yrs my senior, married but no kids. I don't like him at all, but it seems that he CANNOT stop thinkin' 'bout/of me. I've been dealin' with this since Valentines, and i've ignored him (it been exam period so I don't see him as often in the halls), told him i wasn't interested and that he should stick to his wife. But Now that exams are over, He's back to haunt me. I'm not sure wat to do. I do not want to call the police because he's not stalkin' me, or callin' me or hurtin' me (except mentally and emotionally). Because of him, i'm shyin' away from all guys. And its not fair to the ones that are really interested in me. WHAT DO I DO?
signed,
NOM.

You can call the police! He is harassessing you. Next time he bothers you, threaten him with a restraining order. If that doesn't scare him off, actually get a restraining order will. Don't feel bad for trying to protect yourself (even emotionaly).

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