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My friend has just decided that he would like to join the army. I think this is crazy because he is really sensitive and I don't think he could handle it. It doesnt really help matters that I really like like him. I don't want him to go, I'm scared something bad will happen to him or that he'll be killed. I really don't think he should go because of the way he is. What should I say to him to stop him going, I really don't think he would be able to survive it.

Thanx millions for anyone who replies

Well seriously...its his disition and if he wants to be in the army then he should be. Because that is SO awsome if he wants to join to fight for his contry AND the contry YOUR living in..So practically hes protecting you and everyone else in the nation...No offence but your being kind of selfish for not wanting him to go and do a good thing AND doing something he WANTS to do...Im not trying to be mean what so ever so dont get that idea im just saying it strait forward...Im sure he'll survive it the sensitive ones are actually the strongest ones! Dont worry about him not surviving and dont tell him he shouldnt go because hes doing an amazing thing and its not your right to tell him what to do...And you saying "I really don't think he would be able to survive it." isnt a very good or positive attitude to have for your friend not to mention a guy you LIKE...So dont be selfish and be happy for him! He can write you everyday and you can write him back...If you dont think him going into the army to defend our country is a good thing...You need a reality check...Im sorry for being so harsh but im just saying the truth!! I dont think its right for you to be telling him what to do or deciding for him what hes going to do with his life so let him make his own decisions...Sorry again for the forwardness!

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(Rating: 3) I get what your saying, but personally I don't really like the forwardness. He would end up being sent to Iraq or someplace and personally I don't think that's awesome, I think it's suicidal! Thanx anyway, soz for the three, guess I am just being selfish and it isn't what I wanted to hear

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