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i've kind of been seeing this guy and hes 3 years older then me but we havent really been seeing each other because he has other girls in his profile saying he can't live without them and so on.. and that he loves them and we arent going out.we just kind of hook up a lot. but i really like him and he says he has feelings for me too. and im a virgin and he says he is too. and he doesnt want to be. im 13 and hes 16. i really dont want to lose mine but i sort of do when im with him. but he wants to be my "first" and i dont know if im too young but i feel like im ready. if you do it once do you get addicted like drugs and end up doing it a lot? or can you just do it once and wait a while to do it again? i'm really nervous because hes serious. because i really care about him and i know he cares about me too. should i? plz answer i rate!

He doesn't really care about you if he is still going out with other girls. He is using you because you are young and vunerable. Yes I said young, much to young to be having sex. You say you are really nervous and you don't know. With these feelings it is obvious you are not ready.

Please wait until you are old enough to handle the responsiblities that come along with sex, and also have a monogamous partner that loves you unconditionaly. That way you won't have any regrets.

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