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hey i need your help i just saw the guy that i lost my virginity too and havent seen for 5 months. He started flirting with me again and told me he never meant the stupid shit he said in the past. He then told me that i could call him whenever i wanted and if he ever hurt me again he would let me kick him where it counts. Then he said he loved me dont call me stupid or anything but i really love this guy. do you think he was just telling me that to get down my pants or somthing please help me i really am confused and it actually hurts realyl bad!
Try being his friend first. Avoid anything romantic until you get to know him again and feel that you can trust him. Perhaps the 5 months that you two have been apart changed him as time always can. There is a better chance though that he is wanting you for physical purposes. Do NOT let that happen. If he really does care about you, he will not press you for a more intimate physical relationship (remember if a guy loves you he will NEVER pressure you for sex). Start with friendship and see how it goes from there. If he bolts you know what he was there for. If he stays around (I'm talking about more than a few days here) then you might have a foundation on which you can build a relationship. Just be careful. Sex can have serious consequences (STDs, babies, broken hearts) and since you know that he has the potential to leave you again, tread carefully. Let time be the best judge. Best Wishes!
(Rating: 5) this was the best advice ever it gave me the chills i will keep you informed