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well i have a problem.. i like this guy alot.. like so0 much.. hes really str8 to chill with and weve chilled alot buhh i dont know.. he likes me buhh he wants to do shit with me b4 we go out.. he thinks i will cuz i did things with these 2 guys this summer which was jus a hook up and having fun..buhh as for me and him.. i dont wanna do anything with him yet* or until we go out cuz i dont want him to see me as a grl to take advange of..and juss a hook up.. i want him to see me as a gf.. and he knos im not a ho so wats rong? i dont kno if its like he needs to try me out to see wat hes gettin or rele want to b with mee.. does this make sense to any of youu..?!

Just tell him what you just told us. Just be like "Why do you want to do stuff with me before we go out? I don't want to do that. I'm not that type of girl. Yea, I did that with 2 guys during the summer, but that was just a hook up. I normally don't do that. But, as for you, I really like you and I don't want to just do stuff with you, I want to be your girlfriend, I don't want to be a hoe or look like one. I want you to actually see me as a girlfriend, not just someone that gives you stuff. I mean, do you even like me, to the point where we could go out?" Just say stuff like that and how you feel about that situation. I hope this helps and if you still need help, just post a message in my inbox.

xoxo Kourtney

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