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Well maybe about 2 - 3 years ago I met this boy, he lives in california and i live in everett washington. Hes in 11th grade and im in 10th. He came up a few months ago and visited me for about 2 weeks and then left. I really love him and we talk online everyday through email because his computers messed up and wont let him download aim or anything. He's always like " Whats up baby " and " I love you too ". Were not going out but I really wanna go out with him. I know he would never cheat on me because hes real. He doesnt make things up If hes busy he'll say " Oh ill email you later im busy ". Hes so sweet to me. But yesterday I went on my sister screen name and she sent him a email that told him that I want to go out with him and that I was scared to ask because he might have a girlfriend or he might say no. And he wrote back saying something like " Tell her I dont have a girl and I would never say no to her and I really love her. " Then she wrote back saying " She wants to know why you love her." And something else. And he said " Tell her to ask me why I love her but she should know." Im not that mad at her for doing to because I kind of knew. But anyways lol my question is should I go out with him? I mean we live far away and probably wouldnt be able to see eachother. But we really love eachother. Drop your thoughts or whatever.
Well, since you know about long distance relationships I'm not going to give you the speech on how hard it is and stuff lol. But, he seems to make you happy and you both love each other and trust each other and everything. So, I see no problem in it. I mean you know he's the real guy you're talking to because you've met him before too and he seems really sweet to you and everything. I mean, he even confessed to your sister that he really loves you. And thats really sweet. And if you know he won't cheat on you, and you two can trust each other, and you think it will work out, then go for it. No one can tell you that you two don't love each other or anything, only you two know if you two trust each other. Just follow your heart and see where it takes you. And it seems to be taking you to him. So, go for it hun! And he even said himself he wouldn't turn you down. So just be like "My sister told me she e-mailed you, I had no clue about it, but since she did e-mail you, I think we should talk about that all... I mean we've met and everything and we love each other, but we're not going out and I want to change that, but only if you want to..." Just say something like that and how you feel and everything. I hope this helps and good luck hun! Tell me how everything goes. If you need anymore help, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much for not giving me a speech lol. I really appreciate all your help