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I always seem to have problems, but this ones kidda bigger then the rest. I really like this guy, he's a total sweetheart, caring and such. He's 15 and I'm 17. Well, today he told me that he liked me alot. I'm kidda dating someone right now though and I told him that. He started freaking out because he really wants to be with me. He thinks I don't give a shit about him, when I really do, I adore him. I just don't know what to do. Another problem, is the age difference. I told him it really didn't matter, but really, it does. I mean, my friends wouldn't be too fond of it. I don't know what to do, any help?

Yea, this is a tough situation to be in. But, you're going to have to do pro's and con's for each guy and see who you would be more happier and comfortable, etc. with. I mean, which one do you think you can see spending more time with and having that relationship last longer and which one will make you more happier? And let him know you do care about him just be like "I know I'm dating someone right now, but it doesn't mean I DON'T care about you, because I really do, I adore you, and if you don't believe me then I don't know what you want me to say in order for you to believe me because I'm telling you the truth!" And this whole age thing, its only 2 years apart, it's not bad at all. Age is just a number, I mean my parents are 3 years apart. Don't worry about what other people think, they should be happy that you are happy with whoever you end up with! But, I hope this helps and if you still need help on all of this, just post a message in my inbox. I hope everything works out for you, good luck hun!

xoxo Kourtney

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