about


advice

16/f

k i have this guy friend who im really close with named "JoE".."joe" tells me ALOT of his personal shit, and if he ever cheated on a girl, id be tha only person he would tell..but im starting to like him more than a friend and his other best guy friend told my other best guy friend that he liked me too. the problem is he seriously is SUCH a HUGE FLIRT..like hes all over every girl he knows even if he doesnt like them..but hes not like that with me ofcourse cause we are 2 close for that and i dont fall for that shit..he has a reputation of being a player, etc..im scared ill be his next "victim"..what should i dO

Try talking to him and telling him how you feel. There may be a chance he wont do that to you (the flirting with every girl) because you two are so close and he wouldn't want to hurt you. But, if I was you I would talk to him and just be like "I know we're really close and everything and you tell me everything, but I'm starting to like you and I just want to know how you feel about me." say something like that and then be like "But, you flirt with a lot of girls and you do have a reputation of being a "player" and I don't want to be your next victim or whatever because I really do like you and I don't want to get hurt..." Just say something like that and how you feel about it all. If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox. Good luck hun tell me how it goes. Hope this helps.

xoxo Kourtney

[view]


(Rating: 5) wow thanks alot i appreciate it...ill think bout what u said i should do cause im alil on tha shy side hehe, thanks so much =]

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker