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Ok well my boyfriend thinks that I dont have enough time to spend with him because I play so many sports. I am on a softball traveling team. Varsity cheerleading. Varsity vollyball. Dance. Gymnastics. Basketball. Swim team and tennis. I dont want to give any of them up with it being my senior year but i am always at practice and i do come see him in between practices and when im not doing anything. I pretty much see him when i need to be sleeping. and he told me today that he thinks that we might break up if i dont give up something. I dont think that is right...We have been together for 6 years...since the seventh grade. And now we are seniors. What should I do???
Thanks...Hotblonde123
I think you should try to talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel, he may think you care more about the sports than you do about him. But, make sure he knows you care about him a lot! Just sit him down and talk to him and tell him everything and try to work it out. Just be like "We've been together for 6 years, thats a long time, so you know how much I care about you! I care about you a lot, its just we're seniors now, and I can't just give up one of my sports, we need to work this out and talk about it. Like, when we would have time to spend time with each other." And you guys should make a list of when you two can see each other and what you two can do when you do see each other. Just try to work it out with him. But don't yell at him, if he starts yelling at you because sometimes that makes the situation worse, because the guy gets mad, you know how stubborn boys can be lol. But just tell him how you feel and stuff. If you still need some more ideas or whatever, just post a message in my inbox. I'll be glad to help you out. Good luck hun!
xoxo Kourtney
(Rating: 5) Thanks.....He knows how i feel and all he plays football and that takes up just as much time as all my sports do. We dont work cause we both come from a very wealthy family so we dont have to. I pretty much see him all day at school and every min I have free when i could be sleeping i am with him. I am at every one of his practices and with him all my free time. so i dont know what to do. I will try and talk to him again. I'll keep u updated. We are gonna go out tonight to dinner he said he has to ask me something. Im scared lol.