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I have been seeing my BF for about 3 months now. I guess I should start off by saying I am 22 (almost) and have had nothing but really horible relationships. I just moved to GA in Feb and I found my current BF. He absoulty wonderful. I have always told past BF I love them. Being with this new guy has be amazing..even for 3 months. I am happier than I have ever been. I didnt know that people like him were really out there. My question is, do you think its too early for me to be in love with him. If not how do I tell him. (he already told me he's falling for me..(he didnt say the L word though) I just dont want to freak him out to bad, only cause of the short time period we have known each other. Please help...Thanks a Bunch xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Christin

You're N.E.V.E.R. too young to fall in love. Yea, its only been 3 months, but thats okay! You can't control who you love, your heart does. And maybe he's thinking the samething you are, he doesn't want to freak you out by saying he loves you, because he seems like a great guy, so maybe he doesn't think you're ready to say it quit yet. Try talking to him and just being like "I know we've only known each other for 3 months, but you make me so happy, I've always had horrible relationships, but this relationship that I'm in right now with you, has been great, you always make me smile. You've told me you're falling for me and I know its only been 3 months, and I don't know how you feel and I'm not sure if you're ready or not to say it, but I do love you, and if you're not in love with me, then we can wait to say it til you're ready!" Just say something like that. Don't say exactly what I said lol, but whatever you heart tells you to say, say that! If you still need help with this, just leave a message in my inbox! Hope this helps and good luck hun!

xoxo Kourtney

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(Rating: 5) Thanks you doll....That helped a lot. xoxoxoxoxo
christin
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