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I'm Jack/Jamie.

I'm 28 years old. I graduated from Michigan State University with my Bachelor of Science in Chemistry. GO GREEN! Now I'm a high school chemistry teacher in New York City living with my husband in a small studio apartment we pay way too much money for.

I've been on this site for 14 years as of March 23, 2020.
You may have seen me as CuxMiBeckNow7, but I've since shortened my name.


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--Jack

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I'm 25/Female and stuck! I'm in a serious relationship, but still haven't completely gotten over my first relationship back in high school. That guy and I don't talk anymore, but he constantly visits my website, so I know he's at least thinking of me too. My question is, is it a bad idea to make contact with him, or am I setting myself for more trouble by just being silent? I guess it depends if you're practical or whimsical, and I'm a little of both.

High school was 7 or 8 years ago, depending on your age as a senior.

Just because he visits your website doesn't mean he's interested in you- maybe he just wants to keep in touch. Maybe you were important to him, and he just likes talking to someone from his past. It's refreshing.

Don't give up your relationship for your past one, unless of course you have complete reason to believe this guy still likes you, and you're ready to give up what you have for what you had.

--Jack
(17/m)

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(Rating: 5) you were completely right, and this situation changed my entire life. I am just now coming back to this site after all this time and I wanted to thank you!
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