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♥ My name is Kelly. I`m 17 years old. I live in a small town in Arizona. I`m a born and raised Christian. I love God, my family, and my friends. I have been through alot throughout my teenage years like from boyfriends, girl drama, loosing mediate family members, moving all the way across the country, starting new schools - making new friends! You can ask me ANYTHING and I will try my hardest to answer your questions. Please, don`t ask stupid questions because i will give you a stupid answer back. You can also email me at xstarbrightbabix@yahoo.com, IM me at xostarbrightbaby, Or my quote site. link is on the right module. =]

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my brother and i were in car accident recently and i was driving and totaled my brand new escalade. my brother told the police and our parents that he was the one driving so i wouldnt get in trouble since i had only had my licnese for a few months and he has had his for about 6 years. i feel horrible about the whole thing. should i tell my parents the truth or just let it be?

Tell your parents soon, don`t hold it off because you will feel even more guilty. ♥

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Are there times in a relationship where a partner may have doubts? I mean I love my boyfriend very much. But I dunno today I just didn't feel good and I just thought he was soo annoying and too touchy and I didn't want to hug him. I'm fine now though and I very much want him to be at my house with me.. Is it just me?

Maybe your spending too much time with him, try cutting it down for a little bit. I get like that with my friends lol. ♥

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after i wash, blow dry, and straighten my hair the good smell of my shampoo is gone. how do i keep the smell of my shampoo in my hair longer?!

It`s the straightner that`s getting rid of the shampoo smell. The only thing I suggest is use a different kind of strong smelling shampoo or just use a really good smelling hairspray and spray your hair after you straighten your hair. ♥

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So i was talking to this guy, hes older than me by 3 years. Well the other day he asked me how old i was again because he forgot and i told him 15 and hes like o gotta go. no jk.. and then i was like alright how old r u again( i was jus making sure) and hes like old enough to know better nah jk again. What did he mean by old enough to know better? Thanks in advance!

That your jailbait. And too young for him. Just be careful. ♥

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heyy guys...theres this guy in my school, well in my class....hes going out with a girl but he kinda likes me and i like him...we always flirt and stuff but i just to know if i should wait for them 2 to break up? Because then it would be like im getting her leftovers but i made it clear to him that im not waiting...im soo confused....i really like him and i always talk to him and he said he doesnt know if hes going to break up with her or not. There is no other cute guys in my whole school except him. What should i do?

Honestly, He`s a jerk and if he didn`t like/love his girlfriend he wouldn`t be with her. And he`s not very trust worthy if he is flirting with you and leading you on when he has a girlfriend. Try to see how it is in his girlfriend`s shoes because if they were to ever break up, you could have to be dealing with the same thing as her. Sounds like your young too. Don`t get impatient and rush things and wait for him. Trust me you deserve better. Looks don`t matter either. Just wait till someone comes to you. ♥

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Okay
I dont think im pregnant,but im paranoid about it.
I had sex with a condom but then got close to doing it again without a condom , but we only did it for like 3 seconds and then I said stop because i was scared.
My boobs have been hurting lately and I had a stomach ache but I didnt throw up.
He tells me he thinks im fine and i hope hes right.

What should I do??

Since it was only 3 seconds you can`t get pregnant, thinking about it will make you scared and make you think and feel you are. Just relax and wait. If you feel still feel worried take a pregnancy test or wait till you get your period. Hope this helps. ♥

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So me and my best friend lisa like these two boys named andrew and justin. They talk to us and justin likes lisa but i mean i just stared talking andrew like two weeks ago. we have like EVERYTHING in common and hes nice and funny and know how to make me smile. Me Lisa, Justin, and Andrew are all in chorus together and like everyday after chorus for like 3 days we have gave Justin and Andrew stickers. and today i was walking with them and lisa gave justin one and adrian heard it and hes like STICKERS! and im like yup and gave it to him and it said "never forget your special" and hes like awee thanks! :]
and he like walked by and looked at me and halfish smiledish and i was just wondering if it sounds at alll like he likes me i have no ideaa tho. how would i know?

Sounds like he`s into you. Just flirt with him alot more and eventually tell him you like him or wait till he does. :] ♥

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Well, I'm fine with like, my stomach and everything, it's not that. It's the sides of my stomach, the hips. I know they go out because of curves and everything, but there's just a little more skin there then I like. Whenever I wear jeans [ and they're my size perfectly ], it looks as if the sides of my stomach are like, overlapping it, but it's just because of the extra skin. Is there any way to work that off?

They're called love handles and alot of people have them. All I can suggest is too work out, lay on your side and lift one leg up repeately and then switch legs. I don`t know what the excersize is but just try that and excersize once a day. :] ♥

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well...i think i like this kid named connor (im a girl by the way) but i also think i like this kid named darryl. im not sure which one that i really like.

well connor is alot like me..but darryl is different, not to mention i barely know anythink about him!!!

help me decide which 1 i like!!

I suggest you get to know darryl more, then decide which one you want to be with. ♥

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I have little bumps all over my neck, shoulders, chest, and back. They totally gross me out, however they don't pop like acne, and acne medicine doesn't clear them up. Are they pimples or are they something else? How do I get rid othem?

Sounds like either heat rash or stress pimples. Let your body air out over night, try wearing a tank top to bed. If it doesn`t go away after a while maybe go to a doctor and see if they can give you medicine or see what it is. Hope this helps. ♥

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I'm not sure if this goes here... but oh well
I need help falling asleep. i always try to fall asleep but end up falling asleep at like 2 am!! Now that schools starting, I would like to sleep. lol. Can somebody give me advice on how to relax and fall asleep for school? Please help and thanks a lot!

I had the same problem but now i`m at a rountine of going to bed at 9 oclock and getting 8 hours of sleep. DON`T take naps after school because your body will refresh and be full of energy that you won`t be tired for school. An hour before your bedtime, read a book, write in a journal/diary, or lay down. DON`T play on the computer, watch tv, eat and drink something, or anything else. Shut your bedroom door with no lights or music on in your room. And relax. Try different things everynight too like one night try music on to put you too sleep and if it doesn`t work try another thing like no music. Hope you can fix your sleeping problem.:] Message me if you want some more advice. ♥

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Hi there xostarbrightbaby!
Thought I'd take you up on your offer and ask for some more advice:)
Glad that you and the other advice columnists didn't think I was over-reacting - I was beginning to think it was just me!
Haven't talked to either my boyfriend or girlfriend yet - working up to it, or maybe I feel like I need some kinda proof before I confront them?
My mind keeps replaying how Alice touched Matt's face, and how he pulled her hat down over her head for her.....I consider touching someone's face to be *really* intimate - you don't do it to just anyone, do you? I know I don't let just anyone touch my face, anyway - what d'you think?
I'm rambling now, so I'll shut up!
Thanks for listening xoxo

I think it was mean how she did that too him and it is alittle bit intimate touching someone`s face. Just the next time you hang out and she does something like that be like what the hell? why are you touching my boyfriend and flirting with him. Just take things slow right now. If it goes to far with them flirting break up with your boyfriend and dump your friend. Hope things work out. ♥

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I have start school again on Wednesday, and all the girls in my grade are starting to wear makeup and jewelry, but I am more or the sporty kind, What should I do

You don`t have to dress like them to fit in the crowd. But if you want just wear very little make-up like cover-up and mascara. If you play sports it won`t be that much make up to sweat off. Hope this helps. ♥

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This boy likes me but I only think of him as a brother. He confessed to me but what should I say to him?

Tell him you only see him as a brother type of friend, and only like him as friend. ♥

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hey iam 17 and in the 11th grade and there's this girl at school who's constantly picking on me she's always picking on me about my clothes and i havn't talked to her about it yet and I don't know what to do iam sick of what should I do please help me?

Go up to her, tell her off, and walk away. Don`t look like it bothers you because she will keep doing it. If it continues tell a teacher or another person at school. Hope things work out. If you need any more advice or have questions leave me a message in my inbox and i`ll try to help out. ♥

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I have a scab on my face (from a pimple) it's not very big, but it's raised off my skin, it's like bumpy. Is there any way I can make it not pop out so much.

I had one and I just put neosporin on it 2-3 times a day and it will go away in like a week or so. Don`t pick at it either. ♥

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i really like this boy and i think he likes me to but hes just to afraid to tell me that he likes me. I've likes him ever since last year when we were 9th graders he always messed with me but even since he found out i liked him we really don't talk no more and he comes up and messes with me whenever he feels like it. Is there something wrong here or is he just afraid of telling me he likes me?

Maybe he`s not really looking for a relationship just a hook up or "friends with benefits". He could also be afraid to tell you he likes you. If he doesn`t stop ask him why he always messes with you. Or get a friend or someone to ask if he likes you. Hope things work out. ♥

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I think my boyfriend and one of my best friends may have feelings for each other. They've always been friendly with each other, but lately it's more than that. They're always really playful - joking/laughing together, and they've been quite touchy feely of late, too. The other day I watched them when they thought I wasn't looking, and she said something to him and he started laughing like it was the funniest thing ever and he kinda slapped/punched her on the shoulder. Then he pulled her woolen hat down over the back of her head for her....the whole time I watched she was fiddling/playing with his jacket, and she even touched his face a couple times.....
Am I totally over-reacting here? Maybe they're innocent? What do I do?

Sounds like they might like eachother. The only way you can find out is if you ask your boyfriend or best friend. Be honest with them too. I don`t think you are over reacting. Maybe try only hanging out with your boyfriend for awhile? Hope this helps. Send me a message in my inbox if you have any more questions or need some more advice. ♥

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When i start school in a couple of days, I want to start eating breakfast (because i usually dont) so that my metabolism is faster and maybe i can lose weight. What are the best kinds of food you can eat to make that happen?

I don`t know many kinds of food, but DIET green tea is the best way to help boost your metabolism and clean out your body. Try eating just fruit, and a glass of milk or juice in the morning. :] ♥

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Okay i have this good friend of mine and well i wanna get closer with her before i ask her out, please advise a few ways i can do this without letting on that i like her

Try to hang out with her more- with friends or just alone. Call her. Send her messages on her cellphone, aim, or email. Flirt with her ALOT & after a while ask her out on a date. :] ♥

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