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hey iam 17 and in the 11th grade and there's this girl at school who's constantly picking on me she's always picking on me about my clothes and i havn't talked to her about it yet and I don't know what to do iam sick of what should I do please help me?
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dont blow up on the girl because she is weaker then you. thats why she has to result to petty things like that. dont worry about her because as you live your life she wont even matter. shes just another person just like you. she has no authority over you. so dont let it bother you. dont fear her either. if you cant help it think of why its bothering you so much. then rationalize it. who is she but a person. shes not above anyone including yourself. so pretend that shes invicible. i want to say something else but im not sure of profanity policy here so ill say forget her and you can probably guess what i really meant to put instead of forget. if you really feel the need to confront her just straight out ask her without losing your temper keep calm and just ask what is your problem. if she give you an insult or snotty response then that tells you what her brain is capable of. not much. but dont lower your self and name call her. its just highschool and after you graduate youll realize that the things that seem like big deals now wont mean any thing. after you graduate you probably wont even see her if you can even remember her clearly.
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Go up to her, tell her off, and walk away. Don`t look like it bothers you because she will keep doing it. If it continues tell a teacher or another person at school. Hope things work out. If you need any more advice or have questions leave me a message in my inbox and i`ll try to help out. ♥
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She is ugly and insecure inside. Tell her to losen up and have a little fun in life. If picking on your clothes makes her day, then her day must not be that fun.
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