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I already asked for some help on this before and this I Wat it said:I hav a friend and she is just so annoying sometime. First it was copying me, she takes my ideas from OUR blog and uses it on her own blog and now everytime I tell her I like something she all of a sudden likes it or she goes to the store and gets it ( which sucks cause I don't hav the money to get it). And ever since she moved into this big house I feel like she thinks she all rich an that she can get anything she wanted and stuff. I just hate it and everytime I try to tell her at church she never shows up cause her parents r having problems. And I don't want to tell her over the phone because thats not a good way to talk about this and wen ever I try to give her a hint she's like I'm Srry and that all she says. And I can't plan a day with her because she has to go to her brothers football practice all week every week. And I don't have any way to get in contact with her. And plus she has something wrong with her neck so I don't want her to be stressing cause she has so much going on like her parents, football practice, her neck, school, and then once I tell her she's gonna be tired and I still want to b her friend but I don't kno what else I can do to keep our friendship and tell her how I feel.
And someone did answer me and they said to tell her how I feel. So I did and she asked me to give her 5 reasons y she's annoyin and I couldn't think of more than 3 so she got mad so i txt her the story above to help her understand more and she got even madder because i but her bussiness out there so i told her tht i didnt put her name in i or anything but she still got mad at me. Then she said tht she doesn't want to tlk bout it anymore. But I really do cuz I want to try to help the friendship but she won't let me. And now she's even busier with school just starting and she still doesn't come to church and she can't txt me because she's always going places and she can't txt me from her IPod. So I can't even get intouch wit her.and even wen we get a chance to tlk she'll tlk and then as soon as I say something she doesn't like she says go to go. And plus she gives up to easily wen I tell her something and she doesn't get it the first time she'll just say forget it. She's one of my best dr friends and I don't want to lose it and it will b even harder cuz web she does come to church I hav to deal wit her. Hope this is eough info. Someone please help (link)
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forgive and forget,she sounds likeshes going through some problems and idolizes u.
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So, Im a 13 year old girl who cuts. I started at 11. Its nothing big. Im happy most of the time. Except at home. Im not looking for people judging. I have about 7 people i talk to about everything. But only 2 know it all. Im just wondering, what to do? How can i stop? Is there an easy way out? How do i avoid questions about scars? Do i just say i cut myself? Or do i stay silent? What can i do to get rid of the scars? Someone?? (link)
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i started at about the same age as u am 13 now and have so mant sdcars i cant count in never hsappy any more and have deppression.mayby u do too.dont stay silent.my parents found out when they saw a cut on my wrists.im seeking therapy but dont really want to stop.seek therapy and figure out why you do this and stop watever it is.
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Do you know there's such a thing as a Gothic Metalhead? I myself am a GOTHMETAL HEADBANGER. That's another subculture in the Goth lifestyle. What do you think of Gothmetal heads and y? (link)
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its choice music and keep listening becouse it only gets beetter :p
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I am 13/f and I have been a vegitarian for almost a week now, but I havent told my parents... Whenever they have a meal containing meat, I tell them Im not hungry or just eat whatever they have with the meat like potatoes, corn, peas, ect. I dont exactally know how to tell my parents I want to be a vegitarian though. PLease help (link)
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its not as if ur admitting to a drug addiction just say u are and ull be fine :)
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how so i kill myself with out pain (link)
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others will be in pain becouse they miss you so its impossible :P
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i dont know what to do! im eleven and my mom wont let me dye my hair! its brown and i want an orangey red kind of color. thoughts? (link)
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im 13 my hair was blood red and blonde now its drk purple all over with some black talk to your mom about it and mayby shell let you use temepory dye or u could use fake hair which is fun
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Hi,Im Jazz a 14year old female,who has alot of different problems in her life.
First off every since I was about 7 or 8 my parents would argue alot.They would try to go into another room so we couldnt hear but we always did.I would always go to my room and cry because I hate arguing.It got so bad they werre planning to leave eachother.They would ask me and my older brother who we want to have custody of us,which would just start another arguement and me crying again.
Then maybe a few months later I went to school one day,and the teacher told me my bff died.Then a few months after that my grandad who I loved very much died.I would cry at the thought of him.
The arguing got worst.They hated eachother.And one day I went to my dad and he was crying.That really broke me.
But thats not even the worst part of everything.A year after the arguing everything was going great.The arguing stopped and I guess they loved eachother again.
But when I was twelve everything changed for the worst.I had started self injurying myself anyway I could.I would stab myself burn myself and other things.But the worst part was the cutting.I would cut almost everday.Why?
Because I was stressed out or depressed as people say I am.So cutting helped alot.It started off with one cut and me saying I wont do it again but I did.And it quickly became my addiction.I did it almost everday.
Then I stopped eating about five months ago.I havent lost alot of weight if you ask me.
Now comes the part where on top of all of my problems my mom expects meto be perfect.If I dont get on the honor roll Im not trying my hardest.If one grade slips Im on punishment.If my rooms not squeky clean Im on punishment.If I dont wanna be a nurse Im wasting my life.
Just because I love rock,heavymetal,death metal,screamo and music like that Im demonic.
And to top it off I planned how to kill myself tons of times but never did.
Do I have rpoblems?Should I get help? (link)
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ima 13 yr old female my familys the same way i cut evey day starting when i was 11 and you can never be perfect.yea my parents think im demonic becouse i like that kind of music but its what i like and has nohting to do with self harm.its dangerous and hard to stop.go to a therapist,i thi that would be soo good for you to let it all out and help solve your problems.do your parents know about your problem?email me for support if you think ittl help,but therapy and mayby telling some one would probably help yu a lot.you like black veiled brides?their anti self harm some of their songs will calm you down their metal try listening to bvb carolyn it kinda helps
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Im 13/f and Ive been thinking of going vegitarian for about a week. The only meat I really like is hot dogs and bacon... I love animals alot and I just dont want to eat them anymore. How can I tell my parents this? How can I keep up protein if I dont eat meat? I only really like carrots, potatoes, corn, cucumber, and peas as veggies. What are good meals I can have as a vegitarian? How can I tell my mom and dad? I have a friend who is a vegitarian and I told my mom she is and my mom said "its a stage you go through" but I dont want to eat meat anymore :/ Help> (link)
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im a 13 yr old female and am a semi vegitarian and waiting to become a full time vegatarian when im ready.i only eat fish and chicken incredably rarly like once a week and im fine.ive been doing this for about 3 years by my own choice and my family are big meat consumers,u may want to consider slowly stopping eating meat instead of an all out shut down to avoid getting too thin at your age. i hate meat but used to never having it so im fine,and yes it is a stage some people go through but stick with it and ull be fine
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My best friend is copying me.
Ugh it's just everything I do, everything I say.
Whenever I start obsessing over something, she obsesses over it to.
She crushes on my crushes-fine-but then she says really stupid and irritating things like "We SHARE Johnny."
Like, WHAT!?
She knows NOTHING about Harry Potter, but she claims she is a witch-like me-and goes on about it. And the worst thing is this: My OTHER friend who HATES Harry Potter asks her "do you like Harry Potter"?" and I heard her reply is "no"
She does that ALL the time. Let's call her F and my other friend A. A hates the shops that I shop in, F claims to love them (after I told her that i shop in them) and then A (who is quite popular) says she DOESN'T like them and F agrees. Then F tells me how she thinks that A has bad taste. I asked her about this once and she said she just doesn't want to get in a fight.
I'm not an emo but people say I am and F thinks I am (I don't say anything about it) so F goes on about how emo she is and everything, when she's clearly not.
This time, it's my Pirates of the Caribbean obsession. I know how to play the theme tune on the piano, I have a Captain Jack hat, etc. I am a huge POTC fan. And now she's saying that she is as well.
She hasn't even watched all of them. She just emailed me, like right now, "Am watching potc 1. Biggest fan ever."
NO. NO. NO. NO. NO.
And also, I started reading the LotR books, everyone called me a nerd including her, now she is reading them too, but tells me not to tell anyone, but also tells me she's a bigger fan than I am because she "wants to marry Legolas"
She really gets on my nerves.
Another annoying thing she does is yells out everything that I say to her.
You know when you say something incredibly stupid and embarrassing without thinking? That happens all the time to me. She just tells everyone unless I grab her by the arm and drag her out of the room, begging her to shut up about it. THEN she shuts up.
Despite all this...she's a good friend. She sticks up for me and everything.
But I just need some advice...how shall I deal with her annoyingness? (link)
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ive had friends like this and it is annoying.i am emo,and a lot of people do copy me even though im not popular watsoever and i just ignore their attitude and make new friends.i would ditch this girl and hang out with some new people that may not want to idolize you but u get along with.this girl sounds very irrratating,and i wouldnt be able to stand her.maybe try some new things,and she wont copy.this happened to me and people told me that copping is the best form of flattery,so she probably just idolizes you.
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iwas just wondering how peoples day was because mine is fine
sohows your day going?:}
thanks:}{; (link)
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ok i geuss.enjoy tommorow as well
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I'm 12 years old I wish I could have a better life artsy girl can you talk to me please
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email me if you want help,i am going through the same thing i am also a 12 year old girl and am uncontent letmebe44@gmail.com
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hi im 12/f,
in two days its going to be my bday usually im extremely excited but not this time:”(
well im really sad because my brother is treating me like crap and all i hear is 'your not gettin anything' from my families mouth like idk wat to do now _ im always like “wtf ma mom should've aborted me”;{
im at the point where idk wat 2 do with my life;{
any advice????:}
THANKS!!!!!!! (link)
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ur obviusly just letting what your brother said just get to you.if it make you feel any better i got a bottle of mascara for my birthday from my mom and i asked her why and she said i was ingrateful for the one thing i got for my irthday.im not ecited about my 13th either and mines in 3 weeks and i geuss thats just hoe some people are.
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If I see a fish Drowning in the water how can I save him from drowning? (link)
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i dunnno u need to add air to the water and get a bubbler
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Anyone know where I can watch online and for free??? (link)
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this is my fav show and you can watch it on the website for thr channel fx for free
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i am 13 and i just started cutting myself on my wrist i mean they arent deep but there still cuts idk what to do bc it feels so good but i really want to stop i look at the cuts and i do it again i use bobby pins what should i do i told my mom and dad anad there getting me help but i dont think thats going to help ill still do it what should i do ?
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wre the same age but ive been doin it for over 2 years.i havent quit but ive gone to therapy all summer and it has only gotten worse.i dont use bobby pins and neither should u.they can get infected easier and are made of weird metals.the only reason im alive is becouse ive learned how to stay safe and have gotten help.use bandeges,neopsporin to fade the scars and know when youve cut too deep and go to the hospital then.im not saying u should cut yourself and nobody should ever and i hate myself for it but i think i can help u stop with ways ive seen others who just started cutting quit.if you want more advice email me at letmebe @gmail. commm
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so ive been writing poems and i was wondering if you could read them and tell me what you think:)
they're kind of depressing..
Her skin tells her story
Her arms recite her past
Her face is full of sorrow
Her smile will never last
What once started out so simple
Soon spiraled out of control
She thought she’d never let it go too far
But she was lost after her first scar
She mistakenly turned to a sick obsession
She found release in her own pain
She used her blade as her own weapon
And could breathe from the scarlet stain
If you looked at her you’d never know
She never lets her pain show
She hides behind laughter and smiles
All her problems look so mild
So when she tells you her story
When she admits to her past
Maybe you’ll understand her sorrow
And why her smile never lasts
her arms are scarred and bloody
her face is black and blue
her feet are wet and muddy
and theres nothing she can do
shes blinded by her tears
shes chained up to the wall
but in the darkness she can hear
footsteps in the hall
silently she waits
for the opening of the door
the withered face of sorrow
greets her with hands that are torn
she counts her highest heart beats
and swallows every breath
opening her eyes slowly
she stares into the face of death
no one can ever guess
the secrets within a knife
he presses the blade to her chest
and slowly ends her life
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wow this is great!this hit me hard becouse i suffer what the girl in your poem is going through.you nailed it.weird to see it all written down though.have you gone truogh this?becouse its hard to write like that if u just explaining someone els........join a poetry website and share theese
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lets call my friend D.
here's our conversation-ps: im keeping the fact that she had sex and shes 12 a secret. im 13)
D: dont tell anyone
me: i know i know.
D: even R -her friend- doesnt know.
me: ok. i dont get it. im secretly friends with both of you. im friends with you but she cant know. and im friends with her but you cant know. why cant we all be friends?
d: because we dont like you.
this made me cry because it hurt me because they're my only friends and schools starting soon.:( i have a disorder where the slightest insult wouldmake me cry. im not sure what its called, but this expecially hurt me. what should i say to her? I was going to say-
if you dont like me then you shouldnt have told me you had sex. it'd be too bad if i accidentally emailed those to everyone, huh?
but that sounds dumb, doesnt it? i just feel so upset because of her. (link)
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it sound sounds like saying that would just make things worse and if this happened to me i would not like it if you said that
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Hi!
there are some days I feel tired and fat. I am just a teen and I bet I don't have diabetes. What could it be? (link)
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no offense and im no doctor but maybe try going for a jog or some thing and it will give you energy and make you feel better about yourself.
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If you dye your hair with kool-aid how long does it stay in.?:) (link)
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it depends on your hair color and texture-the lighter and thinner the hair the more it will stick.i had a friend whos kool-aid hair dye stayed in for over a year.
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I am Junior in High School and I have been contemplating suicide for a few years. This year, it's appeared in my thoughts more often than previous years. I am drowning in my own misery and I wish I could silence this storm in my mind. I feel empty and yet I have a loving family and a wonderful girlfriend. Nothing heart-wrenching has occurred recently and I have no idea why I feel this pain. I know how selfish it is, but I'm very puzzled. Often, I feel like I'm the source of disappointment and pain of all whom I love. This "feeling" has consumed me completely and I've cut many relationships with family and friends. But, no one takes my struggle seriously and some even encourage it. I don't know what to do with myself.
I just want to disappear for a while or sleep. I just feel so dead and empty but everything is going so well. The other day, I carelessly plugged in a rice cooker with wet hands and it sparked, but I was unharmed. I was verbally scolded and as I ignored it the only words that I heard were, "I don't give a damn about that thing! It's you I'm worried about! That's replaceable, but there's only one you!"
That makes me want to kill myself all the more. (link)
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your depressed and ive gone through this,and ive been prescribed meds.it may just be a faze.try journaling and talking to a friend about it.maby you just need to relize how missed youd be.
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