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My friend, K, has a boyfriend, J, all of us [like our whole group] hate him. If he's making fun of us she'll tell him to stop, he will, but only for like 20 minutes. She really likes him. But hes sooo mean! He makes fun of me like 24/7. Honestly, this is kind of bitchy but, i've got the prettiest face, but i don't have a boobs of a butt. They do. Thats why they get all the guys. It's annoying. It's seriously getting to the point where i'd rather be alone all summer than have to go somewhere where J is going to be. K, i don't know. Were becoming closer and stuff, but this is ruining our friendship. I can't do anything without hearing some comeback from J or any other guys. ANd then if i sit there and be quiet, then they make fun of me for being 'shy' but i'm not. I hate this. I have small boobs, they have big boobs. THey like my friends better than me. But, thats only ucz my friends let everyone have it. LIke, S, she lets guys do anything with her. BUt then she crys when everyone finds out and ppl stop likeing her. SHE BRINGS IT ON HERSELF!
what can i do?
I'm so close to just telling k that i can't hang out with her if shes with j.
should i?
any advice is helpful.
oh, and am i wrong to be mad?
am i overreacting?
No, You are NOT over reacting at all and yes you have the right to be mad, and TIRED especially.
Your friendship is with K, not J so why is it a necessity to hang with J also? Tell K that you have nothing against her and that you prefer not to be around J, and that you aren't going to be around J period. Tell her that your friendship with her is your friendship with her and that you and her will talk, or hang when time allows her to hang with you instead of U and J? If she is really your friend she will accept and understand this.
If they are only getting guys b/c of boobs and butts then you don't want any of those guys anyway b/c we know what they are after and what they want so stand above that and do not lower yourself to fit in. If the ones you hang with are permiscious (sexually active with whoever and whatever), then please re-evaluate who you hang with if you are different. What would you have in common with girls who do it with anyone? The prettiest face means NOTHING, who has the prettiest inside? Now, that's what counts - people who notice outter beauty only will not notice, accept OR UNDERSTAND inner beauty. you feel me?
I don't know how K is, but if she too is like that, you may want to re-evaluate your friendship with her too. Also, rumors are vicious but when it isn't a rumor based on truth and not hear say it's more vicious. If someone doesn't want their business out there or talked about then don't do it or put it out there. remember that.
I have an associate that I don't talk to or see as much b/c her boyfriend is childish, abusive, and immature and I don't like being around him, as I have nothing in common with him, I told her that I wouldn't be around her if he is there and I don't - that's simple- she respects and understands it, so now we are no longer friends, but we are only associates now - she chose to hang with him all the time, and hang or talk to me whenever he isn't around - if this is something you are willing to accept based on your decision to demand respect for yourself so be it! Also, those who stand for nothing, fall for anything. Be happy, respectful, and love who you are as a person let NO ONE put you down or cause you to feel bad about what you have or don't have physically or materialistic. If the other people in the group like being teased, called out or made the joke of the group, then that's on them - doesn't mean you have to!
good luck
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Attached are 3 links to your request.
I am a vegetarian and I want to try to become vegan (meaning I wont eat any dairy products and eggs) I got soy cheese for home. I need substitutes for eggs. What are some and where can I get them?
At the local grocery store. You may also try searching in health sections of the store. Krogers has a great section for organic,vegetarian and vegan foods. Your local health stores do too.
I have a step brother that is 5 and we see him alot since incidentally we live next door to my dad and step mom (weird i no...) and every time he sees my mom pull in the drive way he shouts her name and only wants her and ignors me. same with if he is playing with my brother he only wants him. I dont know if he doesnt like me or what? What can i do so he will want me instead?
Wants you instead--- that bothers me. It isn't about him wanting you more or less, it's not about competition, it's about compatibility and compassion. He is only 5 years old and he is most likely uncomfortable with you or needs to get to know you a little better so encourage that and make it happen. Spend some time with him. Take him to the park, play with him, read books to him. At his age, it's important to enocurage and promote family (even as strange as it seems to live next door to each other) - make it a positive situation instead of a weird one. Buy him a toy, candy, chips, something that 5 years olds like and talk to him. When he yells for your mom, speak to him or go over and talk to him, try to hold his hand, ask him what he likes so you can find out his interest and take it from there.
Make sure you're not going through any type of jealousy thing because if you are, I am sure he picks up on it b/c it displays as negative and he is too young to understand that and so he may be thinking you don't like him so check that, and change that.
Good Luck and remember it is important to always be a role model!
13/f
ok
so i like this guy named sam
all day today we have talked on myspace
mostly abotu music and summer
i mean we talked all day
i really like him, but i am not sure how e feels about me. How do I hint to him that i want to know how he feels about me without official asking him?
or are there any other tips
we have a lot in common
but so does him and this girl named racheal
and i wanna let him know that i am interested by flirting.... help please
and plesae dont say ask to hang out.. because that seems like i am asking him otu and i always let boys make that move
Why hint? Be upfront and honest about it. I tell people all of the time that a closed mouth doesn't get fed. If you don't say anything, how is supposed to know how you feel and that you are interested?
I understand about you always let the boys make the first move - So don't ask him out. Telling him that you are interested in him isn't a move, it's simply letting him know that you are attracted to him, and his style and that you are interested in getting to know him better. So, why not go ahead and ask him and let him tell you where is with this? maybe he likes you too but you aren't going to know unless you tell him. You said you talk all the time anyway, so just call him if you have his number. If not, tell him when you're on line and ask for the number. DON'T ask him out, let him ask you out once you have shared your interest.
If he doesn't like you in the way that you like him, then it's OK, you still have your friendship. It's a simple yes or no situation, nothing to be scared, shy or alarmed about. "smile" Go for it and good luck. Oh, about Rachel, so what if they have things in common, as long as they aren't already dating, or seeing each other then she has nothing to do with you and him, this is between the two of you.
Good Luck!!
k...so u said 2 meet him face 2 face i plan on doin that but do you think itll be a good idea 2 invite my friend
talk to him or how is he gonna know u like him? DO NOT TAKE NOBODY WITH YOU. Keep people out of this it's between you and him. Are you from Louisiana, cause you said Chea? LOL my best friend is from there and says Chea all the time. smile. Anyway, go ahead and call him since you don't want talk to him face to face yet but you are going to end up talking face to face anyway so why not go ahead and get it over with now to feel comfortable. He is shy too and is hoping you holla at him for real, so step it up and let's get it. You are not a baby anymore and can't act like one, especially if you like someone. you feel me? You are a young lady, chea. So, Act like one and step up to the plate and tell this young man what's up and how you feel.. If you don't someone else will and then you are going to regret it if he hooks up with someone else cause you didn't say anything. Email me let me know what's up sophia_pettus@yahoo.com. GOOD LUCK AND KEEP ME POSTED, GIRL, TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL.... and you feel so much better and HAPPY.. Do you want me to tell him for you? if you do, I will. just email me and let me know. I got your back!!!
in RE: to the advice you gave on my inducing labor naturally question ; I was told to wait it out or seek natural ways but she told me to look in my pregnancy book for that, but I've seen nothing. She said she wouldn't think about inducing labor until nearly 43 weeks..I don't want to wait! Call me impatient but its to a point where I feel miserable and its unbearable to sleep or do anything.,
I've tried the nipple stimulation but I really think I am doing it wrong because nothing is happening.
Walking..I don't do much of that because I've got so much pressure down there already.
I am checking on u to see if you are OK. Usually there is NOTHING IN those books! I had sex and went into labor the same night. Call a mid-wife and ask her for suggestions too. My wid-wife told me to have sex and it worked. GOOD LUCK and keep me posted.. sophia_pettus@yahoo.com
I'm overdue..whats some natural ways to induce labor?
I've heard about nipple stimulation - tried it, didn't work..or I'm not doing it right..I am at the point now where I am miserable and sick of being pregnant..I want my baby out so I can return to normal and complete my family.
Please tell me how I do what you suggest because obviously my own blunders didn't work to well.
Thanks so much.
Well- this is going to all sound real stupid but I promise it works.
Sex induces labor
Castor Oil (1 teaspoon)mixed with orange juice
Walking
Nipple Stimulation does work sometimes, it causes chemicals to go through the body because of the arousal which causes contractions.
Being that you are over due is there a reason that the doctor hasn't induced your labor in the hospital? They will use some medication on a string Pitocin (I am unsure of the spelling)and insert it in you, it starts dialation with an IV also.
Let me know if that helps.. if it doesn't let me know - sophia_pettus@yahoo.com
good luck!
Um, I am horrible with computers...so bare with me.
It's a desktop. On the screen corner, it says HP vs19e. On the box with the power button and CD slot and stuff says Microsoft Windows XP MEdia CEnter Edition & on the bottom it says HP Pavilion a1630n
That's about all the information I can get you on the computer...it's running on Windows XP...
Um, well, the computer used to be really fast and good with working well. For the past several days (maybe like 2 weeks?) it's been going really slow & it kept on "freezing" for like 2 min then going back to its slow state but never fast again. Well, my mom restarted the computer today and it has like one user setting so it goes straight to the screen with the screen saver thing on there...not the screen with buttons to choose which user you are. Well, anyways as soon as it gets restarted, it freezes. Usually, AIM would come on then something with MioNet then the MSN application then WeatherBug Desktop thing. Well, AIM comes up then it freezes. We can't move the mouse, the keys aren't working (I can't press esc or del+ctrl_alt or the start menu button or anything!) The mouse won't move at all and it's not responding to anything. We've tried to restart it, unplugged and replugged the mouse thing to the box and stuff but it's not working =/ What can I do to get it work or what's wrong with it?
15/f
p.s. Sorry if I gave you a bunch of random, useless information but I don't know computers and I don't know if you need this or not so better give you everything I know then not enough...also, sorry about the confusing descriptions...I don't know the correct terms =X
It sounds like you have contracted a virus in your computer, especially if you are downloading a lot of things on it. OR the CPU unit has gone out, which will end up requiring a new one.
If you have a geek squad where you live, it is best to call them out to take a look at it. If there is no geek squad there, contact the place you got the computer from for details on who to work with to get the bug removed or system cleaned. If you have an option to scan for a virus you can also do this, but it will require getting past the screen saver. You can click on whatever security or firewall you have on the system - or nortons if you have it on there.
Good Luck I hope they can bring it back to life and that you haven't lost everything on there.
I just graduated Highschool this past may and i want to get a place of my own and move in with one of my friends becouse iam not going to be able to live by myself what i want to know is what kind of bills would i have to pay i need to know all of them so i would know how much it would cost me to live on my own and what kind of stuff would i need to buy for the house and i want an estimate amount of how much it would cost.
It's hard living on your hard. So far as prices of living are concerned, it's based on what city and/or state you reside.
I moved out on my own at the age of 17. I had a baby, and I have lived on my own every since. Why not go to college, since you just graduated from highschool? This would give you the experience of living on your own in addition to getting an idea of how to budget wisely so that you can pay bills when you get an apartment of your own. I am listing bills that I have always had to pay associated with living on your own:
rent or mortgage
rentors or home owners insurance
Electric bill
Water bill
Cable bill
Phone bill
Sewage & trash bill if not included with the water bill
Stuff you need to buy for the house: things your parents' had in their houses, (essentials) not like china cabinets and all the luxurious things - economical, things to get ya by - toiletries, eating utensils, pots, pans,microwave - oh and find out if you have to have your own refrigerator and/or stove. if you need more detail, email me - sophia_pettus@yahoo.com
I do want to encourage you to go to college- life is hard enough out here without a college degree, it will be hard to make the $ you deserve to make - even consider a technical college or community college if you don't want to attend an university
so i like this guy...oh right im 14 a girl hes 14 too...so ive known him 4 bout 2 years now and we would talk alot but then we stoped when the new school year started because he was i dnt know popular i guess and so then in the last weeks of school i got a myspace 4 the 1st time...so we start talkin alot and we find alot in commen i start callin him my brother because i loved him like a brother at that time but the more we talk the more that lovin feeling escalaited 2 a more i like him i wanna go out w/ him...i wanna tell him but im a big wussy....what can i do? i think he kinda likes me i dnt know 4 sure but we talk lots we wanna hang out but some how we cant because our plans get messed up...and he had a crush on some girl but he asked her out and she said no beacuse she dnt like him...i asked him if she still likes her but last time i asked he said yes...but he hasnt seen her and i dnt know....every time i talk 2 him i wanna say i love you but thats just stupid so i dnt....what can i do?:/
xuya
LOL.. First, calm down- you have so many thoughts and emotions running through your head right now. "smile" I feel them.
First - you don't love him, but you do like him a WHOLE LOT. We'll call it "In like, instead of "in love" how's that?
Since you guys are already friends and talk alot, tell him that you have something very important and personal to talk to him about - (do it face to face)Meet up with him somewhere (a park is nice) or at the skating place. Tell him that you have liked him for more than a friend and how long you have liked him. Let him know that if he only likes you as a friend, that you understand and respect that and stay cool with him but don't develop anymore feelings if he isn't going to reciprocate (give them back).
The other girl is somewhat irrelevant at this point because she doesn't like him back - so she isn't a factor so don't even bring her up - you feel me? Now, if he brings her up, then you know what's up so go ahead and cancel that thought of hooking up with him. Tell him what you are feeling whenever you talk to him, think of him or see him. AGAIN - FACE TO FACE not over the phone or on the computer either. "So, that he takes you seriously" You seem kind of emotional to me, so try not to start crying when you are talking to him. You aren't stupid, actually you are smart for even having guts to ask the question which also makes you completely opposite of being a wussy!! Know that, miss thang! "smile"
Also, something else that I think is really cool if you don't want to verbally tell him - Make him a cd of songs that identify what you are feeling for him. It will take some time to find songs that fit right into the level you are on, but none the less, make the cd and give it to him. Tell him there's something you wanna talk to him about but only after he listens to the cd you made especially for him.
Good luck and let me know what happened! sophia_pettus@yahoo.com
My Bf cheated on me when I was 7 months pregnant. He actually slept with the giel who later claimed she was pregnant from him. He later on told after I had our baby at 7 months pregnant. Now i don't know what to do. I want to wrk things out and put this behind me but I can't. We have two kids toghther and we've been with each other for 3yrs. Its so hard to let go of him when we have kids together.I really feel confused and hurt. I don't know if he'll do it again. i want to leave but I"m stuck....
Damn.
I KNOW exactly what you are feeling and It is going to hurt me to have to open up this door of communication with you, but it needs to be done. I am actually going to give you my email address too so we can talk more b/c I am not going to go into depth on this web page.
A man who cheats on you, will do it again, over and over until he feels condemned within his self not to do it. A man who cheats on you while you are pregnant has No respect for you or the unborn child, to add insult to injury there were already children in the picture, which means he had no respect for them either - Why? B/C he doesn't respect himself. If this girl claimed she was pregnant by him, then we know he used NO protection which put you and your unborn at a risk - he didn't think about that because he is selfish.
I know that it's hard to let go because of time invested, and I also know that you will not be able to fully forgive because you won't be able to trust him as you once did. You will worry yourself to the upmost and never have peace within yourself. You will stay in the relationship, not being to believe him or in him or trust him ever again because he betrayed you and your family and your life together as a family.
It hurts like hell to be dogged. I was married and he dogged me too. We have 3 kids together,we married in 2001, I divorced him in 2005, I couldn't let go completely but I had to let go. I let go and stopped talking to him for a little over a year, and ended up messing around with his lying tail again, it becomes a cycle. He was my highschool sweetheart and we had been involved for 17 years, and married for 4 years only. I NEVER KNEW or thought that he would ever cheat on me. When he cheated on me, I found out on my own because I felt it and went in his cell phone and his email and there it was! he still tried to denie it until the girl emailed me back and told it.
This is a cycle to see how far they can get without getting caught - when you leave,it becomes a game or challenge to see if they can get you back and it goes on and on and on, and before you know it, you are in an unhappy, dysfunctional, relationship for over 17years as myself!
Seek counseling, read books on self motivation to let go, pray, love your kids and yourself more - there are tons of other things I can tell you but they would most likely boot me off of this site for advice too long. LOL anyway, email me. OH this too: I have been seeing him now, and he has asked me to re-marry him again because he claims he has changed, but you know what? because of the time involved, experiences gone through and lessons learned, I will never remarry him because I know who he is, how he is and because I still haven't forgiven, but I have let go to the extent of knowing that what we do is simply what we do, it can never be more than that, regardless of the way I love him and the 17 years invested. - It isn't fun to always watch out of both corners of your eyes, to sleep lightly b/c you are listening to phone calls, or to worry about why the cell phone is on vibrate - the pettiest things become big things - most importantly it takes away from attention that your children need and should be getting and NO MAN OR NO THING is worth that. In closing, I compare it to this: we all know that chocolate isn't good for us, but we tend to eat it anyway and make excuses to why we have done this. We always want things that aren't good for us. Some books of recommedation to help you mentally: Why do women love men who don't love
them back
How to Let Go and Let God
I haven't learned how to completely let go from within my soul, but I have learned how to sepearate my heart, soul and mind and they all agree with one thing: Peace, wisdom, understanding and self worth. You will always love him but you will have to learn to feed him with a long handled spoon if you chose to feed him at all.
i like this boy. he is 16// see i know he likes me bc my cuzin asked but he has a gf he told my cuzin that he likes me and wants to go out with me but then he said he is stuck with this other girl/. but the boy i like tells my friend he likes her so i dont know what to believe. the boy i like calls me and stuff but grrr i dont know. i was suppose to go to a powerhouse with him me and him. he asked me and now he is taking his gf . so0 did i make a bad choice not to go. i wanted to go but my dad wouldnt let me he doesnt trust me and by the way im 18. please help me bc i want to tell him i like him and he knows that i like him so what do i do...... write back asap and i will rate you. thank you all
If your dad told you that you couldn't go, you made no choice, your dad did! LOL
Now, about the whole gf thing- the guy that you like needs to make a decision of who he wants to go out with unless you are cool sharing, in which I totally disagree with sharing any man. You feel me? Now let's look at this scenerio (I am giving you 2 of them)
1. You did go to the powerhouse with him, his gf heard about it and confronted you and called you names for going out with her man and tried to start a bunch of funk that was really uncalled for and not lady like - would you have regretted going out with him or faught over a man? "Never get into with a girl over a boy"
2. You were his gf, and he took another girl out. You heard about it or saw them there for yourself - How would you feel? Would you appreciate it? Would you be mad at the girl or him or both? "Never give a boy, or man power to have his cake and ice cream too - choose one or the other because you are not secondary material"
Now, think about this for a moment: It's cool to like someone and them like you back, but it's not cool if they can't determine how much they like you or they don't like you enough to cut whoever or whatever off to be with you and you ONLY.- unless you are cool with sharing your man.
Hang in there! PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE!
Girl / 15/
Bacially I have a really bad thumping pain - it's where my pelvis is but just slightly lower near the sort of "start" of my "private area"
I have no idea what is. I feel as if it has something to do with my period. But i dont know! I'm not on my period and i dont really get pains or anything
Its just under my pelvis on the left and it just thumps and stings and its been like this for a week
it could be several of things, you need to go to the doctor. It sounds like a bladder infection to me, seriously. Or it could be a pulled pelvic muscle depending on what activties you have been doing.
I am attaching a website to check out, this may help.
https://ssl.search.live.com/health/results.aspx?qu=Pelvic+Pain
Do Size Matter In A Fight? Not boxing or kick boxing or wrestling i mean Like a Fight on The Sreet.
I am a kickboxer and size doesn't matter! The bigger the tree is the harder it falls. It's all about knowledge of how to use to handle yourself while fighting -it's about being able to block, agility and quickness- it's about that hand game - it's about knowing how to get out of the way and concentrating on when to strike, block,kick, push, duck, whatever you gotta do, whatever you do, don't let them get you down - which makes it also about balance and strength.
I have since the 6th grade always felt so far away from everyone I am there talking yet seem to fail to connect with them and also whenever a girl seems to show intrest in me for no reason I act wierd as if I have to keep my distance from everyone someone please just give me any advice on how to be closer to people.
I don't want to seem negative or anything like that, but it seems like you may need counseling or medication due to a physcological condition. Here are some different conditions that cause people to isolate themselves
depression
bi-polar
anxiety disorder
Below is a link with definitions, check it out and if you can identify with any of these listed, tell your parents so that you can seek help now, so that it doesn't effect you as you grow older.
http://webhome.idirect.com/%7Ekehamilt/psydef12.html
You could be shy and need to get out more, like join different social clubs or school clubs so that you can be around people more. Work that thing out and be happy - get out there and socialize- these are the best years of your life, enjoy them!
ughh, i want to remove it. but if i shave it, it's extremely painful and leaves cuts at where the hair was torn from the skinn. i don't want to wax because it sounds also painful. what aree the other options?
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Nair, or other hair removal creams. Use these cautiously.
Shaving is the best alternative to prevent using creams so much. You can also go to the hair store and get an eyebrow archer and use that. They are normally pink, yellow and light green. Those work too and aren't as painful.
I'm not sure is this the right category but I'm pretty sure it is. I don't know is this normal, but I get this intense sharp pain, when I see, talk think or even IM my ex ex bf. It's weird like my chest/heart aches so bad, I have to grab it quickly every time. No matter if its good thoughts or bad it happens. Example; Last week, I was just on webcam with him, and I had to leave, suddenly, this intense pain shot through me in my chest. Sometimes when I even think of him, my chest aches so bad, its so unbearable, when I think of bad thoughts between us, it hurts so bad, but even if good times, I'm still getting it. My friend told me, it's because i can't let go of him, and that my body/mind's telling me we need to get back. Even so, I don't want to get back with him even though i truly love him. He said he loves me to, but when he said it i felt happy, but the pains comes, when we were together i had it also, but happy thoughts, now its a mixture, my friend also said he thinks its a mixture of emotion causing me pain. Could anyone help me please? Thank You for reading.
I understand completely. It's normal. I used to get migraines because of it. I had to actually completely cut the person off. If we aren't together anymore, why am I talking to you? why am I IM ing? You are hurting because you keep dealing with him when it's over - you aren't allowing yourself the time you need. When relationships with love involve end, it takes time to heal from the inside/out - seriously.
It's hard not to communicate and it's confusing more when you continue communications which lead to continuing other things - which leads to more pain. Pain is caused from the heart, soul,mind, and spirit NOT being in agreement which leads to an unbalance which produces chemicals internally. Sounds silly but it's true. Pain also comes from the mental thought: this is when it's important to use MIND over Matter. I promise you that as long as you continue your communications you will continue thinking of him, missing him, questioning if you should be with him or not, then you will take yourself through a mental memory lane good and bad and get all worked up and BOOM! PAIN.. LET GO.. don't try to hold on to air or hold a ghost because there is nothing there to grasp.
I know this is kind of long, but its a big problem right now and i hope you can read this and help me fix it. well there are these 4 girls in my middleschool AND my neighborhood. I've known them all since like first grade too. We used to be friends but that friendship.. got annoying sometimes. One of the girls always was way too bossy, making up games that only SHE won, she always thinks she is always right even when she was clearly wrong, and expected us to take time to find her missing cellphone when im sure she wouldnt do the same for me. fast forward 7 years, to 8th grade. like sometimes, ever since first, i felt exculded. they're all indian/muslim kids and im the only black girl. i didnt get why we couldnt all be friends and share things cause a lot they had secret talks with one another and i felt left out. and this year.. i have no idea what happened to them. they're all really rude, always talk s*** about people behind their back, infact thats all they DO. You never hear them talking about themselves, what they're gonna do, what happened today. I got sick with being associated with them cause they really annoy a lot of people. And they always follow what another says. So one day I got mad, because that bossy girl yelled something mean to my friend when we left the school out the window of the bus, and i said that it was mean and i didnt want her to do it to her friend. then she got all stingy and said she was her friend too and im like.. how was she supposed to know who said it? and she got all pissed & crap. so when we came out i said they were all followers and i didnt like what they did. i ignored them and talked to my other friends on the bus and then they ended up sucking up to me after a couple days, then i didnt consider myself their friend but i wasnt their enemy. the bossy girl was.. nice for once in her life? then later on that same girl sat with me cuz someone took her seat. i let her since im in a 3 seater and hen someone needs a seat, i usually let them sit with me. but then that same girl got all bossy and mean when she wanted me to sit in the seat behind me, which nobody likes to. im like.. 'you can go sit there then' and she got all pissed. im like HELLO im the one who sacrificed my seat for you and you want ME to leave MY seat? which really isnt my seat since anyone can sit there but ya know, i got there first and i usually sit there anyways. then i talked to the other 2 indian girls and accidentally shared them a secret that this guy on the bus liked me in 6th grade. then they both blurted it out and said it doesnt matter since hes not a person and has no feelings. it really bothered me cause even though hes unpopular and i admit weird, i'd never treat anyone like that. so im like 'how dare you!' and i stop talking to them and tell my friend. the problem is that she is friends with one of the girls who shouted those things so she tried to be on both sides to avoid conflict i'd like to not be around them cause i try ignoring them, but they're always there since we are at the same bus stop and everything! like yesterday the girl whos my friend's friend on the bus, like i sat in her seat yesterday cuz someone else took my seat, not that i really care since its a free for all. and she got all mad at me and called me a stupid hoe, b*tch, and she always talks to people, shouting loudly indirectly talking to me. and all she says is false. i havent even had a boyfriend (not that i cant i just dont want one now) and neither has she. and i try to ignore.. i really wish i had an ipod on the bus to do that. its easier when that my friends on the bus but when shes gone is when that other girl like says all that crap. and like when her and her friends talk, its really loud and everyone can hear since everyones quiet. and then they accused me of eavesdropping. are you kidding me! i said the whole bus could hear them and they still didnt get how. So what should I do... like for comebacks or better ways to ignore them! Like i dont wanna say dumb stuff like "your mom" which they say. Like I want the kind of comeback that like really gets to them when they say dumb stuff about me like that. like they even think im all conceited and think im perfect which certainly isnt true.. im shocked since they've known me so long but think that at all. and i just happen to be an optimistic, moral person, who doesnt agree with all the dumb things they do to people, and talk about people. a lot of people dont even like them. people like me, unfortunately not a lot of my friends are on my bus, and they have the nerve to say nobody does when its actually the opposite. like i hear them saying how someone thinks they are annoying.. the people they annoy all think that, some have told me yet they still act the same. and they act so unconfident at school but on the bus they try to act like they take over. HELP!!!!!!! 14/f
wow.. well, first of all: Disassociate yourself with this crowd. You are obviously different and more mature than that. A bully can't be a bully unless allowed. They are rude, and very immature for their age. I remember all of that silly mess when I was in high school and it's sad to know it still goes on today. First of all, stop sitting next to them. If it is a situation of sitting next to them b/c of no choice, then don't say anything to them- read a book or something. I am an upfront fair person - I am an honest person too, which means that I would just come out and say you know what? I am done kickin' it with you all because I have no interest in what you talk about, what you do, or how you treat people and I don't want people to automatically assume that I am like you, since I hang and talk to you.
I would also address that you don't appreciate or like how they treat you at times, and it sounds like they are sometimey. I REFUSE TO DEAL WITH SOMETIMEY people because they are shady.
Another thing, you already know that they aren't your friend for real because you said it yourself, they ignore you, leave you out at times, and disrespect you, or expect you to do to things that you already know they wouldn't do for you so let it go and let them go.
Find other friends, you seem straight up so that should be no problem for you to find other friends. People like that are all TALK for real, which is why they act different on the bus than they do on the bus. Don't be fake, keep it real.
They treat people this way because they have low self-esteem and LOW confidence and by putting other people down, loud talking and being complete asses, make them feel empowered. They need to feel that empowerment because they are weak and have no power in themselves so they try to drain other peoples' power - make sense? Rise above that and tell them up front that you no longer wish to be their friend and that they were never your friend to begin with and they will no longer control you and not to speak to you anymore period because you have nothing else to say to them and walk off.
Good Luck and I am proud of you for NOT FALLING TO PEER PRESSURE. IT IS OK to be different and it OK TO BE YOUR OWN PERSON!!!!!
Hi all. I would like to know if girls would like a little break just after they have had an orgasm during love making, or if they dont mind to have the fun going on right away. Cheers!
It depends on the woman. All women aren't the same in this area. Some women prefer to keep it going and some need a break - it also depends on how intense the release was when she experienced it. It also depends on who they are with when doing this, meaning who is the aggressor. It also has alot to do with the mental aspect of things for her. It could actually even change each time you make love. We as women are funny creatures, and it takes time, and expereince to get to know our bodies, preferences, like and dislikes.
If you are asking because of an experience you are in,or about to be in, it's best to ask the person you are with what their preference is OR just do it, watch and listen for the response and that'll tell you. Cheers!!!