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trying to be more than friends
13/f
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so i like this guy named sam
all day today we have talked on myspace
mostly abotu music and summer
i mean we talked all day
i really like him, but i am not sure how e feels about me. How do I hint to him that i want to know how he feels about me without official asking him?
or are there any other tips
we have a lot in common
but so does him and this girl named racheal
and i wanna let him know that i am interested by flirting.... help please
and plesae dont say ask to hang out.. because that seems like i am asking him otu and i always let boys make that move
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I think you need to say something. You don't necessarily have to outright say "I like you. Let's go out." but you need to let him know you like him somehow.
And believe me, the less subtle, the better. Guys can be pretty thick headed about this kinda stuff. You need to make it obvious that you're flirting, or he may miss it.
And if you're nervous about asking him out, just make it casual. Hang out with some friends and invite him along. That way, there's less pressure on both of you, and if he cant make it, at least you can still have a good time.
And about finding out how he feels about you, you could either use the classic of asking a friend to ask him for you or just guide the conversation towards that topic.
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Why hint? Be upfront and honest about it. I tell people all of the time that a closed mouth doesn't get fed. If you don't say anything, how is supposed to know how you feel and that you are interested?
I understand about you always let the boys make the first move - So don't ask him out. Telling him that you are interested in him isn't a move, it's simply letting him know that you are attracted to him, and his style and that you are interested in getting to know him better. So, why not go ahead and ask him and let him tell you where is with this? maybe he likes you too but you aren't going to know unless you tell him. You said you talk all the time anyway, so just call him if you have his number. If not, tell him when you're on line and ask for the number. DON'T ask him out, let him ask you out once you have shared your interest.
If he doesn't like you in the way that you like him, then it's OK, you still have your friendship. It's a simple yes or no situation, nothing to be scared, shy or alarmed about. "smile" Go for it and good luck. Oh, about Rachel, so what if they have things in common, as long as they aren't already dating, or seeing each other then she has nothing to do with you and him, this is between the two of you.
Good Luck!!
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