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im just stupid and a big wussy!!!
so i like this guy...oh right im 14 a girl hes 14 too...so ive known him 4 bout 2 years now and we would talk alot but then we stoped when the new school year started because he was i dnt know popular i guess and so then in the last weeks of school i got a myspace 4 the 1st time...so we start talkin alot and we find alot in commen i start callin him my brother because i loved him like a brother at that time but the more we talk the more that lovin feeling escalaited 2 a more i like him i wanna go out w/ him...i wanna tell him but im a big wussy....what can i do? i think he kinda likes me i dnt know 4 sure but we talk lots we wanna hang out but some how we cant because our plans get messed up...and he had a crush on some girl but he asked her out and she said no beacuse she dnt like him...i asked him if she still likes her but last time i asked he said yes...but he hasnt seen her and i dnt know....every time i talk 2 him i wanna say i love you but thats just stupid so i dnt....what can i do?:/
xuya<---last name i hate my 1st...
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LOL.. First, calm down- you have so many thoughts and emotions running through your head right now. "smile" I feel them.
First - you don't love him, but you do like him a WHOLE LOT. We'll call it "In like, instead of "in love" how's that?
Since you guys are already friends and talk alot, tell him that you have something very important and personal to talk to him about - (do it face to face)Meet up with him somewhere (a park is nice) or at the skating place. Tell him that you have liked him for more than a friend and how long you have liked him. Let him know that if he only likes you as a friend, that you understand and respect that and stay cool with him but don't develop anymore feelings if he isn't going to reciprocate (give them back).
The other girl is somewhat irrelevant at this point because she doesn't like him back - so she isn't a factor so don't even bring her up - you feel me? Now, if he brings her up, then you know what's up so go ahead and cancel that thought of hooking up with him. Tell him what you are feeling whenever you talk to him, think of him or see him. AGAIN - FACE TO FACE not over the phone or on the computer either. "So, that he takes you seriously" You seem kind of emotional to me, so try not to start crying when you are talking to him. You aren't stupid, actually you are smart for even having guts to ask the question which also makes you completely opposite of being a wussy!! Know that, miss thang! "smile"
Also, something else that I think is really cool if you don't want to verbally tell him - Make him a cd of songs that identify what you are feeling for him. It will take some time to find songs that fit right into the level you are on, but none the less, make the cd and give it to him. Tell him there's something you wanna talk to him about but only after he listens to the cd you made especially for him.
Good luck and let me know what happened! sophia_pettus@yahoo.com
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