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I feel distant
I have since the 6th grade always felt so far away from everyone I am there talking yet seem to fail to connect with them and also whenever a girl seems to show intrest in me for no reason I act wierd as if I have to keep my distance from everyone someone please just give me any advice on how to be closer to people.
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I don't want to seem negative or anything like that, but it seems like you may need counseling or medication due to a physcological condition. Here are some different conditions that cause people to isolate themselves
depression
bi-polar
anxiety disorder
Below is a link with definitions, check it out and if you can identify with any of these listed, tell your parents so that you can seek help now, so that it doesn't effect you as you grow older.
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You could be shy and need to get out more, like join different social clubs or school clubs so that you can be around people more. Work that thing out and be happy - get out there and socialize- these are the best years of your life, enjoy them!
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it seems like you have a slight problem with trust or maybe even paranoia. my best guess is that you are keeping your distance because you are afraid of geting hurt maybe? just try to find common ground with people. if you meet someone who likes to do something that you also like to do... roll with it and try to connect with them through the common interest. you just have to try your best to be yourself.. if this doestn work you might want to see someone such as a counselor. they can help you talk through your worries and fears, or if this is not the problem they will be able to help you find what the problem is.
I really hope this works for you! Good luck :)
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