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hey i need help/ boy trouble
i like this boy. he is 16// see i know he likes me bc my cuzin asked but he has a gf he told my cuzin that he likes me and wants to go out with me but then he said he is stuck with this other girl/. but the boy i like tells my friend he likes her so i dont know what to believe. the boy i like calls me and stuff but grrr i dont know. i was suppose to go to a powerhouse with him me and him. he asked me and now he is taking his gf . so0 did i make a bad choice not to go. i wanted to go but my dad wouldnt let me he doesnt trust me and by the way im 18. please help me bc i want to tell him i like him and he knows that i like him so what do i do...... write back asap and i will rate you. thank you all
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well it seems to me that this guy is a player.. you may not want to hear it, but honestly: he has a girlfriend, he said he likes you, and he told your friend that he likes her too. it just doesnt seem right. I think that not going to Powerhouse was a wonderful idea, because jealous girlfriend are never good. and you have to think about it from her perspective, you wouldnt want him going with some other girl if he was your boyfriend. I think you need to sit down and have a talk with him. tell him that he needs to make a decision... because he DOES. he cant keep stringing along different girls... and you should definatly not settle for being one of many. You deserve SO much better than that. NO girl deserves to be one of many girls.... and once you figure that out, you'll realize that this guy is not worth it. and maybe he will decide that you are the only one for him [ and i wish desperatly that he would] but the truth is... he really does seem like a player. and it may be hard to see the good in knowing that now, but later on you're going to realize that you are better off without him. because players leave to heart break, and trust me... it sucks!
Good luck and I really hope everything works out for you! :)
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If your dad told you that you couldn't go, you made no choice, your dad did! LOL
Now, about the whole gf thing- the guy that you like needs to make a decision of who he wants to go out with unless you are cool sharing, in which I totally disagree with sharing any man. You feel me? Now let's look at this scenerio (I am giving you 2 of them)
1. You did go to the powerhouse with him, his gf heard about it and confronted you and called you names for going out with her man and tried to start a bunch of funk that was really uncalled for and not lady like - would you have regretted going out with him or faught over a man? "Never get into with a girl over a boy"
2. You were his gf, and he took another girl out. You heard about it or saw them there for yourself - How would you feel? Would you appreciate it? Would you be mad at the girl or him or both? "Never give a boy, or man power to have his cake and ice cream too - choose one or the other because you are not secondary material"
Now, think about this for a moment: It's cool to like someone and them like you back, but it's not cool if they can't determine how much they like you or they don't like you enough to cut whoever or whatever off to be with you and you ONLY.- unless you are cool with sharing your man.
Hang in there! PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE!
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