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hey my name is Alexa! everyone calls me Lexie. i live in Tennesse and love to cheer. i love to give advice to people cause i think i can really change some things. i know i mite be young but i can really help. you can ask me anything you ever want! if u want u can im me anytime you want. i am always on most of the time. well hope i help yall!!!

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I just inserted my first tampon about an hour and 15 minutes ago. Well, half of the string is covered in blood and i still have blood dripping out into a pad. Why is it doing this? IS the tampon full already?? I used a playtex gentle glide regular if it helps. I also have a heavy flow. Should i take the tampon out or what?

ok its not suppose to do that. you need to take it out. what happend was you put it in wrong...i did that the first time and it hert really bad and felt uncofortable. and no u always want to have the string showing and if its not then it is too high. hope i helped

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is it true that if you sleep without ur bra on that you breast will grow bigger faster???

no, everyone says that but its not true lol. i sleep with my bra on half the time and it off i see no diffrence

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i am 5'4 im tall skinny and have long legs and i can never find any clothes that fit me they are either to long or too fat and i want hot clother where do i look? please help me out.



i rate high

abercrombie is really good at that!

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im chinese and i was wondering what kind of mascara would be good for me to make my eyelashes look longer and will seperate my eyelashes

get any kind of cover girl mascara it works really good and it will make your eyelashes look 60% longer.

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Ok..I have reeeally curly hair. I want it to be straight but when I try to straighten it there are 2 problems:
1. It takes me 1 and a half to 2 hours to get it completely straight.
2. My hair only stays straight for a day or overnight..even if I just straightened it.

Are there any easier ways to make my hair straight and make it stay straight for a while?

Thanks ahead of time. I will rate high for helpful answers.

Sincerely-
Curly wanting to go straight

theres only one thing i can think of and that is to get it permatly straighten.

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whaT DO you do if u hear your parents ummm..... doing it. they're like 48 and i think its wrong. They were both making sounds and i don't want to confront either one. please help me i dont no y but it bothers me.




ill rate high for good answers

umm just go up to one of the ones that your closest too and tell him/her that they need to keep it down because it grosses you out! i mean it would gross me out too.

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does sex hurt the 1st time? how bad? plz help

yes it does. and it makes you want to cry so it does hert but is worth it. but do it with the person you love and make sure you have protection

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ok so theres this guy and he kinda sexual harasses me or w/e this is called. he grabbed my breasts and my butt like so many times nd he snaps my bra straps and all that kind of stuff! i don't kno who 2 tell and what 2 do? pleasee help me

ok wow you can not have a guy like that. cause then it will lead into him making you do stuff and you dont need that you just need to tell him to stop.

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hey, so me and this guy want to be kind of like friends with benefits and do stuff but not sex you know so if i gave him head would i have to use a condom? he has gotten head from 2 other girls and for both of them it was their first time and i have never given it before and yeah anyt tips? can he really have any stds? i hear guys dont like it with condoms so what should i do

you dont need a condom when doing head. but if he has had to gurls before you do that to him he might have it but it is not that much of a threat because they probley dont. i dont want to scare you so they probley dont but no guys dont like useing condoms or anything they like it ruff but you know what if you want to get pregnet that is your descion so use a condom or get on the pill. but NO who ever told you, you need to have a condom for head is wrong
hope i helped,

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ok i'm 13/f and i'm not sexually active or anything but i am just wondering how effective condoms are. i know that sometimes they have a hole in them or something, but about what percent of the time are they safe? thanks!

ok the only time a condom doesnt work is if it rips on you. and then your in trouble. so i say they work about 80% of the time!
hope i helped,

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16/f
i am going to camp this week, and my ex boyfriend will be there.
we broke up in april and we haven't really talked since.
he came up to me at chruch once and apologized for what he did, but i don't think he really meant it because he still acts like a jerk towards me.
my question is, how can i have an awesome time at camp without thinking about my stupid ex?
thanks in advance

well hopefully your best friend will be there and just blow him off dont pay any attion towards him because that is what he wants and we dont want to give that to him! so just be the way he is to you and shove it in his face.lol
i hope i helped!

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I am throwing my best friend a surprise party. She's a girl, 16. I already sent out the invitatations to all of her girlfriends, but I can't decide if I should invite boys or not. She is not friends with very many guys, and the 3 or 4 she is friends with may not even all be friends with each other (I don't really know all of them well). I don't know if I should invite them or not, because they aren't even people she hangs out with outside of school, and I don't know if it would be awkward for them to be there. However, I think that the party should have boys, I mean we are 16 years old. What should I do?

well if she doesnt have that many guy friends i think it should be an all girl party and have a big girly fling i mean it is her party and she wants to be surpised but you dont want her to feel uncomfortable with guys there...you know so i think you should just have an all girl party for her.
hope i helped

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I'm in 11th grade now... well i'm going into 11th... and me and my friend have been friends since 4th... we are two completly diff people but that's what makes us good friends... she is more wild and i'm more not... she will do things without thinking and I think things through... last week she told me she liked this guy... every week it seems as though she likes someone diff... she had a 3 some with him and his friend... the two guys is her exes good friends... and the guy she doesn't like is one of her best friends ex and her other friend slept with him before she had the 3 some... she has wanted me to hang out with them but i'm not that type of person... i'm waiting till i get married to loose my virginity and i have more respect in myself than that no affense to her... i love her but i don't know what to do...she has told me if i hang out with them nothing like that will happen... but everytime she tells me a story about when they hangout something sexual like that always happens... we havent talk in almost 5 days... maybe more, maybe less... i don't know what to sday to her... she has had sex before with her ex and after she did it all changed... she kisses guys without really thinking... to her hooking up witjh a guy is no biggy... to me you should know the person and have semi feelings...

confused and lost

i agree with you all the way all you have to do is just tell her how you feel. just be like i really dont want to hang out with them because i am not that sexual yet and i dont want to be and if she is your good friend she will understand and she wont pressure you into it or anything.
hope i helped,

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what are some things to do on the internet when your stuck inside and verry bored cuz of like a rainy day or something?

ok like go to your favorite store websites and then there is this humor one i go to all the time its called albinoblacksheep.com it has everything and its funny! umm then go to like make up sites if your a girly girl and make your own website at this place!! myspace.com if you dont have one already they are addicting and you can add all of your friends on it. well i hope i helped you out some!

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Okay so i go to a small high school i'll be a senior, and i hang out with this group of people and i mean we're all really close, and it's really weird cause theres i'd say about.. 50-60 of us, but we all hang out at school at lunch together and take up this big spot and everything. Anyways there's guys and girls. I really want to have a birthday party this year i'll be turning 17. because i didn't do anything for my 16th really and i haven't ad one since like 6th grade. but i was just wondering if anyone had any ideas on what to do with so many people. my friend had her 16th bday at this big hotel room thing..like whats downstairs..and there was a dance floor and a dj and food and stuff. so i dont really want that. i would just feel bad if i didn't invite some people cause we're all like best friends..and thats what makes it hard. 50 best friends? whaatt.. i mean i have ONE BEST BEST friends, but everyone else is pretty much the same. any ideas?
oh and my bdays in november.

ok i would have a big blow out! have your party somewhere where u like to go most and just have a blow out there and afterwords go to your house and have a hottub party if you have one or just bring them back to your place and have a house party with nice music and your best friends.

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Ok what do i do when my Friend says her brother likes me, but i dont know if he really does??

Ps-The boy already asked me out but i think he doesnt mean it. And how should i act when im over there, i mean she is my bff.

im a 14/f

well to be honest i wouldnt date him becuase that is your best friends brother and that would come in between yall and that just wouldnt work. but if you really like this guy and ur best friend is ok with it go for it!
hope i helped,

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um...this is gonna sound weird, but i'm 14, and i'm....like, hairy, if you know what i mean, my gf doesn't like it, how do i get rid of the hair without just shaving it, i've heard that doesn't work

to be honest shaving actually does work and its the best way i think or the other best way of corse is waxing but it will hert but it is worth it. so yup
hope i helped,

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My boyfriend isn't very talkative. Even before we admitted to having feelings for eachother, I was always the one to pursue the conversation. We're going out tonight & I'm worried we'll totally run out of things to talk about. Can anyone help me out with some topics to bring up? By the way, we don't go to the same school. Thank you!

~Allie

welll ask him how school is going and talk about your intrest and then ask him about his. and tell him he looks very good tonight and let him know you love him. even if he isnt talkative you have to be the one to make the moves and let him know your good at it!
hope i helped,

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MY UNCLE died what shuld i do? he waz the best person in the world now hes gone.


plz help me:(

ok it will be alright! my great grandmother died a few days ago and i was really close to her. but when my favorite relative died i was heart broken for a long time and still am. it will take a while to heel but you will be fine. i know what your going through and in the end everything will be fine.
i hope i helped,

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well i havent gotten my period yet, and i m short(i m almost 14) and everyone says when i do get it i will get taller, and thin out. does anyone know if that is acctualy true? pls help!

ok i used to be chubby before my period and i was short like really short but when it started i lost all of my baby fat and now i am thin and 5'2 1/2" so yes it is true
hope i helped,

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