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alright so i take back the fact that im done with this advice column. but im just letting everyone one here know that i do have a life, and advicenators is not it. however, im here to help. i just wont be on every single day.

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ok wlel im wearing the white and red dress to my grad

http://i143.photobucket.com/albums/r155/wind_miko/dress.jpg

Do you think i can wear a black fake beaded necklace with it?

Hey, you could but it wouldnt look that great. I suggest a fake beaded red necklace instead. Try http://www.forever21.com for one. Claires also may have one too.

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I'm asian, small eyes. How layers of mascara and eye liner do you suggest?

Hey, i would use intense xxl black mascara by maybelline. I would use black eyeliner by maybelline as well. Just line the inside bottom lids of your eyes and line the top outside lids of your eyes. The mascara is seft explanatory. You use the white side, than the black.

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Alright, so I have two friends, F and K. K is one of my best friends, F isn't, but we are pretty close and I can trust him. K and F went out and then broke up. Since K is my best friend I would listen to her say that F is over protective and all this stuff and I went on thinking F was the bad guy. Then K started to be extremely mean to F, like pushing him away from a hug and what not, when F was only trying to be nice. K isn't mad that they broke up, but F wants her back real bad. He has been trying so hard to change and he really likes her. K is leading him on and then blowing him off a lot.

I don't know what to do, F always asks for help. I tell him he really needs to get over her and to just not talk to her for a while. But then K tells him he's being immature about it and comes and talks to me about what a loser he is. I'm getting sick of this.


I really need to do something about this. I hate being in the middle.

Hey, well you need to bring K and F together with you there as well. Have a talk with both of them together. Let them know that you love both of them and that being stuck in the middle of them is not fair to you at all. They also need to have a talk of there own. If K doesnt want to be involved with F she shouldnt lead him on.

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what those mean in english?

mochtest du in mein bett gehen mit mir?

sehr sexy in schwarz und wiess

Hey, if you know what language that is in now, you can go on google language tools and translate it.

http://www.google.com

on the right hand side it says google language tool.

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So one of my favorite bands has a new song up on their page and I really like it and ive been listening to it and I wrote out the lyrics (its just what i do) and i cant understand ONE word in the song...
If you would figure out what it is, thatd be great...

you can listen to the song here:
http://www.purevolume.com/twelvestones

its the first one "Lie to me"

the part i dont know is at about 2 minutes and 25 seconds...


Just when i put my guard away
its the same old story
You left me broken in the ?????
Its the same old story

Hey, here is all the correct lyrics to that song. It has your part that you were looking for, as well as the rest of the song.

http://www.dapslyrics.com/display.php?sid=18808

I also went to http://www.songmeanings.net and looked up 12 stones. its up to that page, so just click on the song "lie to me" and you will find the meaning of the song.

http://www.songmeanings.net/artist.php?aid=9806

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well, i've known this guy for awhile but recently we started talking. we hung out for the first time in school Friday and likee were all close bcause he was saying how he doesn't want any hookups anymore and wants to get into a serious relationship and he said he thinks i'm the right girl. So yeah we talked on the phone for a couple of days he would call like 2x a day maybe but he hasn't called me since saturday.

i don't think hes waiting for me to call him, because hes not shy about calling.
i don't think i should call him because even my mom said i was look like an idiot, and that if he wanted to call me he would. i just don't understand what went wrong!

Hey, well im not sure whats up with him. You definately shouldnt call him unless you absolutely have to. When i say have to, i mean theres no other way of communicating with him (aim or myspace). You have to be straight forward with him and ask why he has stopped calling. Remind him that he said that he thought that you were the right girl to get into a serious relationship with etc. If he takes it back, let him know that he should have told you instead of just stop calling you. He needs to be put in his place if he has a bad reason for stopping the calls. But dont blow up on him right away, let him get the chance to speak because maybe there is a good reason. Good luck.

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im 15/f and this week every last one of my friends and my b/f are on vacation. so im stuck at home doing nothing and i want to watch some movies. i never watch movies though and i have no idea what i would like. im not all that into action movies, some comedies are good, i dont know about like romance movies i have no clue. can anyone recommend any good ones to me?

Hey, here are some girly movies that i like.

-John tucker must die.
-Mean girls.
-Stick it.
-Save the last dance.
-Bring it on.

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I am 7 months pregnant. I love the babys father, he was great for a while. Then I got laid off for being pregnant and couldnt find another job. He works non stop and I know he is stressed from it. His son is coming out to vegas for the summer in 2 weeks. The problem is as of lately he has been making me feel so horrible that its driving me into a depression. lets put it this way, he is screaming at me about going over my 1000 minutes because I am the one that does bills over the phone and deals with bill collectors. Then tells me he is setting us up for less minutes. He yelled at me while i was at the hospital , and basically laughes at me when i am in pain with all this....he is so incompassionate. Then while we were leaving the hospital he decides to tell the guard i just got a shot in my "kiester" and that i am a "pussy" when it comes to pain. Then i make a comment while passing the maternity ward that we will be there soon. his response was "yeah you will, not me not me ill be fishing" Then said "oh im jk" I found out I am diabetic , he told me to get over it. He says so many things that hurt. But i dont feel that i can justify myself due to the fact he is always at work. A part of me wants to leave. But another part of me doesnt want to leave the father of my baby. I dont know what do to, or whats best for the baby..he will treat her like gold , its me behind closed doors that suffers.

Hey, i agree with the person down below. You need to leave this guy. Yeah, hes the father of your baby and he still can be. Just because you and him arent together, doesnt mean that the baby and him cant see each other. Go to court and schedule visitations or just simply work it out between you two. Thats not a healthy relationship to be in. Good luck.

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hi. well i need help with my boyfriend. i love him so much but he really wants to meet my family my mom knows about him but doesnt want to tell my family. i feel bad he gets mad but what can i do? im so sad hes a good guy and i wanna be with him forever but hes sad he thinks i dont want him to meet them n stuff. =(

Hey, you need to let the rest of the family know against her word. If hes not going anywhere anytime soon, they need to meet him. Bring him to the house without them knowing. They wont just turn him away.

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okay people tells me secrets and stuff but at the same time they question me if they can trust me because i dont tell anything that much or tell them a secret why is that?

Hey, its normal. Everyone says that. They just need the secruity of knowing that they can trust you.

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a friend and me kissed and now she's avoiding me and spreading rumors that im a lesbian. What the hell?

Hey, well she kissed you also, so if your a lebsian, what does that make her? Also dont give people the satisfaction of you getting upset. Once they notice that your not affected, the will stop cause its not fun anymore. remeber, the best revenge is letting someone know that your not bothered by what they did.

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I'm a bit "out there" and wacky, and I like doing weird stuff to my hair.
Its about halfway down my boobs, brown, and straight to sometimes wavy.
I want to do more things to it...
can you give me ideas?
I already do spiky side buns, Princess Leia buns, pigtails, side braids, hair up with chopsticks and of course just parting it differently.
Any other ideas?

Hey, get a choppy haircut with choppy sidebangs. Go to a hair salon and ask for a really wild color (limegreen, hotpink, red?). Get the tips of your hair died and get streeks all in your hair and sidebangs.

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Okay i swim most of the summer and i have a really big problem. Like a lot of kids from my class just hang out all at the pool all summer too. So i really want to look OKAY but i have wavy frizzy hair. Like really bad. When i put products on it it looks fine, but when i swim they wash out and when we are getting snacks or taking a break and my hair starts to dry it is reallly embarrasing. Is there anything i can do besides put it up? Because i hate swimming with my hair up.
Also, I saw in Seventeen magazine this stuff that you put over your makeup to make it all waterproof. But it was kind of expensive ($30) and i was wondering if there was a cheaper version of this stuff? And does it work?

Hey, well i agree with the girl below me for the hair situation. You need to like bring anti-frizz product, gel, or hairspray etc. For the makeup, the stores sell waterproff mascara and eyeliner. For any other kind of makeup that you might use, your out of luck. The waterproff mascara and eyeliner works to a point. Yes, its more difficult to get it off, but its not like permanent and could smudge. How about swimming with two braids in your hair with a headband? you know one of those thin stretchy ones.

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im 14/f and in the 8th grade
does anyone know any books that have like making out or sex in them without hinting that in the title? thanks soooo much!!
%% ;-)

Hey, Gossip Girls is a great series.

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I've been with my boyfriend for quite awhile now. We have so much fun together & literally talk about anything. Recently, we both went through changes in our personal lives. I feel as if his feelings towards me have changed and that he just doesn't care. He still calls regularly & we hang out as much as possible. When I bring it up, he tells me that I'm crazy for thinking this! Am I being paranoid? If a guy suddenly doesn't love you anymore, does he come out & tell you or usually lead it on for awhile?

Hey, well its possible that his feelings may have changed. Like the girl below me said, all guys are different. Some come out and tell you right away and others hold back. He could be doing either. The reason why some guys hold back is because there trying to figure out why they dont still feel the same way and are waiting to see if the feeling comes back. Communication is an important part of all relationships. Also trust. You need to tell him straight up to have him tell you how he feels exactly. Tell him not to hold back, because you dont want this relationship to be a waste of both of yous time.

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i met this guy awhile back. and we recently started dating ( june 8 2007 ) but i liked for a very long time. and i had to go away for the summer, two hours from him. we talk every night on the phone, and on the computer all the time. but sometimes it isnt good enough && i seem to cry all the time over it. i can`t stand being away from him. he means so much to me. sometimes i call him and when he answers i start to cry and hang up. i even acciendtly said i love you the other night hanging up. well i dont know if i meant it or not. i care so much about him and would do anything for him, he`s my baby. well my question is..... is this love && if not, how will i know if it hits me && what it love.


16/f

Hey, well love is not a maybe thing, you know when you love someone. By you not knowing makes me think that its not quite love yet. Right now, i think its a very strong like, almost love.

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Okay so there's this guy I like. We're good friends and we have so much in common. Everytime we talk online, we end up talking for like 3 hours. I feel like we would be perfect together. But I don't even think he realizes that. Sure, he's said to be before "Wow, we have a lot of similiar interests" but I don't even think he's even thought of us being together. I don't even know what to do anymore; we hang out, we talk ALOT, we agree on everything from politics to music, we get along great, and have alot of inside jokes...how can maybe make him realize that we could be so much more than just friends? I don't want to freak him out or anything if he doesn't feel the same way, though.

Hey, in one of your convos, say something like "So, who do you like these days?" If he doesnt tell you or keeps writting then erasing, he might just like you. Theres another way to go about it also. Its a way more bold way and it could possibly freak him out. Just tell him that you like him or that you think you guys would be a good match. Its scary, but its the only real way to know how he feels. Also you dont want to be left with what if?

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14/F

So I'm looking for some cool font/background color combinations for my column. Any ideas are welcome....

Thanks in advance, homies.

Hey, take a looksy in the premade layouts on this website for your column. If your not sure where they are, just message me.

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Yesterday after eating, I got very hot, pale, nauseas, and dizzy. Soon, my stomach began to bloat and all of my stomach muscles cramped up. At first, I suspected period cramps but this wasn't normal cramps and my periods been late for almost two weeks now. My stomach honestly felt like I was exploding. After using a heating pad for several hours, and trying medicines my stomach finally felt smaller but the cramps remained.

Does anyone know what this could be?

Hey, im pretty sure that there just normal period cramps. Sometimes period cramps are brutal. Also sometimes peoples periods are so bad that they get an operation called an iblation(sp?). That wont be necessary for you tho, because you just have bad cramps. Take some midol and get some icecream. Heating pads help too, but you already use them. Also birth control helps with periods a lot. Visit a gyno and see what they suggest. Also two weeks late is normal. Young girls periods stay irregular for a very long time.

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Theres this boy, a year older than me who randomly started liking me one day when he asked for my number. Since then we exanged glances in the hallway and then one day he sent me a note saying hes crazy about me so i gave him a call. and when we got to talking we decided to hang out the next day and we did. Instant attraction and we started calling each other alot. we hung out and stuff and he sent me a really long letter about how he likes me and i make him feel amaazing. SO i visited him at work, because he said he would like it and my mom just happened to be there but thats okay, because he said he would meet her. and then he just stopped calling. this was yesterday but he hasnt called since idk.

Hey, maybe your mom freaked him out. I mean you guys have only been talking for what, a week - or not even? Thats a little scary for a guy to meet the mother that early along. It could also be that he realized that he doesnt really have serious feelings for you. The harsh reality is - that you cant just develop strong feelings and be "crazy" about someone in just one day. Also chances are that he hasnt been liking you for a long time because he would have told you that. Also try to remember that its only been one day and maybe he is busy. Give it three-four days. If he doesnt call you by then, you call him. Ask him why he randomly stopped calling. Good luck.

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