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two friends, don't know what to do.
Alright, so I have two friends, F and K. K is one of my best friends, F isn't, but we are pretty close and I can trust him. K and F went out and then broke up. Since K is my best friend I would listen to her say that F is over protective and all this stuff and I went on thinking F was the bad guy. Then K started to be extremely mean to F, like pushing him away from a hug and what not, when F was only trying to be nice. K isn't mad that they broke up, but F wants her back real bad. He has been trying so hard to change and he really likes her. K is leading him on and then blowing him off a lot.
I don't know what to do, F always asks for help. I tell him he really needs to get over her and to just not talk to her for a while. But then K tells him he's being immature about it and comes and talks to me about what a loser he is. I'm getting sick of this.
I really need to do something about this. I hate being in the middle.
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Being in the middle sucks...alot. Ecspecially when you try to accomidate both people. Well to me it seams K isnt being resonable. If they broke up...(well i dont know why ) then why is she leadin ghim on and off and on again. You cant really mess with guys when they are trying to be nice it only confuses them more. So if F really wants her back..and you think it would work out then tell him that. Then ask your friend K what she wants?
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Being in the middle totally stinks. I hate that situation. It's best if you talk to both of them about the problem civilly. Tell K that what she is doing to F doesn't really seem fair to you, and he's honestly not that bad. Tell F that K isn't worth having feelings over if he's going to still end up getting hurt.
Honesty here would be the best for both of them. It's totally not fair to you to be stuck in the middle since you can sympathize with both of them. Eventually everything will resolve, so there's hope, but just talk to both of them and be equally blunt with both of them stating how you feel.
Good luck with everything and I hope it all works out well.
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Hey, well you need to bring K and F together with you there as well. Have a talk with both of them together. Let them know that you love both of them and that being stuck in the middle of them is not fair to you at all. They also need to have a talk of there own. If K doesnt want to be involved with F she shouldnt lead him on.
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