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did his feelings change?
I've been with my boyfriend for quite awhile now. We have so much fun together & literally talk about anything. Recently, we both went through changes in our personal lives. I feel as if his feelings towards me have changed and that he just doesn't care. He still calls regularly & we hang out as much as possible. When I bring it up, he tells me that I'm crazy for thinking this! Am I being paranoid? If a guy suddenly doesn't love you anymore, does he come out & tell you or usually lead it on for awhile?
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honestly, hate to say it, but he is probably leading it on! he seems like the type that wouldn't dump you because of a lil' bit of love connection lost. stay strong and if you still love him wait for it to dye down! but if you feel any weirdness drop it before he drops you! be totally in control of this problem and i'll know you'll do fine<3!
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Hey, well its possible that his feelings may have changed. Like the girl below me said, all guys are different. Some come out and tell you right away and others hold back. He could be doing either. The reason why some guys hold back is because there trying to figure out why they dont still feel the same way and are waiting to see if the feeling comes back. Communication is an important part of all relationships. Also trust. You need to tell him straight up to have him tell you how he feels exactly. Tell him not to hold back, because you dont want this relationship to be a waste of both of yous time.
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Talk to him about it. He shouldn't think you're crazy for thinking it. You're human & many people have doubts, especially in relationships. Explain to him that you just want to make sure he's telling you the truth & that he wants to be with you. If you still feel uncomfortable about it or that he doesn't love you the same, you may want to rethink things. You could be being paranoid, but that's common in relationships. If you trust him then just listen to him & believe that he's telling you the truth. If not, talk to him about it. He shouldn't get mad/upset reminding you once in awhile. If he does, he may be lying. All guys are different though. Some come out & tell you, some don't. Just talk to him & explain your feelings towards the situation.
-hope that helped!♥
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