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heyy. ok so i play traveling softball and its me LIFE. i love it more then anything

hey!! I love softball too, well this has happened to me too. Have your mom or dad step up and tell this guy to back off yur just kids this isnt perfessionals yur playing now for fun and to better yur skills. If this continues to happen try out for a differnt team during try outs. Good Luck!

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my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and my boyfriend Jesse is 16 and he always sits in the front and I sit in the back,he never talks to me,and he told me he would call me yesterday,but never did what's going on?

Well no one can really give you the exact answer. I would call him maybe he's been busy or has a problem with you and needs to discuss it. Good Luck!

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I liked this guy alot but then he went for a different girl. When he went for that girl I went for a different guy. We both ended up going out with the other person. Then he broke up with the girl he was with. He told me that he liked me. I broke up with my bf for him but it was to late he ended up going otu with the other girl again!

I really want to be with him I like him with all my heart and I would do anything to be with him. What can I do or say to him! I really dont want anyone else just him. What can I do to get him back?

No offence but he's probably a playa and just has a girl just to have one and doesn't have much value. He doesn't sound very dedicated to a relationship sorry..I wouldn't go out with him unless u want yur heartbroken...but if i'm totally wrong about this guy I'd just talk to him and tell him how u feel. Good Luck

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Okay here it is. Im the popular girl in school, and alot of guys think im hot. Oh yah,and please dont answer this if you are just going to say im a bitch or something.Yes,i am hot and pretty and im pretty much use to all the boys wanting me. But there is this girl in my school,a wannabe me. She got the exact same haircut as mine the other day!Can you say:BITCH!!! i know! Anyway,theres this HOTT guy and he barley knows her but he thinks she is hot.GRRR. This is a major problem if you are me! I dont share! Does any one know what i can do to you know well...get him away from her?Im so mad! Shes ugly but im not going to lie,has a nice body.I know people say you dont like someone because of there looks but,i mean come on! One thing i dont do is lie,and beleive me im not lieing SHES UGLY. Sad to day,for her anyway,a few people think so too. Im going to get this guy no matter how much it takes no matter how much clevage because people!, I had a dream that one day ugly people and pretty people(*Me*) do not mix! And i need your help. Maybe you think im concieded so what,if you are too you will probably be able to help! Thanks!I Rate!!!HIGH! ANSWER FAST! Time is wasting :/

hahahaha yur one pathetic shit disturbing BITCH/WHORE!!!get a life u might turn out ugly

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i have long brown hair and i was wondering what color should i get my highlights. would you suggest dark brown cuz thats what im leaning towards? if not what colors?

Maybe red highlights might look pretty and make you look auburn. Sorry that's all I can think of. Good Luck, hope it lookes good.

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Well, my boyfriend and i have been together for about 1 week now. we r like really cute together and everything but there is just one thing. he told me best friend that he was comfused because this other gurl likes him and he thinks he might like her too. he said he didn't know what to do because he loves me but wants to give the other gurl a chance. I was i guess just wondering how i could keep him to myself so he won't feel like he wants to be with anyone else. please someone help me. I'll rate high!!

DUMP HIM!!!, sorry but he'll only keep moving from one girl to the next if he can't stay commited to one girl he's soppose to be going out with, he probably never will. Sorry, but you diserve better. Good Luck

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Heather, I have been on birth control (orto-tri-cycilin) for about 2 years now. The first year was deifnitally rough constantally missing pills, so my period was always off. Anyways, I have been very consistent with taking them for over a year now, this past week was spring break and insted of taking them at 8am before school, i was taking them around 10am. Also, I ended up missing one half way into the week. I then started my period 2 days after missing it, and that lasted about 3-4 days. Two days after that I woke up the next morning and was bleeding again. It was from the night before. Then it stopped for that day and the next full day. Then it started again, and stopped for a day. And last night I woke up and have been on my period since last night.

Does this sound normal? I mean, could all of this be because of that one missed pill? Or should i definitally go and see a doctor.
Please help. Thank you.

It depends, sometimes you can from just missing one pill, but if your taking the pill everyday and you still bleed that means your body can't wait that long and need to talk to your doctor. I'd just wait and see if it goes back to normal after your back to your normal routine of taking it everyday. In about a week if it hasnt changed then call the doctor. Hope I helped!

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right ok ive got a weak bladder and wet the bed its really embarrasing and sometimes im scared to sleep at anyones house incase it happens i dont know what to do and i dont want to go to the doctors or anything cause its really embarrasing. please help

Well I would see a doctor, but I think they have these type of pads u can put in yur underwear for leaks for peeing the bed and probably have other stuff you could wear. Hope that helped.

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Has anyone on here ever played with a weegee board? If you have what was it like? Was is weird?? Honest answers please!

From my experience sometimes it can scare the shit out of u or just do nothing the entire time your trying to talk to a spirit. Yeah, I wouldn't try it but it's pretty cool. lol

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ok there is my bff fo life friemd jaime and she lieks me and i like her but im not sure what to do cause i havent been in a real relationship in awhile so im nervous.....i also want to remain friends so idk if i should date her.....but i like her shes the best person ive ever met....but i dont want to lose her...wat should i do...? wat should i do/

I went out with my best friend and we've broken up but we're still best friends. If you want to go out, go out just make it clear if anything happens you want to remain friends and that means most to you. Good Luck!

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okay so i was with this guy for like a year and i loved him alot and then after school started the folling year he changed and kept telling me that i was changing and then in november we broke up and i have since moved on with my life i haven't rly had another boyfriend and i wanted to stay friends with him but we have this thing between us everyone who knows what i was to him and what he was to me knows we should be toghether but he just makes everything hard for me. he will email me and say rly weird things to me and i dont know how to deal with it. i keep talking about him but i dont know why. i have the sudden urge to call him because we talked all the time when we were together and i feel like its not fair please help me
Thanks Alot
not so amazing guy

Ok forget whatever the hell the person below me said. I would call him and talk to him about how you feel. It sounds like you want to go back out with him, I'd tell him that {if thats how you feel}. If he were to say no I just want to be friends, I would say no it's very very difficult to be friends with someone when you've been so close. You'll always be wanting to go back out with him and not get over him. Or old feelings will come back. Sorry hope I helped.

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14/f I like this guy dylan and he told me he likes me. I went out with him last year and broke up with him because he wasnt a great boyfriend. He was too clingy and he wasnt allowed to use the phone and stuff so I couldnt talk to him that much out of school. Now he can talk on the phone and stuff but I dont know how hes going to be. Also, all my friends think hes too much of a best friend to be a boyfriend. He is going to ask me out when he comes over. I dont know if i should say yes or no. Dylan is like my best friend and I want him as my boyfriend but i dont know what I should do?

I would go for it. If he's not what you want dump him. I'd also tell him, that you consider him a best friend too, and I'm assuming you don't want to ruin your friendship if you were to break up. I'd also mention the clingy thing to him and how you don't like it. Good Luck, hope it works out!

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ok..
im really confused
is there a difference between making out & french kissing?
cuz like i kissed my bf
& like there was tounge
& his arms were around me & mine around him
but thats it
so what was it?
thanks

I mean it really just depends the person. Some people say making out is where you just french over and over and stuff. Then, others say making out is when you go to second and they grab your ass..and stuff. So sorry, hope I helped.

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well i just seem to feel more comfortable and easier to be friends with guys then girls. (by the way im a girl) i just feel like so shy when i try to be friends with girls and make friends with new girls and i dont know what to say. but it's so weird because most of my best friends are boys. like when i was little their was like 4 guys on my street and like one girl my age and i always wanted to play with the boys cause it seemed easieer. its just hard to be myself around girls. i'm definitely not a tomboy. i'm a typical teenage girl. i'm not talking about my sister or cousins, i mean just girls at school and stuff. what's my problem?

Yeah, I'm the same way, for me its difficult to be friends with girls because their moody and sometimes take things a little too dramatic. Well anyway there's nothing wrong with you, your just more comfortable with guys. If you want to hang out with girls, maybe hang out with girls that are shy and girls that have the same interests as you. Just think of them as guys that have more emotions lol. Just think their one of the guys..that might help..sorry wish I could help more.

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im 15/f, who is straight, and ive never been on a date or had a boyfriend or had a first kiss! ive turned guys down before so its not like i havent had options but none of them were someone i could picture dating! so is something wrong with me, is that a turn off for guys that i have almost no experience? please help, will rate 5's!

Nah theres nothing wrong with you. You just haven't found who you like yet. Same thing happened to my sister, she's 17 now and has a bf she just had to wait for who she really liked. Some guys would like that your unexperienced bc well then they can experience you lol. well hope that made u feel a little better. Don't worry bout it you'll find the guy for you.

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15/f. i like this guy, i told him i like him, but all he said was thanks for being honest. Later on i asked why he wasnt honest to me, in telling me that he didnt like me, and he said i never said that, i cant tell you an answer because i dont know how i feel yet and it takes me awhile to know about these things. what does that mean in guy terms, and btw all my friends think he likes me and hes always acting like he does, soo im confused!!!

He's probably just trying to figure out if he for sure likes you. I mean would u rather have him go out with you right away and then dumping you a few days later because he realizes he doesn't like you? He probably does like you, but he needs to make sure of that before he gets into a relationship with you. Or he's the shy type who isn't into rushing into relationships. I'd just wait and if you finally can't take it just tell him I want to know if you do or don't! Sorry hope that kinda helped, good luck

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Okay, theres this kid. Lets call him JAR, now jar really likes me; a lot. And well, I don't really like him. But the thing is that he would pay someone $10 for my phone number or beat up anyone that said something mean to me. He offered to buy me a new phone .. and got my chocolates, and a bear and calls me ALL the time.

Okay, now my boyfriend. Lets call him AREO(don't ask) now, areo never says things like that. I've gotten chocolates before, and cute little love notes from him like "From the first time I saw you .." kind of notes. He just doesn't give me a lot of stuff. But does that mean he doesn't care? I mean, he loves to skate he's out skating most of the time and he doesn't have a cell. So sometimes its hard for him to call.

Thats the thing. Who likes me more? Theres a 99% chance that I'm not going to go out with JAR, but I feel bad for him. For all I know his room could have my face all over it. He really likes me. But so does AREO. Nobody really likes JAR. So it would be kind of embarrassing to go out with him, and I don't want to. I like AREO, but sometimes I have my doubts of him.

ugghhh, help?

Well just because JAR buys you things doesn't mean he likes you more, he's probably trying to win you over. What you get from your boyfriend shouldn't matter as long as you like him and he makes you feel good. I mean you might want to hint to your bf you feel not important to him because I'm sure you are but you just need a little reassureance. I hope that helped!!Good Luck with everything.

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I've finally decided to get over my ex girlfriend after being completely devastated over her dumping me for 6 months. I tried being just friends with her, but that didn't work. What made me decide to get over her was the fact she got a new boyfriend. I cut off all contact. I blocked her on my AIM buddylist then deleted her so I wouldn't see the love you for him in her profile, and the i love you's in her aways. I deleted her myspace so I will no longer have to see her picture. It's been 2 weeks with not a single word between us. She's in my gym class and I just stay away from her.

I'm sure she's noticed by now. I do feel so much better now, but I don't want this to be the complete end of us. I don't want us to never talk again, but I'm afraid if we make any contact whatsoever any progress I made will just go to waste, and I'll be missing her again. I'd like for us to someday be friends, but I don't know how long I should wait before I try that or if I even should try. She was a good friend before going out and even for a short time after we broke up. I'm not sure how I should approach this.

Can anyone help?

I would wait til you find interest in other girls and when you think of getting back together with her there is no thought in yur mind that says you should. I know how difficult that is, but you've got to get over her for your own good. Then when you know for sure you don't want her back and have interest in someone else, then I would be friends with her. I wouldn't be close friends and wouldnt hang out with her alone just incase cause old memories and thoughts can come back. Sorry hope that helped!!!

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He's one of my closest friends and I don't want to lose the friendship. I've gone out with him before and he told me that he broke up with me because I'm not supposed to date until I'm 16(i'm 13) and he didn't want to get me into trouble. because I would be in trouble trust me. my mom is strict. and We got into trouble because of something and now my mom thinks he is just a trouble maker but I know he's not... I guess you could say I'm to shy to ask him out again. when he's around his friends he says he doesn't like me but I think he does. but i'm STILL to scaried he'll say no and not be my friend anymore. He is VERY truthful

Oh trust me I know exactly what you mean I am 13 and can't date til 16. I would suggest sneaking around, going to the movies with maybe a few girls and meeting them there. Or going to the mall with a group of people so your mom has no idea. I would ask him out and explain that to him. Then, I would explain to your mom he's not a bad kid and she should trust you and have her get to know him. U know, have him over and stuff so she can see his personality. Sorry if that doesn't help, but Good Luck. If you need anything more email me. missmiss09@hotmail.com

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I think when it comes to friends, I'd die for them. Give my heart, and give them my hand. Lately, I've been kind of bummed out, taking a lot of shit from people. I dunno.. I have a boyfriend, who've I only been dating for about 3 months now. Then I have a bestfriend. We used to have a thing, until I figured out he had a daughter and had to go back home. Since we're in two different states.

I'm not quite sure if me and my friend from the other state still had a thing, but we were still closer than fuck. He got a girlfriend, i got a boyfriend. Recently, his girl broke up with him. Then he totally blocked me, and her out of his life.

I'm sort of bummed about that. I also don't know where I'm going with this..

I don't know why he'd block me out of his life either?

I guess it's not a question i'm asking, I think i'm just looking for someone with a good heart to give good words.

Aww..I'm sorry have you tried asking why and telling him you really care about him and would like to help him? I would just keep inforcing you still want to be friends and that you care for him and it hurts you that he is doing this to you. But I'm really sorry, if you need anything just email me. Good Luck
missmiss09@hotmail.com

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