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not so amazing guy


Question Posted Tuesday April 18 2006, 8:43 am

okay so i was with this guy for like a year and i loved him alot and then after school started the folling year he changed and kept telling me that i was changing and then in november we broke up and i have since moved on with my life i haven't rly had another boyfriend and i wanted to stay friends with him but we have this thing between us everyone who knows what i was to him and what he was to me knows we should be toghether but he just makes everything hard for me. he will email me and say rly weird things to me and i dont know how to deal with it. i keep talking about him but i dont know why. i have the sudden urge to call him because we talked all the time when we were together and i feel like its not fair please help me
Thanks Alot
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missmissgurl answered Tuesday April 18 2006, 5:29 pm:
Ok forget whatever the hell the person below me said. I would call him and talk to him about how you feel. It sounds like you want to go back out with him, I'd tell him that {if thats how you feel}. If he were to say no I just want to be friends, I would say no it's very very difficult to be friends with someone when you've been so close. You'll always be wanting to go back out with him and not get over him. Or old feelings will come back. Sorry hope I helped.

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BRUNETTE__BABiE__CAKESZ answered Tuesday April 18 2006, 2:43 pm:
hey, if your bodt tells you to call him, then call him! its obv. a sign or omen to call. let him know exactly how your feeling. dont hold back. if you have any further questions with this situation dont hesitate to send me something to my inbox! cait &hearts = ].

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BEAUTiFUL_LOVEx answered Tuesday April 18 2006, 12:10 pm:
You should call him. if you have those urges to do it, your bodies really telling you that you like him still. and even if you dont you can realize that once you talk to him.
I understand exactly where your coming from when he says he thinks you have changed. It hurts. Because you probably think your the exact same person you were, but the truth is you probably have changed and he only notices it because he was so close to you before, or even if you didnt change he feels you have because you guys arent together anymore. Thats def. a change and probably changed how you were, even if it was only a little changed. But the weird emails he sends you your just gunna have to tell him you think their weird. Be completely honest about how you feel. And if your talking about him constantly, that means your thinking about him constantly and that means you still have feelings for him even if their only friendly feelings. You guys probably could be friends if you took the time and both worked at the relationship. But yeah i would def. call him, talk to him, and maybe even ask him to hang out. As friends. <3 Hope that helps! Much love.

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