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ok there is my bff fo life friemd jaime and she lieks me and i like her but im not sure what to do cause i havent been in a real relationship in awhile so im nervous.....i also want to remain friends so idk if i should date her.....but i like her shes the best person ive ever met....but i dont want to lose her...wat should i do...? wat should i do/
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I went out with my best friend and we've broken up but we're still best friends. If you want to go out, go out just make it clear if anything happens you want to remain friends and that means most to you. Good Luck!
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Well me and this guy were bffs and we both liked eachother and I waited for him to ask me out, and he never did something always came up, everytime he was about to ask I was upset or something and we just never could get to it. Eventually we gave up and with that our friendship went out the window. For awhile we didn't talk much, now we our back to talking everyday, I think we would have been better going out and breaking up then doing that dance. I say ask her out, once friends always friends. Good luck.
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I personally think if you date someone they should (if they aren't already) become your best friend. You already have that part covered...so I think if you like her you have to give it a try.
Right up front you need to make a pact that if it just gets to weird you will stop dating and go back to being friends. If you talk and don't keep your feelings hidden from each other, it can work.
One of the main things some people do when they date their best friends that you do need to avoid is this... Do not change the way you treat each other. Don't all of a sudden try to impress each other. You already like each other so just be yourself.
Good luck. Ask her out. :)
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I think if you've found a good thing, you might want to pursue it. You say she's your best friend, and I can understand being slightly timid about starting a deeper relationship for fear of losing her.. but when you think about, all a "lover" really is is your best friend. And afterall, best friends make the best "lovers". Also, if you two are really the great friends you claim to be, then I'd imagine the friendship would be able to survive whatever comes it's way. Go get 'er, Champ. ;)
♥ Mackenzie ♥
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