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am i weird?
well i just seem to feel more comfortable and easier to be friends with guys then girls. (by the way im a girl) i just feel like so shy when i try to be friends with girls and make friends with new girls and i dont know what to say. but it's so weird because most of my best friends are boys. like when i was little their was like 4 guys on my street and like one girl my age and i always wanted to play with the boys cause it seemed easieer. its just hard to be myself around girls. i'm definitely not a tomboy. i'm a typical teenage girl. i'm not talking about my sister or cousins, i mean just girls at school and stuff. what's my problem?
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hey! no there is definitley nothing wrong with this! i find myself in the past year getting along a lot better with guys too. it's just because girls like to gossip and can gossip about you sometimes maybe and like others have said they are less trustworthy sometimes and yes, they are pretty bitchy sometimes. Some of my best friends are guys, and this is okay. Because guys make great friends for us cause they are so easy to get along with and fun to be around and easy to talk to. it's ok to have really good guy friends that you can talk to about anything, but also be sure to try and have a few girl friends because there are certain things that would be better to have them for, too. xoxo helpachick
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You dont have a problem. Its perfectyly normal that you feel more comfortable with guys. Girls are more bitchy and less trustworthy, most guys are good friends. But dont think that you cant be friends with girls too, you just have to be yourself and try to make new friends who are girls. good luck ;)
-beckss
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Trust me, you're not weird. Even I enjoy guys' company. But it is better to have both girls and guys as friends.You just seem to relate more to boys sometimes but there's no way that you can't relate to gals. It isn't hard to talk to girls like you. Talk about anything and be yourself. Try to hang out where you can meet girlfriends, like the mall or something. Get to know them better and soon you'll have one or more as friends. Anyhow, boys are cool and comforatble to be with sometimes, but there's a time when you need a girl talk that they might relate or a moment to hang with girlfriends.
Hope you'll find cool girlfriends! Good luck!
Later!
♥teen13
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You don't have a problem. I know it's a little strange to have a lot of friends who are guys and the fact that you feel like you can relate to them better but maybe that's because you havn't really met a girl that was close to you as a friend. A way to get closer to a girlfriend is letting your feelings out or going out with them to shop or something. Basically girlfriends are just girls who tell secrets, go shopping, take pictures o each other, have parties, do make overs and all of that fun stuff.
Sometimes you think that you wouldn't be interested in that stuff, but you can have fun when you are with friends that you can trust and always talk to. You don't have to get closer to girls as friends, but it wouldn't hurt to check out what you are missing.
-TheTeenGirl
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Dear Am I Weird,
No, this is not unusual at all. In fact, it was much the same way for me when I was your age. Just keep in mind that some day this might be different, and that's okay too!
There is great value in having BOTH male and female friends, and I'll bet as you get older it'll get easier to develop friendships with females. Sometimes, I think younger girls get caught up in the competition thing and forget that as females we share a great deal. Not only the biological aspects of our bodies, but our emotional makeup is different from guys. (Not better, not worse, just different.)
What I can tell you is this; I love the man I'm with, and I deeply value my female friends. Some more than others (of course), but for the most part my girls help me stay sane!
In time, I hope you'll also be able to develop close, supportive frienships with females. It's well worth the time and energy!
I wish you well.
Take Care,
Earth Mother
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Yeah, I'm the same way, for me its difficult to be friends with girls because their moody and sometimes take things a little too dramatic. Well anyway there's nothing wrong with you, your just more comfortable with guys. If you want to hang out with girls, maybe hang out with girls that are shy and girls that have the same interests as you. Just think of them as guys that have more emotions lol. Just think their one of the guys..that might help..sorry wish I could help more.
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