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Okay, theres this kid. Lets call him JAR, now jar really likes me; a lot. And well, I don't really like him. But the thing is that he would pay someone $10 for my phone number or beat up anyone that said something mean to me. He offered to buy me a new phone .. and got my chocolates, and a bear and calls me ALL the time.
Okay, now my boyfriend. Lets call him AREO(don't ask) now, areo never says things like that. I've gotten chocolates before, and cute little love notes from him like "From the first time I saw you .." kind of notes. He just doesn't give me a lot of stuff. But does that mean he doesn't care? I mean, he loves to skate he's out skating most of the time and he doesn't have a cell. So sometimes its hard for him to call.
Thats the thing. Who likes me more? Theres a 99% chance that I'm not going to go out with JAR, but I feel bad for him. For all I know his room could have my face all over it. He really likes me. But so does AREO. Nobody really likes JAR. So it would be kind of embarrassing to go out with him, and I don't want to. I like AREO, but sometimes I have my doubts of him.
ugghhh, help?
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if you don't like 'Jar' then you shouldn't dump your bf for him, just because your bf isn't as obssessed over you it doesnt mean he doesnt care and his popularity shouldn't really come into it.
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well you need to tell "JAR" that you dont like him like him it will be hard for him for a wile but he will get over it and tell "AREO" that he needs to be more sweeter. get back to me :)
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I have pity dated, and trust me, it's not worth it. Only date someone if you are SURE you like them, not because they like you. Talk to your boyfriend about everything. If he doesn't understand, he's not worth it.
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ok well, heres your problem:
1. your thinking of pity-dating someone, which is worse than telling them no!
2. your being a bit of a golddigger the way you feel material objects is what shows a mans affection!
3. your actually considering dumping your boyfriend because hes not very open with liking you!
now, think of it this way, stalker or real man? now i hope i didnt affend you, i was just trying to show you that guys dont show their feelings willingly and openly unless their either really sensitive or they want somehthing from you! i beleive that this JAR is a bit obsessed, and that you should NOT want to even consider dating him! AREO likes you, i mean duh hes dating you, guys tend to hide their feelings, he obviously likes you more! this JAR guy is proboly just a little crazy and desperate, i mean you said it yourself that nobody likes him, so basically he wants a little something from you! dont think, follow your heart, AREO likes you better! good luck, and i hope that you werent affended by anything i said!
PS: in the furture dont turn someone down, based on their social status!
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Well just because JAR buys you things doesn't mean he likes you more, he's probably trying to win you over. What you get from your boyfriend shouldn't matter as long as you like him and he makes you feel good. I mean you might want to hint to your bf you feel not important to him because I'm sure you are but you just need a little reassureance. I hope that helped!!Good Luck with everything.
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