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i should do with my hair?

heres pictures of me

myspace.com/giggly_girrafe_13

i've had the same hair for like ever, i'm really tired of the same old side bangs too. i'm trying to grow out my hair too, any ideas would be mucho appreciated!

thanks :]

what about somehting like this http://millsy.files.wordpress.com/2006/11/bilson-rachel-photo-xxl-rachel-bilson-6234925.jpg
kind of like this i think will look good with your physical appareance :) http://images.askmen.com/galleries/actress/vanessa-hudgens/pictures/vanessa-hudgens-picture-1.jpg

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16/F

I'll warn you in advance this may be long, but interesting. If it wasn't happening to me that is...

I met this guy, Luke, on a penpals website. Well I didn't actually meet him...but you get what I mean. Anways I sent him a letter and then we started writing, he seemed like a really interesting person and he was. He's 19 and he lives in London and I live in New York.

A year later and we were still writing each other and we had gotten to know each other really well. When my family decided they wanted to go to London for Vacation (It was just the start of my first year at Yale)I told him that, and it turns out he lived close to the area we would be visiting.

When we got there I had a hard time getting away from my parents to go see him because they didn't want me alone in a foreign place so I just told them about him and they said I could go see him as long as they met him first and I called to check in every hour.

We were in London for 3 weeks and I probably spent most of my time with him. We got really close, like really, really close. He showed me his favorite spots in London and took me to a bunch of places. He introduced me to his family, too, even though he doesn't live with them. He was so sweet, he always held the doors open for me, hugged me, once when he came to pick me up he brought me sunflowers (I think in one of my letters I said they were my favorite flowers) I told him they were beautiful and he said "So are you" and kissed my forehead.

One days before my family and I had to leave we were at his place, sitting on his bed, and I was looking at his photo's he had. We started talking and then he kissed me and then kissing turned into making out and then making out turned into...more than that. Something that starts with an S and ends in an X.

The next morning I woke up and I waws in his arms and at first I thought he was only using me. Then I contemplated the fact that I lost my virginity to him and I didn't and don't regret it at all. I got out of bed and left. 1) I was scared of what he would say when he got up. 2)My parents didn't know where I was at.

A couple hours later when I was back at the hotel he called me and wanted me to meet him at this one place, so I went. He said he wanted to be with me and that he was falling in love with me. I told him that I wasn't sure if I could do long distant relationship...I didn't even know when we would see eachother again. He told me I could go to school there, with him, and that he'd even help pay for it. (His dad owns one of the majoe companies up in North London so his family is kind of...wealthy) and he said that if I didn't want to come tom school here then he'd come to school in the U.S. I told him I had to think about it.

The thing is I really like him, I might even love him, and I even got into some schools in London, but Im scared to leave everything behind, and transfer schools if I do at the end of the semester. And if everything doesn't work out I'll be stuck in London without any family or friends...

I honestly don't know what to do, I've kept in touch with him of course, he's still waiting on my answer...I've made pro con lists and thoguht this over to death. I need advice from someone who I don't know.

So...any advice?


ok if i where you, i wouldn't want to regret it , caue when you leave an opoortunity with someone happen its very proabble you will regret it , i think you should give it a try , go there only for one semester, see if you like it if you addapt to people and make friends , not just going thre and be stuck with him, if it doesn't work at least youll feel confortable cause you got back to new york , cause tihs way you can think like"ok it didn't work out but at least i try to make it work out"...not like being in new york probably like " what would have happen if i'd be in london?" i think its better to feel confortable eventhough if it doesn't work you dont have family in there and feel sad but hey its worse to feel like it could have been something really good for you and you didn't gave a chance , also if it doesn't work, hey at least you got the experience and got to leave in london for one semester and if you transfer school in the us probably you won't miss that semester subjects if you go to a good school in london :)

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my name is cederian i think i may sick because im the only guy i know that has mood swings and my girlfriend mariah just tell me that its normal but i need a second opinion to give you insight as to whats been happining to well i was happy lik two hourrs ago and i just started to cry and i remember thinking am i dying whats wrong with me i felt like i wanted to die ive never been this depressed i kept telling myself what do you have to live for then i realized i was only 16/m why was i thinking like that then mariah tried to help me feel better but it did'nt help i thought i would just go lie down and i would feel better some how then it happened i sat up and looked in my mirror and said to myself you dont deserve to live and my big brother always makes me feel like crap ill just be sitting down in the sun room and hell just come up to me and call me a fag and how in the hell can i be a fag if i have a girl friend and my dad does'nt approve of anything i do nothing i do makes him happy he just sits there and judges me he'll just say you're an idiot but i makes straight a.s in school i play football i play soccer and baseball he's never been to anyone of my games butyou know the worst thing he ever said to me was that it was a mistake for me to be born and he wished my mom would had an abortion and that he hated me then the next day he acted as though nothing had happened but my mom,grandma and mariah are the only people who love me but are they enough reason for me to stay alive i like eight months tried to kill myself because the dispair had gotten to a point where i just could'nt take it anymore i need help what wrong with me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i think you should relay and focus just on the people who really care about you like your mom and mariah, aslo please rememebr that this kind of situation also can affect your relationship with her cause belive me its not easy to have aboyfriend whos constantly feeling down, and depressed , its very exausting and might be a reason to brake up, about the suicidal things, i think you should just understand that you should not depend on anyonme to be happy but yourself , as long as you have good friends and a girlfriend or your mom or anyone there to support you , then the people who makes you feel down like your dad doens't deserve your attention, theres a reason why people like mariah likes you, and its enough to make her want to support you , you shouldn't care about this things cause you don't need to prove anything to anyone, just yourself. its not good to depend on the acceptance of people to be happy , rememebr we cannot get along with anyone , i know its hard that this person you just dont get along its your dad, but remember he¿'s not the only member of your family, also remember he expects other things from you, cause a father's love its condicial,(like i love you cause your like me and im proud your my son) meanwhile a mothers love is unconditional on most cases, and also think about it mariah has reasons enough to love you eventhough its exausting to treat with a depressive person, then it means there's somehting really good about you and just because someone doens't appreciate ito like your father it doesn't mean your gonna let those people who care about you down by suciding or something, you need to learn that you can only find happyness until you find it with yourself, then you can love others.

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I am 14/f and I am having a birthday party
Here is what I have planned so far:
--->3 girls including me, 4 boys
--->on a Saturday

-Meet at my house at 6:30
-And eat...ANY IDEAS?
-Then go to market street (like a New York type place) and play in the fountains and go get ice cream and stuff
-Come back to my house, hang out, go outside on the golf course, ravee, snack, cake and presents
-Haunted house
-I NEED SOMETHING COOL HERE
-Watch movies and hang out
-Go wrapping around 1ish or 2ish a.m.
-Boys go home, girls stay the night =P

It will be too cold to swim
I only want those people =P
And my boyfriend is one of them and we are all really close friends so like spin the bottle or 7 minutes in heaven would be awkward =P

But if you have ANY ideas to spice it up a little, you would be a life saver :D
Thank you soo much!
HELP!

mm i dont know my first idea is truth or dare hahaha

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she means so much to me and im the kinda guy who would wait forever. Id hate myself for not waiting for her. she has alot of bad rumors and a bad past, I dont care, i can see through them and i know i want to be with her. I know it may never happen but i need something to keep my hopes up for. I have no idea where to go from here plz help me......

hey you sound exactly like my ex boyfriend, he wants to wait forever but eventhough he wants that adn i know he could wait a long time , i just dont wanna be with him and probably this girl keeps you waiting cause she doesn't want to be mean and just say no, maybe she keeps you waiting becuase she wants you to think there's still a chance, and until you just get tired of waiting and just let her go and look for someone else so this way shes not going to be the bad guy , do you get it ? i tell you this because im kinda doing the same thing so i can understand what she might me thinking, i mean when your sure you wanna be with someone you have no doubts, if you are doubting about it and then you are with that person its veeery probable that person will have doubts again cause she wasnt's sure since the beginning. so my advice its to really look for someone else, cause wouldn't you feel unconfortable if shes with you eventhough you know she kept you waiting a long time (knowing that she kept you waiting cause she wasn't sure if she wanted to be with you?) a part of you i think will feel like "oh meaybe she doesn't like me enough to be sure enough to be with me" or at least i think i would think this way , cause if someones not sure to be with you and its doubting about it alot,, when you finally get what you want its very probable you will feel unconfortable with the situation. think about it and tell me what you think :) good luck with everything and believe me i know taht its hard to just accept a "just look for someone else"advice cause im in the same situation but you should also think that theres someone who really deserves your patience on waiting and things like this , someone who really likes you and doesn't doubt if she wants to be with you :)

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i'm 14/f okay so for our school's annual halloween dance the theme is "kid's at heart" like something from our childhood like the 90s. Everyone usually dresses up with their frends & a while ago me & my friends thought we should do rugrats, but now my friendds don't want to do that & we keep arguing over what to do. They keep suggesting things like pokemon or lion king but i dont want to dress up in a weird suit lik that. Does anyone have any other ideas we could do? Thers 4/5 of us
thanks

power rangers? ninja turtles? captain tsubasa? ranma? aladdin ? wizard of oz? or my favorite one , scooby doo hahha i've seen it in a group of friends it looks really cool ,and the flinstones, jetsons , mario bros.!!need anymore?

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i'm 15/f...i have really hairy feet & i was wondering if it was safe to shave my feet with a regular razor?

its okay but its better if you use any foam or something to make shaving easier

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16\f

My boyfriend fingered me like 3 months ago.. and it bled. But he had fingered me like 30 times before that day that it blead. So I was just wondering. We are planning on having sex pretty soon and I was wondering if it could still bleed even though it bled once when he fingered me...
And also, I want my FIRST TIME to be remerable. Any suggestionS? we both still live at home...
He has his liscense though

if your hime broke already i guess it won't bleed again, cause normaly its like it bleeds when you brake this , thats the reason of the bleeding ..take care ! oh rememeber protection ahahaha just in case

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two shows/movies I can't stand:

Hannah Montana and High School Musical (1 and 2)

Not only, in my opinion, are they really cheesy and overrated..but unoriginal and stupid.

Am I wrong to think this? Yet, I still get blamed in school for not liking it..

yes i think the same way at least hanna montana has like 2 seconds in where i could laugh but its annoying she reminds me of amanda bynes show which used to be totally pointless and hsm yes i think the same way hahaha its totally stupid and pointless , there's no trama in the story but hey i guess people that think more like child are the ones that enjoy this kind of things so i guess your jhust growing up

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Well im not so sure where to put this but I hope I have it in the right place. This may sound really retarded, but it really bugs me. I have a problume with laughing, I always laugh at everything even if its not funny and i cant help it I just do. Sometimes when I am talking I cannot even finish my sentence because I start laughing all the time. It really imbarresses me esspecially when i am talking to the guy I really like, I am scared that my laughing might scare him away. This may seem really weired but how can I stop laughing so much? I hate looking like a retared all the time.

hahahaahhahahaha the same happens to me sometimes and i just try to think of something sad or serious , or i bite my tongue or my lips thats the only way i control it :)

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I have been hanging out and getting to know this girl, we had a date and she told me she wasnt emotionally stable. A couple days later she is dating this kid and that they are bf and gf, i talk to her and she gives me a big thing about never seeing me the end of my senior year, i make that ok and can completely understand it. we talk every day, we get talking about us and she says >If you really love me you will wait for me

i think you shouldn't wait eventhough she wants you too but nothings sure, its not like your gonna be missing other chances to meet more people for someone that is not even sure to be with you , find someone who loves you like you deserve, its okay to wait for someone but not a lot time like a year or something , if its a reasonable time, give it to her and let her make up her mind , if its a long time , move on enventhough it seems hard to do it

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20/f

I became depressed and never liked myself because of who I am I want to run away from every one to keep them away from my depression. But I couldn’t hold it in, I told them what was wrong and they said I should tell Lara how I feel. I deny it for 7 years to not tell her but it got to the point that I was about to blow! So I told Lara that I am bi sexual and I am in love with her. Lara was in shocked but stayed there by my side to listen to me. She respected me and will try to help me as much as she can.

After I told Lara how I felt 10 months ago I went to a party and met this guy, nothing happen but I told Lara about it. She then got mad, she said she was not sure to be happy for me or pissed. I didn’t understand what she meant.

I told her that I am moving on and you are not making it easy on me. And she said she was jealous because she didn’t want to drift apart from our friendship and was afraid that we won’t be close anymore. She told me that she was jealous of my last two boyfriends in the year of high school. (And I remember her odd behavior, when I told her and my other friends that I got a boyfriend name Tony she ask me privately if we are going to kiss. And I look at her and said “maybe why? “ Lara said “well you know I hate it when people kiss” but after she said that, that made me wonder.) So now I’d told Lara that the reason why I went out with them is because I want to get over her and move on. And that’s why I want to move away to rethink my thoughts. She asks me why I liked her and I said “I don’t know how it happened but it did. But I am attracted by smarts, mysterious and adventures personality and that’s what you are.
But I really can’t explain it; it’s hard to put into words.”

Lara only had one boyfriend that lasted 3 days at freshmen year and she never told me about him until I found out the day she broke up with him. I ask Lara 2 days after she broke up with him why she didn’t tell me and she got all defective and said “I thought Rachel told you” (our friend who knew that Lara was going out with Josh) but I explain it to her that its yourself suppose to tell the friends. And she still got defective (I never understood that). But after him she had no one else she had some crushes but never ask them out but now when I ask her if she wanted a boyfriend she says “no not really”.

I got mad at Lara because it sounded like she like me back and I didn’t want her to (even thou I do wish it) Because I don’t think I can be good in a relationship because of me not believing in myself. I told Lara that but she didn’t respond to it. September last week I gave her a note that read:

I want to make things clear between us, because I been feeling quiet confused at the moment.
When I explain myself to you and how I felt about you, you took it respectfully and I am grateful for that. You told me in the chat room that you are fine about my feelings but don’t like me in that way. I respect that and so I moved on. But when I told you that I meet that guy Paul at the party you seem a bit jealous and I ask why you where. And it did catch me off guard, when you explain it to me and I didn’t know what to say but I was really confused because I didn’t know what to think. So I want to ask you, do you like me more than a friend? I need to know just to make things a bit clear, if you don’t then that’s fine we will stay good friends. I value our friendship very much but it seems like right now it is on the line and I don’t want anything to break it.

Please write me back when ever you can.

She hasn’t written me back and it’s been 3 weeks, I see her every Tuesday and Thursday because we have math class together. And it’s been bugging me why she hadn’t written back. What I think is that she can’t decide or to afraid to say no I don’t know but I want to know soon. What should I do?

i think your friend its affraid to say she feels the same way cause it might seem to you like"ok you like me , and i like you back ,lets be together " i think she's confuced about how she feels and she's been avoiding this, i think it is better for you to ask her persoanlly whats going on, because if she feels confuse shes not going to face the situation by herself , talk to her and see how she reacts, but don't pressure her to decide her answer :)

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Okay, well one of my internet friends (I've met her in real life before though) got Work Expierience with this TV show, who are our idols and we basically worship them.

She's already done it and came home and told our group all about it.

I honestly couldn't be any happier she got it, really. But at the same time I don't think I've ever been this jealous in my life. It's not a bitchy jealous. I haven't gotten narky with her and as I said I'm REALLY happy for her.

My problem is though this is one of those sorta 'depressing' jealousy types. I feel really depressed and wish I could get work expierience with them. I can't, because I live in another city and I don't think it's legal. Also they rarely take in high school students, actually she's the first female high school student they've ever taken in.

I've also met them, and flew up to that city just to be in the studio audience. It's still not enough, I still wish I did what she did.

So my question is, how can I get this feeling off my chest? It's become pretty pathetic how depressed/jealous I am over such a petty little thing as this. It's not like I'm really missing out, work expierience for them isn't handed out like candy.

oh which tv show? hahah im so curious , anyway ifyou find this out how to stop this jealous /depress situation please let me know cause im kind of in the same situation ..of course not with tv shows and things like this ..juwst about feeling jealous of a friend but not jealous like i dont want that to happen to her..just like i want to have that too hahaha please

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My friend is really clingy! Im at college and have just started a new course. This girl who was on my other course last year is on this one too and she wont leave me alone. I want to make other friends on the course because i dont just want one friend at college.
What can i say to her, so that i can make other friends without hurting her feelings?

Please help
Thanks
x

dont sa y anything cause you might hurt her , just start to make her notice with indirect comments or actions that shes not your only friend, and try to make her meet more people , for example when you meet someone introduce him/her to your friend so she can get less attached to you and feel more confident about having more friends than you =)

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So, I asked a question a while ago about that over a year relationship. I have sort of avoided it. And it's just been getting worse. Everyone has been commenting about how mean he's been and how I don't seem happy. So today we just decided to go to a park and it was really hard to bring up. But I mentioned one of the rude things that he has said lately. That led to an argument about all the stuff in the question I asked. After all that we sat there in silence for a while and he asked if there was anything else. I told him I just didn't like how we were getting in a fight every day. He said okay and started to walk away. I asked where he was going and he said that he didn't think there was any other way to end this visit and that he would see me tomorrow. I was speachless and then I gathered my things, called my friend, and went home. My mom and my friend both think it's for the best to break up. I was wondering if anything had happened with you yet since you said you were in the same situation.

yes , actually we broke up september 24 it was really hard , and still i cannot believe it oh ilosted your question for a while haha..anyway ..i told him several times how i was kind of feeliing less interested in the relationship because he didn't do any effort to make me feel veyr happy, and he used to make mean comments that could offend me in front of his friends, and things like this i told him how he didn't seemed to be proud of me in front of them cause with his closes friends he was very sweet with me always huging me and things like this ..but with his other firends ..he was always trying to look cool or something and made mean coments and we didn't even loked like a couple , we looked more like friends , and of course he deny what i said and still he doesnt think im right by thinking this .. so i decided to take a brake and see if my feelings change to make me feel secure enough to go back with him, but honestly recently i've been having second thoughts aboutit and was thinking about braking up a lot , cause everytime we fight i gave up and was like"ok you know this doesnt make sense anymore maybe its best for us to brake up " ..of course he didn't wanted but , he was making me unconfortable with this situations and we talked about it several times and got into more fights because of it , so i decided to brake up , eventhough it was VERY hard , still it is..imagine ...a 2 year relationship then suddenly brake up?...still i cannot believe it and im not used to say no i dont have a boyfriend..in fact imnot ready yet to say it ..i always say that we are on a brake or something ...cuase i dont know i dont feel very confortable with my decision, or with getting back with him ...i think im not sure what i want ..and my mom and friends all of them think that it was best for us to brake up ..but who knows ..a part of me wants him to do things like a t the beggining t, things to make me fall in love with him again ...but the other part its convinced that that kind of behavior (making me fall in love with him being veyr sweet) wouldn't last that long and we will be in the same situation as before, fighting all the time and thingsl ike this ...

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This is pretty long.
First time asking a question here.
I’m 16/f
I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 1 year and 3 months. He’s my first boyfriend. We started dating towards the end of 8th grade and we’re are now in the beginning of sophomore year in high school. Towards the beginning of our relationship he was the one who would always want to hang out and he always said really nice things like “you look beautiful”. And then a little later he would tell me he loved me a lot. I always said it back and I meant it. Then towards the middle of our relationship I was the one who always wanted to hang out and he always had plans with his friends who I used to be good friends with and liked at the time. Well back in middle school I didn’t have many friends that were girls and I was only friends with him and his friends. But then in freshman year I made friends that were girls and I am well aware that I became a little less laid back. But he also seemed a lot different to. His friends became jerks to me and he wouldn’t stand up for me. I wasn’t able to joke around with him anymore he took it all to seriously. He doesn‘t seem to care about anything anymore. Grades, holidays, rules, my interests, and all that kind of stuff. We used to talk online for hours. He is never online anymore. He used to call to hang out all the time. But I found myself being the one to call all the time. I could never see him being one to cheat. But I was always still paranoid. He doesn’t really get along with other girls. I still have a lot of guy friends and he never had a problem with it because he was sort of friends with them. I never hung out with them outside of school. So up to date now, he rarely ever says I’m beautiful anymore or say any of the other nice things that he used to. Unless he’s trying to get me to do something to him. Which I have never agreed to. I just don’t feel ready. Well, actually I don’t find myself wanting to. I don’t find myself as attracted to him as I was before. We don’t seem to have as much in common anymore. During the summer there were a few times where he wouldn’t call me for a whole week or even see me. I would call him but he doesn’t have a cell phone and he was never at his home. He started hanging out with his band a lot. Lately I found myself not being jealous or really being motivated to hang out. We don’t have the same sense of humor anymore. My friends are really fun and outgoing. And I find myself being more like them. Today we had to sit in the auditorium for an assembly. One of my friends that was a male was joking around with him and he got pissed. He has never accepted the fact that I think some of his friends are jerks. He usually doesn’t associate with my friends but today he was talking mean about my friend that was joking around with him and I didn’t think it was fair that I’m not aloud to say anything bad about his friends but it’s alright for him. There are a lot of things like that. Where it’s okay for him to do something in his eyes but then he gets pissed when I do it. When ever we have an argument I’m never aloud to be the mad one. He always makes it about himself. If we’re hanging out and he does or says something that upsets me (which has been happening a lot recently) I just kind of move away from him and just sit there. I would just like for once to not be the one who talks first or apologizes first. He always turns it into some sort of game to see who talks first. It’s always me. If I get angry he makes it about himself and then gets mad at me. Sometimes he curses at me in argument. I told him I don’t like that. I don’t have a problem with cursing at all. But when it’s directed towards me from him in an angry tone. It’s kind of scary. He’s only made me cry once. Well only once in front of him. But he’s made me cry before like after a phone conversation or something. It takes a lot to make me cry. He doesn’t listen to my problems and whenever he does his answers are always to just yell at the person I have a problem with. I don’t think that’s always the best way to handle things. I’ve found my taste in music getting less picky. He loves metal/grunge. I like it too and I grew up with it. But I also like other things and for some reason I can’t even talk to him about that because I know how he acts about that. He will just sit there and tell me how much he hates that band and make me feel stupid for even having the slightest bit of interest in that band. I’ve told him all of this stuff and he doesn’t have much of a response he just makes it about himself. So this is getting pretty long. I guess I'm just venting but I just thought I’d let you know where I’m coming from. I’m not really sure what I’m asking here. But the thought of breaking up has been racing through my mind a lot recently. But the thing is, I can’t imagine being the one to do that. He’s my first boyfriend, I love his family, and I don’t know how he would react at all. Once bringing that up in conversation to your boyfriend I can’t imagine it ever going back to normal. Also we have lunch together and sometimes he doesn’t sit with me which is okay, he has friends too, but I can’t imagine how awkward that would be. We also have art class together. I know those would be horrible reasons not to break up if I’m unhappy. It’s just something that’s been on my mind. My best friend and her boyfriend have been going through a lot trouble in their 2 year relationship and I think that, that might have gotten me thinking about my own relationship. Can anyone tell me what you think and if you have any idea something I could say to him about any of this.

my gooooood!!1 im in the SAME situation i swear,, my advice its to compare the good things he's done for you with the bad things,,and see if the baad ones are enough to brake up , or take a brake, and see how you feel,,if hes still interested get back together if hes not or he doesnt show it ..maybe its the best option ...i've written a LOOONG message to you but i erase it by mistake :S so thats why know i try to make it as short as possible , let me know how it goes cause really im in the same situation and i also dont know what to do , my first bf, cant imagine braking up , but im to tired to go on this relationship, we've been together for 2 years but its like a really complicated relationship :S lots of fighting recently and becoming more recent :S so its so confusing please let me know if you find any advice haha even the music part im the SAME way ..he likes heavy metal, i like kind of indie stuff but i also like metal, and he makes me feel like an idiot for liking some bands, people, places ,or even clothing brands

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I have been dating my boyfriend for 8 months and ever since i did i have no friends its like i stopped hanging out with all of them. I need someone close to talk to but it seems everytime i find someone like that they always backstab me and tell the hole world...

what should i do?

the same thing happened to me when my bf and i where together like a year :S from then on I decided that I wasn't going to stop hanging with my friends because of him! i told him its okay for him to have friends girls and boys not just like dont talk to any girl and stuff . so i made him understood that my guy friends are nice persons even though they are not friends with my bf but he has notice that is just stupid to make me leave my friends for him and me doing the same to him. make him understand that you both need to spend time with your friends because if you just hang out with him and he does the saem thing you'll get tired of the relationship and will brake up or something similar, so just tell him you both need to spent also time with other people so you can be better with each other. hope you understoo the whole idea :)

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I have a spanish oral exam tomorow. It's basically me and my teacher having a conversation in a certain situation like if we were in school, or in the park, or at the grocery store, or at the movies, only we speak in spanish. Problem is, i can't speak spanish so i'm worried that i might say the wrong verb or whatever because seriously i don't think i'll pass this. The test is tomorow and so can anyone give me sites or things to help me review for it so i atleast pass with like a 65 or something? Thanks!

i can help you spanish is my native language , if interested please send me a question

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is a chi really worth it? i have a conair right now, and it straightens my naturally pretty curly hair really well at first. but it doesnt take long for it to wave/dip in and out and get poofy. all i want is pin straight sleek hair. will a chi do that and make it last?

id appreciate only if youve used a chi to give me your input :] thanks!

yes! it is worth it but thre's a problem. mos t of people i know that owned a chi, had problems with it including myself because the cable gets out of the iron or simply my problem (it suddenly stop working and then i read about the same exact problem, and its because chi irons come with a fabric error with is that the cable on the inside that make it gets hot get loose on hte inside so you hav to presse it really really hard to make it joing again and work ) so inn my opinion buy a chi and works great, but it won't last longr than a year or yyear and a half i have the ion remiere with nano tech and it works great ! you can try that

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i love my husband with all thats in me, and i know he loves me the same. i have a toriffic marriage to a great man, he is my best friend and whats good we comfide in eachother about any and everythings. this is my question: would he love me less or get tried of me because i don't want to go to his mother house with him sometimes?
can love ever be misunderstood for infatuation or what seperate love from infatuation, whats the defferents between them? answer if you can..thanks

infatuation is more like , when you see someone perfect in all ways ...and love is defined as when you see someone perfect eventhough you know his best and his worst things about him and still you see him perfect , and all his wrong things doesn't matter because you love him all above them ..hope i can help at least a litte bit

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