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So, I asked a question a while ago about that over a year relationship. I have sort of avoided it. And it's just been getting worse. Everyone has been commenting about how mean he's been and how I don't seem happy. So today we just decided to go to a park and it was really hard to bring up. But I mentioned one of the rude things that he has said lately. That led to an argument about all the stuff in the question I asked. After all that we sat there in silence for a while and he asked if there was anything else. I told him I just didn't like how we were getting in a fight every day. He said okay and started to walk away. I asked where he was going and he said that he didn't think there was any other way to end this visit and that he would see me tomorrow. I was speachless and then I gathered my things, called my friend, and went home. My mom and my friend both think it's for the best to break up. I was wondering if anything had happened with you yet since you said you were in the same situation.
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yes , actually we broke up september 24 it was really hard , and still i cannot believe it oh ilosted your question for a while haha..anyway ..i told him several times how i was kind of feeliing less interested in the relationship because he didn't do any effort to make me feel veyr happy, and he used to make mean comments that could offend me in front of his friends, and things like this i told him how he didn't seemed to be proud of me in front of them cause with his closes friends he was very sweet with me always huging me and things like this ..but with his other firends ..he was always trying to look cool or something and made mean coments and we didn't even loked like a couple , we looked more like friends , and of course he deny what i said and still he doesnt think im right by thinking this .. so i decided to take a brake and see if my feelings change to make me feel secure enough to go back with him, but honestly recently i've been having second thoughts aboutit and was thinking about braking up a lot , cause everytime we fight i gave up and was like"ok you know this doesnt make sense anymore maybe its best for us to brake up " ..of course he didn't wanted but , he was making me unconfortable with this situations and we talked about it several times and got into more fights because of it , so i decided to brake up , eventhough it was VERY hard , still it is..imagine ...a 2 year relationship then suddenly brake up?...still i cannot believe it and im not used to say no i dont have a boyfriend..in fact imnot ready yet to say it ..i always say that we are on a brake or something ...cuase i dont know i dont feel very confortable with my decision, or with getting back with him ...i think im not sure what i want ..and my mom and friends all of them think that it was best for us to brake up ..but who knows ..a part of me wants him to do things like a t the beggining t, things to make me fall in love with him again ...but the other part its convinced that that kind of behavior (making me fall in love with him being veyr sweet) wouldn't last that long and we will be in the same situation as before, fighting all the time and thingsl ike this ...
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