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Heart is crumbling to nothing.....
I have been hanging out and getting to know this girl, we had a date and she told me she wasnt emotionally stable. A couple days later she is dating this kid and that they are bf and gf, i talk to her and she gives me a big thing about never seeing me the end of my senior year, i make that ok and can completely understand it. we talk every day, we get talking about us and she says >If you really love me you will wait for me<. Every day i come home and rip my hands up on the punching bag crying my eyes out. So now im stuck waiting for her to break up, What should i do?
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By telling you to wait for her, most definately shows how she's not worth your time. She's asking too much a thing, and it doesn't even seem like she's going to make any effort to make it work.
Stop taking this out on yourself, sternly tell her that you cannot wait for her, I don't think she'll be half as hurt as you are right now.
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Don't wait.
You weren't first on her list last time and your probably wont be next time she is single either.
She doesn't want to be with you, she wants to be with someone else. However confused she is, however much she might like you, that is still true.
Unstuck yourselt by not talking to her. She is being selfish and leading you on, even if she doesn't mean too. It's cruel and immature of her. It's also not very loyal to her boyfriend now is it?
Being understanding is one thing. Being a doormat for someone who clearly doesn't value you nearly so much as you value her is something different.
Stop being her doormat. Please.
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i think you shouldn't wait eventhough she wants you too but nothings sure, its not like your gonna be missing other chances to meet more people for someone that is not even sure to be with you , find someone who loves you like you deserve, its okay to wait for someone but not a lot time like a year or something , if its a reasonable time, give it to her and let her make up her mind , if its a long time , move on enventhough it seems hard to do it
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