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born and raised in chi-town.(a.k.a.- chicago- for the slow kids)Last time i checked, i was a girl.and i have 10 piercings- 9 of which i did myself.(all but my eyebrow). fun stuff.
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i am very perplexed. i attended a christian school since i was kindergarten and i already accepted Christ as my Lord and Saviour. but i'm moving to a new school this year, a catholic one. but since i'm not baptized christian,and i was baptized catholic when i was a baby, so i'm technically a catholic.but since i'm not baptized christian, people will never think i'm christian.so people will really think i'm catholic because i was baptized and i have certificate as proof. i need help because i dunno should just go on prtending i'm a catholicwhen i'm really not. i really dunno what to do. sorry if its a bit confusing but pls. help.
Maddie
i think you sdhould honestly do what you feel is right. cotholisism is just another form of christianity. thts what alot of people dont understand. im pentecostal- and that is just another form of christianity as well. consider yourself whichever religion you feel God is leadig you towards, and you cant go wrong.
I'm a 15 year old male, and am looking for some interesting, male friendly books to read. I prefer sports novels, but have pretty much exhausted that area of my library. I'd prefer males as the main characters, only because I can relate easier and better.
If anyone has any ideas, don't hesitate.
i read a book called rewind that i liked .a male was the main character, but i forget who was the author. its kinda short- i read it a real long time ago- i couldnt even tell you what its about- i just remember that i liked it. sorry if im not much of help!
i'm getting married soon to this wonderful guy. we've been together a few years and he's really wonderful. there's only one slight problem. i've done stuff with other guys, but i've never had sex. i've always promised myself to save it for my wedding night. my partner, on the otherhand, has had sex with several girls. this sorta bothers me because i know our first time together isn't going to be as special for him as with me, because he's already had other girls before me to compare to, and everyone knows your first time is the most special too. i'm just so jealous when i think of the other girls who got there before me and who had him.
for some reason i always ask him about his other girlfriends because of curiosity but when i find out more it upsets me. but i still want to know more. it makes no sense. i know he really loves me, but i always want to know if he loved them too and every detail of their relationship. i can't seem to focus on the present. i don't speak to my ex boyfriends but he speaks to his past girlfriends. we even ran into one once and they got on so well i felt so dreadful.
i don't know why i feel like this. i have a wonderful guy yet i'm letting these stupid worries ruin our relationship. why do i feel like this and what can i do?
why do you let him talk to his past girlfriends?- thts crazy. i know he wouldnt want you to speak to your past boyfriends- so why let him hurt you like that?- and jealosy is normal with something like this. youve just got to let it pass, and realize that yeah- maybe all those other girls got to him before you did but hey- you got to him last, and youre the one that will be with him forever. right? hope i helped, and good luck!
I've been friends with a married man for about 3 years and we have never crossed the line. I knew him and his wife before they moved last year. I thought of him as one of my closest friends- he was someone I could always talk to. Well yesterday we got into a big fight on MSN messenger. I told him that I missed him (because I harldy get to see him since he moved) and then he made a comment "I'm a married man". Then I said "I know- just friends". I was upset and told him I didnt think we should talk anymore. He wanted to know why. I told him that his comment " I'm a married man" made it sound like I wanted an affair with him. I assured him I was not like that. I said I would never cheat with a married man because it happend with my mom and dad. I also said I hoped we could still be friends. Well I thought he would have respected me for saying that but instead he coldly responded with "good bye". He gave me no explanation either. I thought this man was my friend- surely a true friend would understand. Now he has completely shut me out. He won't answer my phone calls and I sent two emails saying that he was the best friend I ever had and I hoped we could still be friends. He is not responding. This man has been an important friend in my life for the last 3 years- this just doesnt make sense. Why do think he's being this way? Do you think he really did want an affair with me and now is miffed that he knows he won't be getting any?
no, honestly, i think it sounds alot to me that maybe his wife had a talk with him about you. it sounds like a case where she was tellnig him that she doesnt like him bein around yo so much, and he stuck up for you- now that its a touchy subject, he got all bent out of shape when you told him you missed him. i could be completely wrong- but this is the first thing that comes to mind when i read your question. hope i helped!- good luck!
Is running a half a mile in 4 mins and 43 seconds fast regular or slow?
id say normal. i was on cross country for 3 years, and it would take me about 7 or 8 minutes to complete a mile. you figure double your half a mile and its about 7 or 8 minutes. its average.
hey.....
2 days back i tried da home kit pregnancy test...and its come negative... wel da night before it i had alot of almond and dates(does dat have any affect over da result?) and i tried da test early in da morning at 5:50am.. early morning urine(is dat fine?)...and da very next day i got my chums...
well what i wanted to know is... should i take a test again.. and if yes..when should i take it(as in should i take it on da early morning urine itself) or anyother time of da day...plz do lemme know..
and plz do tell me if dates and almond had any affect on my result dat came negative.. i dont think so..but still wanted to clarify..
thanks for everything
waitin for ur replies.
well, if the test comes back negative- that means either youre really not pregnant- or that its too early to tell. the pregnancy hormone- HCG only shows up after the 'baby' has implanted itself in your uterine wall. therefore, the HCG is what shows up to make the test a positive. they say early morning urine is the best, but there are also tests out that dont require it to be early morning. andno, the food you eat wont have a negative or positive efect on the test- its all in the HCG. hope i helped!- good luck.
i've always wondered this: can you lose weight (in a healthy way) by sweating? for example, being outside in 100 degree weather all day (and staying hydrated and all that good stuff).
well, i dont really know for sure- so i may not be of very much help to you- but i do know that they say you can lose a little bit of weight being in a sauna.- which makes you sweat. so, maybe it is true. hope i helped!
ok well at my high school every grade gets a class shirt. and we need to put a saying on it. well im the class of 2010 and i was wondering if anyone had nay ideas of a cute saying that we could put on the shirt? thanks
0-10- best-of-friends
0-10- back again
i think somethin that ryhmes would be best. thats what they do at our school. ( 08- dont hate). hope i helped. good luck!
i have one of those invisalign retainers that i have to wear while i sleep. after a couple days it starts to smell and get really gross. ive tried rinsing it with water, it didnt do anything. then i tried using toothpaste. (brushing it like i would brush my teeth) it only worked a little. so i was wondering if there was anything i could do to get them really clean?
well, i dont know if this would work- but maybe you could soak it in mouthwash when youre not using it. i would think that would have to work- since itd be saturated in there for hours. hope i helped!
Im 16 and ive never really been kissed. I have..but not a full makeout session or nothing. All my friends are very experienced in that department..and it makes me feel like awkward when they talk about that stuff because i dont really know. Is it bad that im 16 and still havent "madeout" with a guy?
no, its definetely not bad. how would it be? there is no big deal at all. you shouldnt pressure yourself into having your first kiss- thats what makes it so special- is not expecting it. dont feel bad, or stupid when they talk about that kind of stuff. you should feel special. maybe their first kisses werent all that great!-
Umm keep my legs shut. trust me i do. thank you very much im a virgin and im keeping it. And im not easy...I know him better then you do.So i think i know who he is into and who hes not. I know the kind of girls he likes. And trust me not many guys will love ugly gross girls. Yes there maybe 2 percent of guys on this planet will. And you cant choose who you fall for even if theyre jerks you still love them.
still dont understand where you get this crazy idea that you know whats good for him. has he evr told you tht YOURE the one he wants? if not, then that proves my point.
does anybody have any ideas of how i can loose like 25 pounds before June 19th!
15 on my legs and 10 on my stomach.
I have a pageant, and i really need help.
I have been going to the gym, but it isnt really working for as fast as i am wanting it to.
Please Help!
Hev
well, you cant really lose weight on just your legs, or just your stomach- you can tone them up- by running(good for both your abs and your stomach)- or regular sit-ups- they work like magic for me. but no, when you lose, or gain weight- it generally starts in your face, and moves downward the more you lose.
I want to join the flag twirlers team. Sorry, i cant remembe exactly what it is called, but i know that it starts with a "c."
I just wanted to know if they were considered like unpopular, or are they more like cheerleaders?
Also, is it hard to be a flag twirler?
Hev
its called color guard. and no, it doesnt really strike me as being an unpopular thing. but even if it did, why would you let that stop you from doing it?- itsounds like something you want to do, so go for it. my older sister was on the color guard team at our old high school, and she loved it. they do fairly easy routines to learn and they mostly do them to music thats popular. i always liked watchin them at football games bacause its so much more different than watching a bunch of cheerleaders. i remember her tellnig me it took alot of practice though. (outdoor practice, of course) but she loved it, and im sure you will. good luck, hon!
omg i am sooo fucking pissed off at my friend. she won't stop talking about my boyfriend and it's really starting to get me pissed off. Cause she even admitted to still liking him since they went out like during the summer but all i hear from her is what they did the first day they went out and how good of a kisser he is. what should i do i don't want her to get mad at me??!!!!
so what if she gets mad at you?- its your boyfriend hse's blabbing about. the only thing you can do is tell her strauight up that SHES not wit him anymore and to get over it.
Hi, well I've just start used tampons, and I'm still on my first one. It's been very well over 8 hours, and when I try to pull it out, it hurts. I'm doing it slowly, but it doesn't really budge. Also note that it is an expanding tampon. So is it a good idea to try to fill it up with water? And is it supposed to hurt a whole lot for the first time you remove it?
no, it shouldnt hurt at all. it may be that in all truthfulnes- its a little tight down there. other than that- its just your body reacting to a foreign object being down there. as much s it hurts though- youve got to get it out because 8 hours is well over the time recommended for use.
okay. i thought that this day, 6/6/06 was the day the anti-christ was supposed to be born. but everyone is saying we are all gonna die today, but the bible doesnt say anything about this. so what is actually happening today?
(taken from the answer to the same question i answered yesterday)
we are not going to all die on june 6th 2006. 666 is the mark of the beast that will be put unto all people who deny Christ after the rapture. the rapture is when God will come to earth and release our souls from our bodies to be taken into heaven. anyone who is left with the mark of the beast after the rapture will not be allowed into heaven,and will not be allowed to trade goods on earth to keep themselves alive. therefore, they will be destined to die, no matter what- and even the devil cant help them. also, God stated that you will not know when he comes to earth for the rapture- so why everyone is claiming its gonna be this tuesday is insane. if everyone knew what day he was coming back- they would enjoy themselves, and at the last minute repent for their sins and take it all back. God wont give you the benefit of the doubt- thats why you must be prepared to leave,and be following God every moment in your life, because we never know when he will come back. ifyou want to talk anymore about this- IM me- mikelly4039. ill be more than happy to talk to you about any questions you have.
i always carry a extra pack of birth control in the car in case i leave my real pack at home. I have been on it the past 9 months and i ALWAYS take it on time. this time i did leave it at home but i took one from the other pack. they are both active pills (the pink ones), but i didnt take it from the same day, i just took it from the first one of the new pack. is there anything i should worry about?
im not really sure. i think you should call your doctor and ask, but i do know that you should just start carrying your pack in your purse, that way youll always have them with you.
Me and this guy have been seriously talking latley. We hang out, go to the movies, and flirt a ton. The thing is i am 17 and he is 32, and people seem to have a problem with that. We havent done ANYTHING that can get any of us in trouble, so whats the big deal? Besides, i will be 18 in 2 months.
dont listen to them. i was going out with a 31 year old when i was 16- so its the same amount of years between you guys. just forget what everyone says . 2 short months, and they'll shut up. good luck chica!
can you bleach hair with straight bleach? or is it horrible for your hair?
go to walgreens and get a bleach kit- theyre like 5 dollrs. regular bleach will make your hair smell, and dry out - and in most cases- it will fall out because th bleach will penetrate your scalp.
well im a diabetic and as some of you may know its sort of bad for diabetics to be out in the sin for a long time
the thing is that i want to get tan without using any of that lotion that makes you look tanner
and i also dont want to go to a tanning booth
any suggetions?
my dad is a diabetic, my gramma is a diabetic, my uncle is a diabetic, and many people in my boyfriends family are diabetics, and not once have i heard that its bad for you to be in the sun when you have diabetes. i think youre taking your sickness way too far.
and for your information- nobody i know has type 2 diabetes. i think i know what it is that im talknig about. ive dealt with people everywhere i know that have diabetes. nowhere has it come across that its bad to be in the sun. my gramma goes sunbathing all the time, and her doctor even compliments her on her tan. so, thank you very much- i know what im talknig about.