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I'm danika :) i'm 17 and i've been an advice columnist for almost 2 years i'm not on here a lot anymore but feel free to leave me and inbox and i'll get back to you asap

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im 15 (almost 16)/f and my boyfriend is 18/m.

we've been dating almost 3 years now and are sexually active, but we do not use condoms. he usually either finishes in my mouth or on me, never in me. the thing is, i want to get pregnant, but he doesnt. i can understand why he doesnt though. what should i do? i really love him and i really want a baby.

hunnyyy you have to consider everything. your 15 (almost 16) how are you supposed to take care of your baby anddd go to school. and also work to pay for what the baby needs. if you really love him you'll not have a baby; he's 18 and knows best. believe me your better off. when you have it you'll regret it intirely.. it will ruin your life

is it illegal for someone other than the police to carry a tazor. if not where can i get a tazor or shock gun for self-defense. i would feel very safe if i had one to carry with me.

nopee it is illegal. sadly it is actually even illegal to carry maise. but i do anyway because my mom makes me. hah

i have a bf that im a sure im going to marry some day because we have talked about it and our families would love us to get married.he is soo cute but the thing is i dont want to have sex with him intul i get married . it just seems like the right thing. the problem is he doesnt want to wait becuase like i said we know we r going to get married to each other. we do make out some times and its great but some times he wants to go further like trying to unbotton my shirt or un botton his pants. so how do i say no?

if you don't want to don't let him. don't let him push you it's your decision to do it or not. tell him you want to wait til your married and if he gets mad then drop him. because any guy who gets mad about that is a sore loser and just wants some. but it's okay if you do other stuff too; don't just make out either. because it can start to get old real fast. just have what i like to call "outer fun" tell him no sex. that you want it to be special for when you two get married =]

I know that it is almost impossible to get pregnant with having sex. However, I hooked up with a boy and he ejaculated on his hand and my sheets and we kept hooking up. Now I'm 8 days late on my period. But seriously....what are the chances of me being pregnant

your chances are honestly 1:1,000,000 so you should be okay;; and if you keep getting worried buy a pregancy test but it is highly unlikely

HI! Last night my boyfriend fingered me. I have been fingered before but after last night it really hurts. He was very aggresive, I like that but my private still hurts. It looked like I might have bleed a little bit, what does this mean?

normal :]

is it bad if you have sex and you havent even started your period cycle yet? will it mess with your horemones?

if you never had your period before it's finee. you just can't get pregant which is better than anything

So my family is kind of divided into two when it comes to eating I guess. My dad and my sister cannot. ABSOLUTELY cannot go on for more than a day without eating meat. My mom and I, we could really care less. But nowadays my mom is getting swept into the whole "Need meat everyday" scene.

Well, I'm 14/f and I want to be a vegetarian because I find eating meat so often is disgusting and I just want a healthier lifestyle.

The problem is that my mom will not let me be a vegetarian saying that it is unhealthy [I know, ironic, right?] She always prepares meals containing meat so I have nothing else to eat and she literally shoves meat down my throat lol

So my question is how should I bring up the topic of me becoming a vegetarian again? How can I convince her that me being a vegetarian is not unhealthy and that it's not a sin or a bad thing? What are some food she can cook without meat in there and is still healty (try to avoid eggs please)? Just overall how can I get my mom to let me be a vegetarian?

i'm a vegetarian. and it can be unhealthy for you;; if you eat the wrong foods. on average a veg lives 6-10 years longer than the average person. to convince her that being a vegetarian is not unheathly write her a paper using quotes from the peta.com site. research it;; after all she cannot FORCE you to eat meat... she can cook a lot of things. veggies, pasta, lasagne (without meet). see when my mom cooks meat for dinner i usually just eat one of my soy or veggie burgers... there are substatutes for just about anything just go into the vegetarian section of your local grocery store..

My friends and I have been arguing over this one question and I want some outside input to this little argument:

If you are a vegetarian, are you allowed to eat sea food things such as fish, lobster, shrimp, crab, etc?

They say yes but I say no... any help you guys can provide me?

it depends if that's what you believe in. see i believe fish are as equal as meat but a lot of vegetarians eat fish because they are cold blooded. i'm a vegetarian. but i don't eat fish so it's all up to you

The truth is, I'm a virgin.
13/f
But whenever i see a hot guy i think to myself "damn, if i got the chance i'd have sex with him." or i might back out in the end...
and it scares me because one day i will get the chance..
and want to do it..
HELP!!

estrogen. doesn't it suck. your hormones are raging. your not a slut because sluts DO really do the nasty with anyone. and your still a virgin so your good.. if someone calls you a slut their lying. if you want to do it do it; just make sure it's right. and it's with someone you truly care about

my boyfriend and I have had sex alot, but the past few times I have been bleeding. The first time I thought I just popped my cherry but the next time we had sex, (a week later) it bleed again. It wasn't alot though. should I be conserned? what do you think is happening?? thanks soo much if you answer.

you'll be good huny

Ok..soo im 17/F and all my friends have had sex or have done sexual things. And of course im the one that hasnt at all. I just dont want to do that right now..im not focused on that. Im focused on other things and i dotn even think about it. But my friends are making me feel like that i should be doing that stuff..that like im a freak if i dont. And now i think..am i really a freak? What do you think about this and what should i do?

your not a freak hun; your just playing it safe. don't give into them. it's your choice and you especially won't want to rush into things because it's suppposed to be something potentially special.; you won't want ot deal with the concequences.

i know this is a stupid question but why does a girl "cum"? is it because it feels good? and like...what is it? like is it pee or something?

it's called an orgasim;; not because it feels good but because there are certain places in your vagina that when you hit it, ironicly feels good and realeases a fluid

Ok so I know I have asked before but I am freaking so I am going to ask again. My boyfriend and I have dry humped but fully clothed. (Him: boxers, cacies(sp)Me:Pad,Underwear, jeans or korderoy pants.)Well my period hasn't come but it should be anyday now.(I think I am having light cramps but not sure) I am a bit late. I have never had intercourse. Is there anyway that I might be pregnant if he has gotten a quater sized wet spot on on his pants but he never like...ejaculated?
Help..
~ELI

if the sperm didn't go inside of you; you can't be pregant =]

i havnt gotten my period in like 6 months im soo sure im not pregnant cuz i took the test like 3 times and i dont feel like i am and stuff whats wrong with me??

your probably just irregular. but if you go another week without getting it go see a doctor. better to know what's up than to be stuck in confuzion and worry

okay i was just wondering...
do guys like hjs fast or slow?
or does it really matter?

fast becauseee it supposibly feels better going fast because theres more friction and gets them to ejaculate quicker

How long does it normally take a guy to cum while your giving him a blow job? Thanks

depends on how their going about doing it. i was told that it usually takes 10-15

Why does it hurt the keep having sex with my husband after I get off once? He gets mad because I cant keep going...
21 married and feeling helpless.......

you might have broke some tissue in there or something so i highly advice you to get it checked out

okay so well there this guy i really like. and then i found out one of my close friend likes him too. [she didnt tell me though]. and now she wants him to be her valentine. should i just give up on him or what?

-Tasha

'never give up on somethign that makes you smile' don't give up. because maybe he likes you more.. if you really like him than tell your friend. if she's a good friend she'll back down. but if you feel she likes him more than you do.. than i would back out because it's not worth it to loose a good friend over a boy.

I am 13 I wanna get my nose peirced and I'm gonna pay and all that but my mom don't care if I do or not and my dad said not till 16 and I REALLY want it done !!!!!!!!! What should I say to my dad to get him to say yes !!??!!

i have my nose pierced.. and it's infected. i'm 16 too. but if you REALLY want it done write him a paper on why you want it done. but most likely parents who say no; really mean no and there is no compromising.. but good luck hun,

ohhkay well i had this boyfriend who i really love and care about, but hes in College and in the Army. i miss him soooo much. i dunno what to do. We never really got to break up and im going out with some other kid now. I know if he was still here i would still be with him. He promised to come back for me and hes expecting me yo be his girlfriend when he gets back, but what if im still with this other kid ? What do i do? HELP PLEASEEEE.

i love Danika Poooooh=)
(im sitting next to you. lol)

haha i love you too baby doll.. =)

butt okay heres the thing. with my boyfriend going into the marines out of high school i would have been loyal to him because he's fighting for your country. i would have just missed the fuck out of him and not cared about any other boy. i mean if you really love him and care about him why would you give that up for someone who you don't love yet. and that's expecially a little bad that you didn't get to break up with him yet.. because it's going to break his heart when he comes back and your no longer will to date him.

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