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Hey there! I'm Carey. I'd love to hear from you so don't hesitate to ask me anything! I'll reply to you the best way I can. Feel free to even send me an email!xo
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ok, this is embarasing but here goes... A while ago i got caught by my neighbor peeking in her window when she had some friends over for a sleepover. i was on her back porch peeking in her window when 1 of her friends came out and said what are you doing??? i was like.. o my god... i was so embarased. so she told the other girls wat i was doing and they all talked and then 1 of them came to me and said they wouldnt tell on me if i did wat they said. she said that to be fair they should get to see me naked and that I should strip naked for them. otherwize they would tell my mom that i was a pervert and a peeping tom. anyway, i did it. i took off all my clothes and let them all see me. they looked and giggled and stuff for a long time and then they let me go home. The thing is that since then a couple of them have made be do it again for girls that werent even at the sleepover. they say i desrve it for peeking at them that night. Do you think I deserve it? Should I keep doing it for them? Please give me your advice!
Thanks,
Paul
Anything you feel uncomfortable doing you shouldn't do.
Just take the punishment from your parents and move on from it, because you do deserve punishment but not what these girls are making you go through.
If anything, those girls should be ASHAMED of what they are making you do and the outcome could be a lot more worse if you continue with their requests. It'd be easier to just fess up to your parents.
I've planned to totally have it together for 2008. As in: I meant to treat my family properly, yet I've been worse than ever.
ie. my brother is twenty and has always been a late developer, however I find it hard to show him consideration.
HE WAS PLAYING THE SONG "BANANA PHONE" WHILE MOUTHING THE WORDS LIKE HE WAS SO ADORABLE AND I WAS DISGUSTED AND TOLD HIM HE'S TOO OLD TO THINK ANYONE WOULD FIND THAT TO BE CUTE.
I know I'm being a total bitch, so how can I keep calm and handle the situation in a positive way?
I think everyone is entitled to lose their cool once in a while so do not feel bad.
Just walk away and remind yourself that not commenting or getting involved is better than getting yourself angry.
It is difficult but it's okay to get frustrated.
i feel like my hair is so flat. i want my hair to be straight but how do you get it not so flat? i have thick hair. is their a certain way to straighten it?thankss
Along with what Jess said, you can tease your hair. :)
http://youtube.com/watch?v=6g7uipOSOBk&feature=related
is a good tutorial on how to do that.
ok I use to wear preppy clothes and a lot of pink last year and now that i am in highschool i like black t-shirts and skiny jeans. Like half of my clothes are preppy and half are punk rockerish. I wear more eyeliner and I am starting to like punk rocker guys. But I still act a little preppy and i still love pink. What is my style or am i just a mix of styles?
Your style is anything you want it to be. Don't let your peers or magazines put you in a classification. You can be whoever you want to be.
You apparently just like different tastes and there is nothing wrong with that.
So I guess a mix of styles.
I am a freshman at the highschool and exams are in a couple of weeks. And they are a really big deal. And I am freaking out about them cause i don't do good on tests. Any advice on how to make me calm down and do good on the tests?
I always freak out on tests, just the anxiety of it all. For me, I think of it as just another assignment the teacher has given me. You don't really panic with assignments so think of the test as another assignment.
Also study as much as you can, if you feel comfortable with what've you studied then you shouldn't be as nervous.
Good luck.
it's not as bad as it seems.
Don't forget to ask your teacher if you do not understand stuff.
how do you get this hairstyle:
http://tn3-1.deviantart.com/fs11/300W/i/2006/225/9/9/___xy______by_angelkisses.jpg
i like the front part pouf and i hope its a pony in the back
It looks like she just teased her bangs and pinned them back. Then pulled her hair into a low pony tail.
Anyone know where I can download it?
It's been on Maui Fever and Gossip Girl.
Also,
Does anyone know when it will be officially released?
Thanks
BRITTANY AGAIN?!?!
lmfao.
When will that The Veronicas Hook me Up CD be released in Canada?
Thanks
BRITTANY IS THIS YOU??~?!?!?!
LMFAO.
If not then completely ignore this comment.
LOL
i think that i like this guy adam. hes really cute and hes my type of guy. but, i think i only like him for his looks, like, i only think hes cute. because, hes popular, and im not. and i havent really hung out with him to get to know him, but it seems like i only like him at school in my last hour class, cause he makes jokes in that class. is something wrong with me? or am i just confused about me feelings about him?
Nothing is wrong with you :)
Just promise me you'll get to know him before you let those feelings get too deep. I made the mistake for falling for a guy based on what I saw on the outside and not for who he really is and that just left me in heartache.
is it okay that i only have like one or two close friends? i have like one best friend and then like two good friends and people i just talk too. i feel like everyone always has more close friends than me though. i mean i talk to people but not like to the point where we'd hang out together a lot. i don't know sometimes i feel like somethings missing or wrong with it? i don't know any advice would be mucho appreciated
14.f.freshman
I totally understand what your saying because I feel that way too. You see everyone in their large cliques and they all seem to be super tight.
It's definitely okay to have just a few close friends. I have 2 best friends, one guy and one girl and honestly I think its just easier that way because then you can focus on those friendships to grow and strength and its just difficult with several people LOL, and one person always ends up hating another person in larger groups.
;)
My nephew, who lives with me, wont eat anything. if he eats anything its unhealthy foods. the only reason he even gets unhealthy foods id because my sister (his mother) is so worried that he wont eat anything at all. I've read up on it and im sure he's more than just a picky eatter. he eats next to nothing at all. he gets milk at bed time and his mother gives him granola bars because he likes them and they arent as unhealthy as the candy he beggs for. the doctors tell her to feed im high callerie foods but her idea of high callerie foods are junk foods adn i dont know how to get it in her head that those foods arent good for him. i know she only give him thoes foods because she knows he'll eat them. but he seriously doesnt eat any healthy foods. and hever since he stoped eatting baby food, he wont eat anyting that looks like it like yogert or soups. Hes 2 years old and weighs 25 lbs. hes not lossing wieght but not gaining. the doctors say hes not mal-nutritioned.
i need some ideas on why he doesnt eat and what i can do for him....
Thank you to anyone who can help me
Kick up the ass and take control of the kid. Don't let the kid control you.
Well, a bit over a month ago, me and my ex broke up. He was a total jerk about it. I was upset for a couple of days but got over the initial upset very quickly. Then the next week I met another guy who was really sweet and lovely. We've started "seeing" each other - we aren't really going out but we act exactly like boyfriend and girlfriend. He's asked me out a couple of times and I've been like no, I'm not ready for that yet, but if you want to stop seeing me I understand.
The thing is in the last couple of days I've really started missing my ex again. I don't know if it's really fair on my new guy to keep seeing me. The thing is, he REALLY likes me - and I like him! I wouldn't want to break up with him (or stop seeing him, or whatever) just because of these stupid feelings I've been having - I really like this guy, and I do want one day to have a relationship with him, even if I'm not ready for that just yet. And if I put a halt to things at the moment, I know it'll never get that far. He's also friends with loads of my friends and I know I'd fall out with a lot of people if I ended things now. What should I do, just keep seeing this guy and hope that these feelings about my ex go away as quick as they came? All help appreciated.
Its completely normal to miss an ex, and you shouldn't let the pressure of friends and such force you to "date" someone if your not ready. Some people need to just take time off before they can go out with someone else. If this boy really likes you, he'll understand and he'll continue to be by your side and wait until your ready.
Me and my bff Sami are so close and I want us to find someone that is perf. for us to create kind of like a clique,but not really really mean or anything. If you've heard of the book The Clique Series by Lisi Harrison that'd help cuz I want it to be like that!
I know how you feel. Me and my best friend kinda want our own clique to but its hard. Try mingling together with a bunch of different people.
Join some clubs or even invite some people to have lunch with you two.
The best way is to become close with people from another clique.
:)
Easier said than done though.
Good luck!
Okay so soccer tryouts are tomorrow and seriously like more than half the people trying out and that made the first cut went to my middle school and its REALLY annoying because the only reason i wanted to tryout was to try and make new friends, and well i was never really at all friends with them at my middle school and now they are going to make a huge cliche on the team and of course im not going to be in it, and dont say try to be friends with them because its not that easy they are really like bitchy and ever since 6th grade they havevnt liked me for some reason, and seriously only 5 people or not even 5 people went to a different middle school,and there are 30 people trying out, and our highschool is really big, so should i still tryout out?
If you really like the sport then it shouldn't matter what people say/do because you are their for soccer. If you go in their with your head held high and show them that you could care less if they have an attitude then they won't bother you.
But do realize if you are doing this just to 'fit in' or 'make friends' then there are other ways to do that outside of soccer.
Good luck though!
:D
How do yall have a website design?
Depends on your knowledge of webdesigning and what kind of site you want.
Piczo is a good way to start if you have no idea about html, css, stylesheets etc.
If you are a little bit more familiar with the things stated above then you can start with freewebs which is a free web builder that allows you to put your own codes to design your site.
Building a site takes practice and you certainly cannot do it overnight. It takes a lot of time and effort.
Google is a good help too. Type in "Learning HTML" or similar headings and a bunch of sites will pop up with tutorials.
Good Luck!
Okay there's this one guy names Aurthur I really like him. He's two grades above me so I don't have any classes with him, but he's always in my choir class second period because he doesn't have a class assigned to him. (He's in show choir and I'm in concert choir)
Anyway I had to interview him for newspaper because he had a solo for the last show choir concert and he's a really good singer so I presented the idea of a student profile on him and my editor assigned it to me.
So I interviewed him and he was really sweet and funny, he didn't just give me really crappy monotone answers like guys usually do when I have to interview them. But now the articles done and I still see him in class sometimes but I don't have a clue as to what to say or how to start a conversation with him. He's usually running around a lot and helping out...but what should I say as a conversation starter. I don't want to sound like a total idiotand I don't want to sound like I'm trying to get him to talk to me.
P.S. I'm in 9th grade and he's in 11th.
To anyone that helps; thanks in advance.
Having to do the interview was a great shot at getting to know him cause then you know some things he's interested in, use that as a tool to start conversations.
If he talked about something he did in the past that he is proud of (this is a long shot since i have no idea what the interview was like) then bring that up. "Hey, I was really impressed that you did -insert whatever here-, what was it like?"
LOL. that sounds really lame.
but that interview was a great head start.
Just play it cool. If you catch his eye, wave or smile at him :)
I have never been made fun of or anything before in my life, cause I`ve never done anything to give anyone a reason to be mean to me. On Monday, I just sat where I did every day like all the other days and these other guys sat back there too. I was sitting with my best friend & they were saying how 'hot' she was and then they just randomly started making fun of me. They went on for about fifteen minutes about how ugly I was and everytime I`d turn around they would yell, "OH MY GOD! Ew!" I got off a stop early with my friend and just sat there and cried for about ten minutes. For some reason, this bothered me more than anything anyone has ever said to me. I haven`t really been happy since Monday and I stopped riding the bus. Is there something I can do to get over this? Or is there some way to just forget about it or something?
Guys can be real ASSHOLES. I know how that would hurt because it's like really random and came out of no where. I know it hurts but don't let it get to you. Those guys are just insecure with themselves and who gives a shit about what they think? Just keep going on and show them that you really don't care, or even surprise them with a comeback insulting them ;) They wouldn't see that one coming!
Don't let it bother you.
Guys are jerks, but usually the meaner they are the more uncomfortable they are with themselves.
is it normal for a guy friend to take you out to dinner on your birthday if he's romantically interested in someone else and you and this guy aren't dating?
btw we're both 16
For sure.
:)
13/f
I'm about to move AGAIN, but I want to tell this guy how I feel. He's a sweetheart and he's sooooo cute, but when it comes to telling how I feel, I'm such a chicken. I'm about to move in a couple of days, and I just don't want to go without knowing what could've been. Should I ask him out? Should I just chicken out and keep wondering what could've been? I'm moving next Friday(it's Tuesday the 16, I'm moving on the 26)So should I ask him or not?
Why not? What do you have to lose? When you move you might not see him again so if he doesn't like you back you can start over again and if you leave without knowing what could've been you'll regret it for a LONG time.
Just go for it.
:)
Well, this guy asked me out last year, but I didn't know him very well, and was exceptionally nervous. And since then, I have regretted it, and would totally go out with him if he asked again. But it's been a little less than a year, and I think that he has so gotten over it and would say no or be kind of weirded out or something like that. And plus, since we haven't become like acquainted since then either, I wouldn't know how to go about it. And, I would not want to seem really sappy and whatever since we're really casual, and don't really get like that, either of us.
omfg.
the situation your in right now is EXACTLY what my friend is in right now.
I say you should just ask him to hang out. Just something simple. If you have a class with him try "lets study together".
Stay confident and just go for it. What do you have to lose?