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I am a nurses assistant. Im also a bridal consultant. I want to become a teacher. I moved alot. I have lived in small towns and so i know most of my experinces to be around family and friends. I know much about health and nutrition. I have dyslexisa. I have three brothers. two of which i know and one that ran away. I have been in a relationship for a year and a half... im sure theres more to know about me! but thats all folks.
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i dont really last that long when im havin sex.is there any ways i can last longer without having to buy anything or eat pills or sumthin (link)
you can get off before you have sex. like as a part of foreplay.. and then you can try and have sex and see if that helps.


is it weird that I dont' think sex is a big deal like I want to just give it away to get rid of me being a virgin is that normal (link)
it is not weird or anything but it is slightly concering. do you know why you feel like giving it away instead of just not caring to be married or be in serious relationships to lose it?


about a month ago i started going to the gym 3 days a week. i have a personal trainer who works my butt out. i finished a month, 3 times a week, 1/2 hour each session. and now i started 1 hour sessions. its a personalized program including weights cardio and "freestyle" exercises as my trainer calls it.

i want to loose weight but i don't know how to eat right :s let alone how much calories i should take a day. i usually eat whatever my mum cooks so i never know how much calorie is in it (she makes exotic stuff like turkish food or east europian, aside from the common italian, french, swiss etc...)

i need to loose about 20 pounds.... where do i begin and what do i eat.

if it helps i am a college student who eats stuff from the convenience store on campus and one meal wen i visit mum at home each day. i can't aford to stock up my fridge with food and stuff so my diet is usually on the go.


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what i would suggest is sizes. when your mom cooks food and your real hungry when you get home eat like a fist size of the main meal (for example mashed potatoes and chicken) make sure you eat enough veggies and fruits. grab some on the go. and make sure you drink enough water. eat protein! get some nuts or peanutbutter and some so salt crackers for when your in a rush to class or seomthing. Protein keeps you filled for long periods of time, better than sugar and other carbs. but make sure you eat good protein like low fat milk, nuts, and beans. eating a small brekafast with enough protein in it and not bunches of sugar or salt would be best it kick starts your metabalism.. i hope that helps.


Hi I was wondering, if your appendix bursts, and you go to the hospital, i know they have to do surgury, but do they usually keep you there for a couple of days to make sure your ok? (link)
they will atleast keep you over night and make sure no infection occurs. then make sure ally our vitals are steady and that you can void(pee) and have a bm (just go poo before you can go home. no real time set for holding after any surgery. i hope that helps


lately the friends ive been hangin out with for like a year have been gettin on my nerves. i mean like my x best friend is now like the person i most avoid because of how annoyin she has become, or was she always that way and i never noticed till now.all these ppl that i thought id be friends with for like ever, are now very annoying and i jsut dont want to have anything to do with em. i want to go and make new friends but does that make me a bad peron for ditchin em for other ppl? (link)
take soem time to yourself. or hang out with a new group of friends. if you miss your old friends you will appriciate who they were and perhaps not care so much about all those annoying things they do.. and if it ends up ebing they become more annoying then you know you did the right thing by giving yourself space insted of making a big huge fight


my dad dosent live with me. and i just sent him an email saying that i didnt want to see him anymore. before you say i did something wrong, let me tell you everything that he has done.

1. when i was 4 months old, he ran out on me and my mom and went and lived with another woman.
2. hes cheated on my mom so many times that she cant even remember.
3. hes very disrespecful to my family, espessially to my mother.
4. he treats my sister like crap.
5. im the youngest out of 4 kids, and he has 2 kids with another woman(his ex wife) and he pays their FULL childsupport, and we only get half, or sometimes way less than we are suppost too.
6.he sleeps with wemon who are 10 years younger than him.
7. he dosent know how to act around people.
8. him and my mom dont get along(of course)and everytime that it comes close for me to seeing him,my mom gets pissed, and she dosent talk to me for days.

so, anyway, i sent him that email saying that i didnt want to see him anymore. is it a bad thing that i sent him that email, and i dont feel bad about it??

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i think later in your life you might miss your dad, you might feel liek you could have helped him act more proper or be more understanding about your feelings. but as of now if you cant help and you dont know what to do the best thing to do is take time away from someone like that. time will tell.


Hi i was wondering if like watching porn/masturbauting could be considered cheating on a girl?
I was just wondering because i wouldnt wanna do it if its not right.
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my boy friend does. i dont mind. not to be snobby.. but hes never going to be with the girls in the porn industry.. and haha i know he will never be witht he guys. so i dont worry about it. i do know alot of girls who get mad because they think porn is gross and they also think their boyfriend is fantacing about beign with someone else and does not love them or soemthing. you need to ask whoever your into how they feel about porn atleast.


i was wondering, are rain boots in style, or going to be in style? thanks (: (link)
haha.. i LOVE rain boots. it might be because i live in washington state and all it does is rain. but as far as i know.. (HERE) they are VERY in style.


im a soon to be 18 year old girl. im in 11th grade. can i please have tips to look pretty. my prom is this year and i dint get asked. i need a whole new makeover any suggestions. i also need a diet any suggestions. any clothes store that will make me look hott .. thanks in advance (link)
you can go to macys and ask the make up department for advice on how to doy our make up (if you wear any right now how to do a better job) you can go into barber shops and ask how to style your hair better or just any advice on a new hair cut. if your tired of your friends advice when shopping you can always ask a person that works in the store to help you. i actually do this all the time at JC penny and macys. so even if you dont buy things they help you find things that will fit you better. AND IT SAVES YOU SO MUCH TIME. they know where everything is. try that.. i know asking strangers for that advice can be weird in person but they can help you alot more than someone online. i hope that helps!


how do you lose weight in stomach



please make your advice helpful by experience or some proof or whatever (link)
If you have tried many things and they are not working you should tell your doctor. Other wise. for me.. i jog for 10 minutes walk for 5 jog for 10 and walk for 5. for 30 minutes.. and make sure you do streches too because you have layers of abdomonal muscles that need to all be warmed up to get the most out of toning them and loosing fat around them.


how do i start to think about how to save the planet? i just listend to the new Jack Johnson CD and on the back it says Recorded on 100% solar energy, now thats truley inspiring stuff to a massive fan like me :p how do i start to go about thinking about reducing carbon emmisions from my car (when i hopefully get one) and other things that need to be reduced, any helpfull links you know of would be greatly appreciated thanks alot,


(Help stop global warming and feel better abotu yourself in the know your helping others survive, our children and next generations need a better world in which to live) (link)
There are TONS of things you can do. get your school to have blue recyceling bins for plastic and metal. collect plastic bags that you have and take them to a local grocery store theres usually a bin (close to the doors.. and probably hidden) they compact them and im not sure if they use them or can melt them or what.. but i know they recyle them some way. this is going to sound gross but my school has a big bin in the lunch room that looks like trash.. but it says for food. its your food scraps and your milk cartins and stuff. alot of plastic is made from corn so its easy to recyle. get them to put paper towel bins int he bathrooms!.. the best way to help out is making things AVALIBLE!.. save up some money and go out to the dollar store even or home depot and get some energy saving light bulbs.. although its alot of money you can set up solar pannels for your house. look into this stuff! i hope that was enough ideas


Ok I have 3 friends and I love them all but here is the deal. One friend named S always says she has problems with me and C. I love S because she is so funny and smart but she is always saying bad things about us. Sometimes at lunch she will list the problems about C and some things C does do but I am just like watever. C also talks about S and says somethings that are true. I love C too because she lives close to me and we hang out a lot and she is funny and caring. Now H always sides with S and I feel like I am just stuck in the middle and all I hear about is crap about the other friend. I love them all and I still want to be friends with all of them but how do i get these problems to stop with still being friends? (link)
why dont you just tell them that you dont want them to talk baout your friends like that weither or not its true if they have a problem they should just go tell eachother because you would stand up for them if somoen was talking behind there back. and start doing that for all of them. it would show to their face that you would stand up for them and indirectly showing them that you are a caring friend by saying not to talk about other people behind their backs? thats what i do


i havent gotten my period on 2 months, this month i thought i was getting it so i put a pad on in case, for like 3-4 days it was like brownish black like when it starts or ends and then it stopped.
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that can be okay. that happened to me last month ( i have alot of problems with mine too) what my doctor had told me was that your body might not of made that much layers inyour uterus to flush out and so not a lot of blood and not a very heavy flow.


how can i get my friends to envy me more? We kind of like to try to impress one another. how can i be more social and get people to envy me? (link)
i really dont think you should be going for people to envy you. if thats all your looking for in people then your the wrong person for the job. if you want to be more popular it usualy owkrs best when your nice, outgoing, talkitive, and coultured.you have to let YOUR personal character show through. if your jsut looking for peopel to envy and be jealous of you they will see that and turn you down.


my period seems to be abnormal at times. i'm not sure if this happened to me more than once, but i just noticed it. my period sometimes just pours out sometimes. i hate heavy flow, but it pours out.. for example thick chocolate syrup and you take a fork and play with it and lift it up in the air and you see the chocolate coming down. if you know what i mean, i'm not sure what's the word for that. but is that natural? (link)
its thick like that because its starting to clot. its normal.


What makes you believe in a higher power that plans your fate over random incidents?

i'm doing an essay in which i have to defend my beliefs (its not even a religous school) and i need one more idea

pretty much what im asking is;;
what is evidence to you that there is a god?


i'm sorry if you don't belive in god, adn di dont mean to affend anyone..but i dont want rude answers about it. if you don't believe, don't respond


thankyou so much! (link)
i have a feeling that tells me that theres something more than life on earth. its hard to explain for me. i guess alot of things help my faith.. i practice judaism.. so i guess the rituals and the laws that we follow (commandments). if that helps..


ive got yet another music question "......tell me that youre sorry did not think youd turn around....... its too late to apoligize, its too late....." dos anyone redconize this song??? (link)
there is two verions of that song. the peopel below are right. the more popular one is freaurting timblnd. the regular one is just by onerepublic...


I admit, I am a worrier...and I tend not to deal with stress constructively. I am very stressed out right now. Almost every day I feel like my heart is in my throat. I lose my appetite (though I do eat),my stomach feels like it's gonna flip, and sometimes when I wake up my heart starts racing at the thought of the things I have to take care of. I have already graduated college, and the thought of what I am to do now, afterwards, is literally draining me. I can't even think straight anymore- stress is getting the best of me.

I am generally a relaxed person, but right now I'm so tense. Does anyone have any advice as to how to relax and take my mind off things, but at the same time get things done? (e.g, ways to ease stress) (link)
i am a huge owrrier too. i worry abotu how much i worry. i have big anxiety attacks.. i have to spend alot of time with myself.. not try to help peopel all the time or take on other peoples responsiblities... books.. resting.. exercising.. that always helped me


i haven't gotten my period yet.
i'm getting discharge everytime i change my underwear though.
This is the first time i've ever gotten discharge.
( it started about likeee. 2 or 1 and a half weeks ago )
is this a sign that im getting my period soon?
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depending on the type of the discharge.. like.. ik nwo it sounds kidna gross but.. (loogie) looking type.. means your ovulating. you ovulate about 10 days before you start your period. so if you are going to.. you should in a week or two


I know that this is probably no worried nothing to be worried about, but...

First off, I'm fourteen/female.
I have some pretty large lumps in one of my boobs. It's hard and I only noticed it today, though I've been having breast pain/soreness for the past week or so. I'm also late on my period, though it's only by a few days.

I know that I'm young so it's probably nothing. But is there anything that this could potentially be, and should I get it checked out? (link)
my doctor told me soreness doesnt mean cancer or anything. any unusually bumps can be a bad thing.. somepoeples boobs can be squishy.. and some feel liekt hey have little balls and big bumsp and stuff.. were all made a little different. look for the difference week to week and stuff.




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