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new friends?
lately the friends ive been hangin out with for like a year have been gettin on my nerves. i mean like my x best friend is now like the person i most avoid because of how annoyin she has become, or was she always that way and i never noticed till now.all these ppl that i thought id be friends with for like ever, are now very annoying and i jsut dont want to have anything to do with em. i want to go and make new friends but does that make me a bad peron for ditchin em for other ppl?
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Lately I have been going through the same friendship problems YOu see WE are a group of three and it seems like everytime i get left out so i started hanging out with other people. this weekend however i txted my other friend and she said y are you talking to me all of a sudden. i told her that i always felt left out and she said that was a bunch of bul. so idk if i were you i would hang wit the new friends thats what i'm doing and its much better.
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take soem time to yourself. or hang out with a new group of friends. if you miss your old friends you will appriciate who they were and perhaps not care so much about all those annoying things they do.. and if it ends up ebing they become more annoying then you know you did the right thing by giving yourself space insted of making a big huge fight
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no way dude.
i'm in the same situation.
you don't really need to leave them all at once. if you do it gradually, most likely they won't notice as much
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no you are not a bad person. this happened to me to about 2 years ago. I was maturing wayyy faster than a few of my friends and i started hangin out with people that "got" me. if you understand what im sayin. if these people are annoying you then tell them that you are because im sure they are probley thinkin that you are annoying them too. So think of it from their point of veiw also. If you want to save these friendship i sugguest you talk to the friends that are annoyin u so bad about all this. if not then maybe you just need to move on. Friends come and go. Thats life for ya.
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This could mean you are maturing a little bit quicker or that your interests are changing. Definately broaden your horizons with some new friends, but it's always great to keep the old ones around. Never burn a bridge you might need to cross in the future. Just distance yourself a little bit for now and make some new friends. As time passes you may want some of those "ex-best friends" around.
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It's understandable that your x best friends get on your nerves or tend to annoy the crap out of you because you've [im guessing] have been hanging with them for a really long time. So that was bound to happen sometime, so my advice would be to take some time away from them and hang out with other people, but don't get rid of your "x best friends" entirely, because that would be pretty mean, and that could give you a bad reputation. So, I'm all for your idea of making new friends and you starting to drift away from your old friends, but just don't forget them completley, yuh know?
Good luckk and you are not a bad person for doing this, you are just a person looking for something new :]
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