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is it weird that I dont' think sex is a big deal like I want to just give it away to get rid of me being a virgin is that normal
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i think thats weird.
in my opinion, sex should be viewed as a big deal
sorry, i just wanted to be blunt. i'm not in the mood for lengthly answers lol
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Its a little odd.
There are always those who differ from the norm. Generally speaking most people are far too nervous about sex to want to "just get it over with" and react by shying away from sex.
Its not really a smart way to approach sex. Virginity really ISNT a big deal, but you should be picky with all your sex partners, not just your first.
Id say virginity was a bigger deal to you than it should be, if you're wanting to much to "get rid of it". Just relax a little and focus on finding a guy you like, rather than a guy you can give it to as fast as possible.
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it is not weird or anything but it is slightly concering. do you know why you feel like giving it away instead of just not caring to be married or be in serious relationships to lose it?
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Yes and No. Yes, because that is one of the most intimate things a person can do, and it should have some meaning to you, or at least your chasity should.
No because everyone talks so much about it, and the privacy that sex should withhold is no longer an issue. It's like putting on make-up for some, with no cares as to knows who, what, where, when, why and how. When people make it sound like such an everyday kind of thing, it doesn't make it appealing anymore.
I would say that you should wait until you find someone that you at least care for. The first time can bring on many emotions that you wouldn't think of.
If your a girl, you have to worry about the pain and the tearing of the hymen. You would probably want someone who is willing to go slow, care about you and help you through it. You don't want someone who is going to be forceful, non-caring, and even helpful.
Just make sure to give it thought. You won't want to make a mistake that you will regret for the rest of your life.
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