Hey everyone, my name is Kristin, there's a picture of me on my advice column.. I'm a senior in high school and im 18 years olds.. I know I'm pretty young, but I've been through more than anyone would imagine and I've been through things most teenage girls haven't experienced yet in life. Here's a few things about myself, I've gone through a very serious one year relationship that ended a long long time ago, my parents have been divored for about 6 years, I cheerlead for my high school, I do ballet and have been playing the piano since I was seven, I work at a nearby UPS Store, and I am a dedicated Greek-Orthodox Christian. I hope to get accepted into Cal Poly San Louis Obispo and major in Nutrition..I love to hear about other peoples issues and problems so I could help them deal with it by relating them to my own experiences. So if you wanna talk, I'm here =]
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E-mail: princesskristin01@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: I live in California, I'm half arab half italian
Occupation: Student
Age: 18
AIM: PuReLuVeR143
Member Since: July 28, 2004
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Last Update: January 2, 2006
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hi ok i really want a thong i am 14 and i am in 9th grade. i asked mi mom if i could get i last year and she said no i wuz too young well i am a shy person at times now i wunt to ask her but im scared !!! help (link)
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dont even ask her..just hide them..and if she ever finds them be like oh my friend asked me to hold them for her for a day so her mom wouldnt find them...or u could just simply say, mom i hate it that every SINGLE girl at school wears thongz except me, AND when i wear regular underwear, my underwear line shows thru my pants, PLEASE can i get like 3 thongz and that would be it??
love kristin
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hi. im pretty and popular, i was voted best looking for yearbook and was prom queen. I feel sad though. I dont no y. I just feel bad and my friends r like wth u have a perfect life. wht should i do?
thanx (link)
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i know this is an advice column n everything and we are here to give straight up opinionz/advice..so mine is is that u really should stop complaining!!! think of how many girls wuold DIE to be in ur position...be thankful that ur all of tha above..one day if u lost everything how would u feel?? think bout it..hope i helped and good luck.
lov kristin
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I am only 13 and i just started having periods,and i hade my second one right on schedual. Is that normal?
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yeah!!! most girls get there periods when they are 13..and its really good that its right on schedule thast how it should be =]
love kristin
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i have some friend who shave down low and i dont know if thats something a lot of people do or not. Is it common or not cuz i dont know if i should. (link)
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it kinda depends on ur age..these days if ur 13 or up girls shave down there..but yeah over all, its something most girls do.
love kristin
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ok im going into the 8th grade and ive never made-out wit someone...most of the girls in my grade had...ive had the chance to wit a cute boy but i didnt want to and everythin...how can i get more comfortable wit doing it (link)
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sometimes u juss gotta force urself to do it..thats not really the right way to go cause u should always be sure ur ready to do something be4 u do it..but also maybe u should play a game of truth or dare and have one of ur friends dare u to make out with some1..hope i helped..
love kristin
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There's this guy I really like, but he's really wild. I mean really. He's already went all the way and he's only 14. I've only been kissed. But he wants to hang out and start "talking" and stuff. He's really fun to be around and really good lookin too. lol. I would love to get to know him better and maybe even date, but I'm afraid it wont work out because I'm not as advanced as him, but should I give it a shot anyway? (link)
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the thing is..either way guyz are ALWAYS looking to get some..even if they are totttally inlove with a girl, its their human nature to always have that thought in their mind ya know..if u guyz go out on dates, DONT do nething with him for a really long time..see if he stays, but if he breaks it off with u then ull know if he was a true guy or not..hope this helps.
lov kristin
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I have this friend and I really like him, but my best friend likes him too. I just met him yesterday and my best friends has known him for awhile. I really like him and she does too. I asked him if he liked her and he said no, but he told other people before he met me that he liked her. Idk what to do! I'm so lost and I want to be happy for my friend but me happy too! I think I should get over it and let her have him since she's known him longer. But what do I do?
-signed sister in distress- (link)
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i kinda think that he told u that he didnt like ur friend was cause he might start be interested in u...i hate that kinda situation..but tha only thing u can do is tell ur friend that u like him too..but do it in kinda a jokish way..after talking about it with her, ull feel sooo much better and u guyz can come to a solution on who getz tha guy..if i were u tho tell her that she can have him..but if she doesnt want him that hes urs! thats the best way to go about thingz.
love kristin =]
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thanx alot 4 ur help but lol.. wuts 4 laps of 1st- butterfly, 2nd-back, 3rd-breast, 4th-free? if u dont mind explainin wut each one is kuz is dunno how to even attempt do those swims.. thanx again lol i felt so dumb when i read that i wuz like wut?
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haha!! okay butterfly is when u like throw both ur arms forward at the same time and kick with ur back legs at the same time..its kinda hard to explain..then back, is backstroke u just basically swim on ur back, then breast is like the froggy kinda swimming, that one is way too hard to explain sorry, but then free is free style, just the regular kind of swimming..its REALLY hard to type it sorry i hope i helped!!
lov kristin
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i love swimming so much and i heard that swimming is a good exercise to do when ur tryin to lose weight... i wanted too no how long i have too swim and wut swims i should do... i weigh about 120 and i wanna lose 20 pounds.. along w/ swimming im doing crunches.. leg squats.. leg lifts.. and tryin too watch wut i eat.. sum1 plz help meh i needa lose 20 pounds in like 4 weeks!! (link)
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for swimming this is what u do...do 4 laps of 1st- butterfly, 2nd-back, 3rd-breast, 4th-free...do those one after eachother..then take like a 2 minute break..then do that 5 times..then that should do it for tha day...its hard so itll keep ur heart going..
love kristin
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im so toatally straight but is it ok for me to get horny by lookin at naked women on porn sites? (link)
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TOTALLY normal...it happens to many many girls, even if they dont admit it =]
love kristin
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how do u make urself throw up. i no that i lean over and stick ur fingers down ur throat and cough.. is that rite..what else do u do
-just wondering (link)
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its kinda unhealthy sticking ur fingers down ur throat because they could be dirty and get ur throat infected..try sticking a toothbrush down ur throat. thats the only thing i can think of..
love kristin
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I want to play either soccer or field hockey but i cant do both because there in the same season. which should i do? (link)
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figure out which one u like bEtter, which one is better accomodated to ur schedule, and which one makes u more happy..
love kristin
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My aunt is a casting diector in hollywood and she got me in a commercial and a walk on role in a tv show. Everyone from skool saw me on tv and wanted to no how i got on tv when i dont even live in cali so i told them that my aunt got me on tv and word travels fast and now all these ppl are begging me to get my aunt to get them on tv. its so annoying. i dont even no half the ppl asking me! help (link)
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when they ask u just laugh and say ud haveto talk to my aunt who lives like 1000000 miles away from here..[just make up something like that]
love kristin
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Idk how girly you are or what you know but do you have any good tips for makeup that isnt far out nd wont give you a name but stuff thats different than the rest of everybody. lol.. sry if its a bit confusin.. but ill rate you!
xoxoox (link)
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hmm....the only thing i wear is mascara..i use Lancome..it's kinda expensive tho..then i wear REALLY REALLY thin liquid liner and put a really really natural-looking tail at the end of my eyes. then i wear skin-colored lip liner and light light tanish lip gloss. hope i helped.
love kristin
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I am going into 7th grade and i am not allowed to have a boyfriend.I really like this guy and I know that he likes me.he asked me out and i told him i would think about it...what should I do.I really like him and i am afraid that if i say no that he will forget about me and...well just move on.I think that she is about to let me have a bf anyway.
Please give me advice.
~Thanx~ (link)
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tell him exactly wat u just said..tell him bout ur parents and ask him if he'll wait..thats all u really can say if u dont wanna make up another excuse..
love kristin
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Okay well I really need some help. I have been cutting for about a year and the cuts are getting really deep. They have riped my vein and I'm afraid i mite go to far next time. I've been tryihng so hard not to cut but i get these really baddddd urges to do it..is there any help for me out there? (link)
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u cant just stop and thats that...its more than just that..u should trii going down a level at a time..instaed of cutting, try this: take a newspaper rubber band and put it on ur wrist, and snap ur wrist with it...just acouple times tho..its alot better than cutting ur self. then when u find that getting old, go another level down, etc..hope this helps..
love kristin
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my friends were all at a party.. and they started talking smack about some ppl they didnt like... these happend to be my friends.. so i just sat there and didnt say anything.. later i went and told my friends what others were saying .. and now some ppl are mad at me.... i meean shouldnt they be careful about who there talking crap about... well i apoligized and told um sorry.. but there still mad... plus get this.. last time someone was talking shti at a party it was about me.. and im glad someone told me... so waht do i do...? signed tell the truth?
~*a*M*y*~ (link)
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i kinda understand where the other ppl are coming from..cause its annoying when the person who is sitting there listening to shit being talked about ur friends but doesnt even say nething, but then go off and tattle to their friends..i can understand that. next time say something! those are ur friends..im glad u told ur friends tho, u did the right thing. good luck
~kristin
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okay, well I am 12-f (almost 13) and I really like this guy lets say his name is Jermy, but I dont know if he likes me back..and I really want to tell him how I fell about him but I have a feeling that it will make things wierd between us..and I dont want that to happen...I really need advice on this one, should I tell him how I feel or no? We have been friends for a while and I dont want to screw things up-but I really want him to know how I feel about him (link)
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well are u scared he doesnt feel the same way or something? if thats the case, then ask one of ur friends to ask him, etc..if that isnt the case, then just be like, "uh i like u. weird huh? haha" make light outa it..just act like u dont giva fuck. if u act like u dont care, and its not a big dEal to u, then he wont either..plus he might start to like u back...
~kristin
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hi. im a model and im very thin. im about 5'6 and only 98 pounds (good matobolism, im not anerexic) and everyone thinks im anerexic, and i dont really care. the only thing is theres this fat girl who tortures me. shes ALWAYS calling me anerexic girl n anerexic n stuff. she even writes it on my stuff when im not looking. i no shes jealous but its so annoying!! what should i do! shes even threatening to come to my modeling shoots! :( ahh (link)
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ew whuta wEird pErsOn...just stop laughing about it if u are..like im sure u prolly just kinda laugh with her so its not uncomfortable..but im sure ur a strong persOn..just whenever u says that stuff or writes on ur stuff or w/e, DONT laugh just roll ur eyes and show no sign of joking, etc...she'll get the picture..
love kristin
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Okay.. the furthest i have been is making out.. but the guy i like has been as far as oral cuz hes older than me.. Like i dont think i would know what to do if something happen.. like.. i dont think i would know what im supposed to be doingg.. Like oral.. whats the whole thing with spit or swallow?? Which are u supposed to do? Yeahh please explain some things to me.. Thanks
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k im not gunna sit here and say that u shouldnt give him head [oral] and blahblah, which i dont think u even should cause its obvious that ur not ready..but i know that thats annoying to hear sOo..spit= when the guy cums in ur mouth u spit it out instead of swallow it..and swallow= when the guys cums in ur mouth and u swallow it..i HAVE to add that if u dont know what those words mean, ur seriously not ready,and i wouldnt do it if i were u!!!! think about it again be4 u do it..
~kristin
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