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ok im going into the 8th grade and ive never made-out wit someone...most of the girls in my grade had...ive had the chance to wit a cute boy but i didnt want to and everythin...how can i get more comfortable wit doing it
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don't do anything u don't wanna do or don't think you are ready for. i think making out should be for special ppl only and not just with random guys cuz u wanna do it. but thats just me. i didn't get my first kiss till 9th grade even though like a lot of guys had tried i just gave them the cheek. it kinda pissed them off but i was like w/e. and u know waiting for a guy i really liked was well worth it. so don't feel like you have to or your missing out just because your friends have. cuz it's really not a big deal.hope i helped
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Well you really shouldnt if you dont feel ready or you just straight out dont want to. Theres no way to make yourself more comfortable besides going out with someone you love and trust and know that they wont take advantage over you. Dont rush anything... b/c you might run into trouble.
Good luck sweeetie!
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The only way your going to get comfortable is when your ready!
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I was scared the 1st time i made out wif a guy and i kinda got over it i mean i think everyone is scared the 1st time i think you should make out wif sum1 *you no sum1 your dating or watever* and once your done wif your 1st time whent he second shot comes you will be over it!
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It deepens what you mean by 'comftable'. If you mean you want to do it but are too nervous ... Well theirs only one way to get over that - just get a hold on your self and do it! If you mean you really don't want to do it but feel self conscious because everybody else is ... You don't want to be forcing your self to do things you don't want to like that it doesn't matter what others are doing.
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i know where your comming from. i didnt have my first kiss when i went into 8th grade either but then i went out with the really amazing guy that i feel totaly in love with and i was SOO scared to kiss him but after i did it i felt alot better. but dont let your friends presure you just wait until you find the right person =) hope that helped!! <33 dani
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CHINDY!!!
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Not to worri about it soo much I mean if you make out with him then its just pretti normal and you should be comfortable about when you wanna make out with someone and dont do it when you wanan fit in w ur friends just do it when ur readi to and its not wrong that u havent done that and ur in 8th grade just do it when ur readi pretti much is all I can say.
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i dont think that there is n e thing wrong wit that but if you wanna but you just aren't confortable then practice! i mean practice makes perfect right? i hear that some gurls practice on their bffs but thats kinda wrong so practice like on the back of your hand or on an apple like in tumble weeds! lol so wat ever works for you!
hope i helped out
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sometimes u juss gotta force urself to do it..thats not really the right way to go cause u should always be sure ur ready to do something be4 u do it..but also maybe u should play a game of truth or dare and have one of ur friends dare u to make out with some1..hope i helped..
love kristin
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