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Well, My friend and i are both 13 years old and girls. I asked my best friend if she would like to experiment again and she didn't mind. I was wondering could there be a possibility that she likes me or just likes what we did together because when i asked her she said it was no problem, but she also added we shouldn't do it too often , (Nothing "below the belt"). If it is normal does anyone out there know anything else we can experiment with each other above the belt and below. I'm also wondering is it common for me as a African American girl to be experimenting with my Polish American bff? I rate high. Holla back!! (link)
wait, your two girls?


like a week ago my boyfriend and i were messing around and i gave him a hand job (he put a condom on) and while i was giving him a hand job he was holding his penis and then when i was done he fingered me and my period hasnt started yet but ive been having cramps lately and i usually get cramps but could i be pregnant? (link)
nope the only time you can get pregnant is when you have sex, when the penis penatrates your vagina. xox


Well my boyfriend and I were dating for over 2 and a half years..and 3 months ago his friends (who are also my friends) were telling me he was gonna dump me. We got in a few fights and things..And Then I finally dumped him because he "didn't have the guts"..I like him alot still and He doesnt like me anymore at all..Sometimes I think im over him and then we start to talk and I like him all over again....I dont know what to do!! And people keep telling me to just find someone knew..BUT I LIKE HIM SO MUCH!! HELP!!!!! please -_yours truly_- xox (link)
2 in a half years.. omg thats sooo long!! hey but you know what, idk but me and my bf were together for half a year.. then he broke up with me and flirted with all of these girls, i didn't want to deal with it i tried being friends with him but he would just be a total dick to me, so i said forget it and i moved on, hung out with my friends, then like a month went by and we started talking again, and then i started hanging out with him again... and the day that i said that i can hang out with him without being like 'omg i need you' was the day that he asked me back out. so maybe in a little while hell realize that he needs you in his life, like seriously 2 in a half years how can he NOT like you anymore!! so just give it sometime and hang out with your friends to get him off your mind, or get a hobby of somesort to keep yourself occupied of some sort.. hope you guys get back together! =) xox Renee


ok ive been asking questions about my boyfriend...like me not thinking he cared about me and stuff well yesterday i passed out and couldnt breathe and i think it scared him and i think he relized how much he loves now that it happend to me...he is constantly telling me how much he loves me and how much he needs me...
do you think that becasue of what happend hes relizing how muhc he loves and cares about me???
thanks a bunch!
XxXxAbabiiXxXx (link)
yea most likely, because now he almost lost you in a sort of way, he realized that he does truely care about you and he needs you in his life, because without you there he would probably fell like nothing at all. thats good that he realized that how much he cares about you, but i dont think you passing out/couldn't breathe shouldn't make him realize anything, he should have known that and told you that no matter what =) xox


ok so theres a close friend of mine lets call him Jake. Well jake and I are good friends and he gave me a Christmas card for Christmas that signed "Love Jake" well ever since then my friend lets call her sasha has been trying to hook us up. he says he wrote love tom on all cards..yet anyone i know hes friends with didnt even get a card at least any ive checked with. so he coems up to me today and goes "have you talked to sasha" and i said not really he goes "she said you and i should go out" just then the bell rang so i didnt have to say anything. i really am unsure of my feelings for this guy.....if he does ask me out what do i do? i cant say no i have problems of hurting friends feelings!!!

HELP ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
tell him that you dont feel that way for him, but you guys can def still be good friends, its better to be honest with him, and being honest is the best way NOT to hurt friends feelings. so dont worry about that, just be honest =) xox


Ok look this is a serious question how do you know when you're gonna start your period i mean i know you get cramps but other than that whats your signs and how long will you have them untill it starts

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you start to get discharge, most people crave greasy foods, your face tends to break out, you also crave chocolate/sweets, and cramps. im not quite sur when in particular you will start your period, but you'll probably have these every month when you have your period. xox


Guys like to say girls are difficult but guys can be just as difficult too. There's this guy who no matter how hard I try to not like him, he stays in my mind constantly. I know most would say move on but the truth is I can't. He's not dating anyone at the moment but he loves to flirt a lot. We've been friends for awhile and it didn't seem like him, but he played me. He promised my bestfriends that he wouldn't hurt me and also he let them know that he liked me a lot but he never came around to asking me out. Should I still wait for something to happen even though it's been months, or just force myself to move on? (link)
i would say move on, or ask him out yourself, its hard to wait and wait for someone to come around to ask you out, and half of the time they go out with someone else, then they expect you to wait b/c they say that he'll go out with you when they break up, you get what i mean? theres plenty of guys out there for you and itll be good for you to like someone else. xox


At my old school i had so many boy friends and now at my new school, i doubt that any of the boys even like me!...how can i get that to change? i want boys to like me more than a friend and i miss having a boy friend... (link)
try to get their attention, talk to them, ask them to hang out, i'm sure that the guys will be all over you in a matter of no time, but also, have alot of girl friends, i mean girls as friends, b/c you dont want rumors going around school so that no one likes you! ask them to hang out sometime with you xox


How do I find out what channel the country music station is? and do you need IO or anything fancy to get it? (link)
tv guide i would think, sorry. xox


Hey everyone, well i'm a little late with my period this month. I'm definitely a virgin but i was wondering if there was a reason that you could skip a period one month without being pregnant. answers anyone? (link)
if you just recently started your period its a tipically thing to skip a month, it happens, dont worry about too much about it, your a virgin so your safe! or you could just be a few days late, it happens, your not regularly on track. xox


at http://www.greatestjournal.com, does anyone know where I can find layouts using the "public id number"? (link)
your a registered member right? join communities, most of them have layouts that you can take, just comment that your taking them and put where you got the layout from in your personal info. =) so join communities, i'm joined to like 7? and i got a ton of layouts, any other questions im me, ox sweetkisses0 . xox Renee


Hey it's Becky, and I asked you about Adrian..yea..well I am addign you to my site..sExY_LiL_BoO_BeCkY!

xObeckyOx (link)
thank you, ill add you too =) xox Renee


Hey, this morning I woke up and my eye was crusty. And then I looked in the mirror and it was all red. it still is. My mom said it might be "Pink Eye" but my eye doesn't itch, and it's not really goopy. Does anyone have any ideas on what this is?? I rate all 5's. (link)
i'm pretty sure its pink eye, you dont have to itch in order for it to be considered pink eye, but go to the doctors and he/she should tell you what to do, and give you antibodics or something to help get it away, and its contagious so dont go around your friends, stay home until its gone. xox


well i like this boy in my class. He`s really cool and smart and funny nd everything , i want to ask him out but i feel that he wont like me or that he`ll say no and it will make it worse for me knowing that he`ll never go out with me. can you give me some adivce?! thanks alot (link)
well dont ask him to go out, ask him to hang out, go to the movies, or hang out with a bunch of friends, just have a good time, maybe he likes you too, get to know him then maybe you guys will go out =) you should ask him to hang out first, hope things go well! xo


Ok there is this guy let's call him *Adrian* and we have been talking for awhile. We got to be so serious that I was gonna lose my virginity to him. Well, see, the thing is, I guess we didn't get to serious because we never went out!! That sucked but anyways, I called him last night and he didn't sound like himself so I said 'Adrian what's wrong?' and he said 'I can't be talkin to you' and I was like 'why?' and he said 'I am in a situation that I DON'T want to tell you about.' and I said 'just tell me babe' and he said 'I am in a relationship..' I was like "WHAT?!?' and he goes 'I am in a relationship' and we were really quiet so I was like 'fine I'll let you go then' and we hung up. See through the convo I kept asking him who the girl was, but he wouldn't tell me who! He just kept telling me that I don't know her...blah blah blah. Well, I really did like him, but now I don't know what to do. HELP!! I RATE 5'S!!

~*iN NeEd Of sErIoUs HeLp*~ (link)
tell him how you feel about him, and i would think that he would feel bad about leading you on and totally like ditching you for another girl, i'm sorry to hear hun, you must be heartbroken =( but just tell him how you feel about him, and you thought that everything would be perfect when you guys get together, dont get too upset, try cheering yourself up, give out a good cry thats what i do, buy a movie eat some popcorn sit home on a saturday night lol, but you can also go hang out with your friends and get him off your mind, but talk to him, i hope things work out, sorry. xo


hey, well okay i'm 14/f and you see last may i went out with this kid, and then you knoew eventually we broke up and everything and now he movied to florida just last year, but i'm still madly in love with him, and we don't even talk anymore. i love him more than anything!! everyone always tells me to get over him, but i just can't, and believe me i've tried...many,many,MANY times but nothing seems to get him off my mind. i'm literally in love with this kid who doesn't really feel the same about me anymore cuz we've grown apart over the year...but idk what to do. i can't get over him. and all i ever wanted was for him to move back..but i'm doubting it. i even started doing some stupid shit (cutting etc..) because i was soo depressed about him moving away. i just want him back but i know that'll never happen..what do i do? i can't get over him...


xO: HeartBrok3n (link)
omg, dont cut. seriously. if your THAT depressed talk to your mom and get anti depressants. but hang out with your friends more it helps to get guys off of your mind, or try calling his old house, SOMETIMES they'll tell you the new families number and then maybe you can call him! or i bet one of his friends will have it. ask them. well thats all i can tell you but i hope you find him and talk to him, or start to get over him. x0 Renee


im a 14/f, and like my *ex*-best friend dated this guy over the summer, and like it was cool because i dated HIS best friend, so yeah. anyways both of us broke up like during the summer or whatever, and its later in the year ((Obviously)) and me and her ex started talking alot, and started liking each other...and eventually we started dating...and she got really mad at me and told me she still liked him..(even though shes had like 5 relationships SINCE HIM, and like she said that while she was in one) but they broke up the day after she told me that...and she started hating me and telling me that she told me she still liked him before him & i started dating, and i swear she didn't. and now shes saying *its like a rule to not date your best friends ex boyfriend* but i mean does that really apply to this situations when they broke up like 5 months ago?? i could understand if it was like a week and she was like heart broken over it..but she wasnt. and now all of my other friends agree with her and are telling me thats not cool. and i just dont know what to do because ive really always liked him and ive tried to talk to her about it but she just doesnt seem to care!? we don't even talk now...and it makes me uncomfortable because she talks to him like trying to make him like her agian!! what do i do?? (link)
if i were you, i would tell your boyfriend(if your still going out with your exbestfriend's ex-boyfriend) tell him whats going on, i'm pretty sure hes def over her, and likes you now, and i dont think all of a sudden he'll drop you for her, dont worry about it, girls are gay and they like to pick fights over the stupidest reasons, so dont worry about them, you got what you wanted didn't ya lol x0 Renee


im 14/f okay, i have been going out with this guy for like 2 and a half months now. and i think i really really like him! but the thing is..my friend gets so jealous when i talk about him. because, yeah i admit - i do talk about him alot! but thats just because i like him. but anywasys...lately all she talks about is stuff like "you should break up with him" and reasons why that are stupid, like i might be getting *too* attached...and i was talking to him the next day and it kinda slipped out in the convo. we were having and he asked her why she wanted us to break up...and now shes really mad at me and says she can't trust me anymore and saying she doesn't even want to be my friend. i have tried apologizing and telling her it was an accident. do you think she is just using this to set our friendship apart?? PLEASE HELP (link)
thats not good that you talk about your friends boyfriend!! i dont think your friend wanted to end your friendship because of some guy, i think shes saying when she cant trust you anymore she means it as if she likes someone you do too and she doesn't want that, i'm not too sure, but i dont think shes using it to set your frienship apart, just give her some time and she'll want to be friens with you again, and try not to like her bf! haha this is where it all started dont you think? well hope things work out. x0 Renee


ok so there is this friend, she used to be my best friend. we were like the best of best friends and did everything together. talked on the phone for hours got our nails done went places nd everything. just recently i went on a trip and i came home to find my "best friend" annoyed with me. i wasnt even home. she told my other really good friend that she realized she had other friends and now does stuff with them all the time and not with me anymore...at all. she told one of my other friends that she didnt want me to go somewhere everyone was going for no reason. now we hardly talk and she seems to avoid me...but whenever i ask her.."everything is fine" PLEASE HELP! I NEED MY BEST FRIEND :( (link)
aw im sry hun, try just to be nice, and give her sometime to herself and her new friends, im sure that she'll come around sometime, meanwhile you have other friends.. hang out with them get to know them more. xox things will be back to normal no time!


does anyone know any good sites to learn how to belly dance with step by step instructions or know how to belly dance. no instructors or videos/dvds (link)
oooh belly dancing sounds like fun, if you dont want videos or anything that you have to buy, go to a search engine and search for instructions how to bellie dance, they could have videos in there, but its off of the computer so wouldn't cost anything. good luck! x0




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