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ok so there is this friend, she used to be my best friend. we were like the best of best friends and did everything together. talked on the phone for hours got our nails done went places nd everything. just recently i went on a trip and i came home to find my "best friend" annoyed with me. i wasnt even home. she told my other really good friend that she realized she had other friends and now does stuff with them all the time and not with me anymore...at all. she told one of my other friends that she didnt want me to go somewhere everyone was going for no reason. now we hardly talk and she seems to avoid me...but whenever i ask her.."everything is fine" PLEASE HELP! I NEED MY BEST FRIEND :(
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If she doesn't want to be your friend anymore because she thinks she's too cool for you I say drop her like a hot potato. If she doesn't even make an attempt and she is superficial and stupid, I would say don't waste your time. Though once her other friends drop her she'll probably be back and find who her real friends are.
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Yeah, this can be sad, but friendship can be like love, sometimes it grows old and it sounds like it grew old for your friend, even though you're still "into it." Just try to keep being yourself and make sure you have other friends too, even if their not your BEST friend. You may find yourselves back in your friendship later down the road, but for now maybe she just needs a break from you. Just try to keep busy with your life and still be there as a friend for her even if she is being mean, you'll never look like the bad guy just stay neutral.
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aw im sry hun, try just to be nice, and give her sometime to herself and her new friends, im sure that she'll come around sometime, meanwhile you have other friends.. hang out with them get to know them more. xox things will be back to normal no time!
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