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Question Posted Tuesday January 11 2005, 3:58 pm

Ok there is this guy let's call him *Adrian* and we have been talking for awhile. We got to be so serious that I was gonna lose my virginity to him. Well, see, the thing is, I guess we didn't get to serious because we never went out!! That sucked but anyways, I called him last night and he didn't sound like himself so I said 'Adrian what's wrong?' and he said 'I can't be talkin to you' and I was like 'why?' and he said 'I am in a situation that I DON'T want to tell you about.' and I said 'just tell me babe' and he said 'I am in a relationship..' I was like "WHAT?!?' and he goes 'I am in a relationship' and we were really quiet so I was like 'fine I'll let you go then' and we hung up. See through the convo I kept asking him who the girl was, but he wouldn't tell me who! He just kept telling me that I don't know her...blah blah blah. Well, I really did like him, but now I don't know what to do. HELP!! I RATE 5'S!!

~*iN NeEd Of sErIoUs HeLp*~


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Christine15 answered Wednesday January 12 2005, 12:28 pm:
ok the best thing to do is to let him go. If hes gonna do that then you dont need him so just try to forget about him. So try not to get stressed out over some one like that if a guy is gonna treat you like that you really dont need him. Try not to sell your self short. guys come and go. I am gonna tell you something that I have told people befor. For every guy that hurts you there will come another that is better.


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2tyfruty answered Tuesday January 11 2005, 8:09 pm:
Hey,

Wow, I'm sorry about that. The best thing to do is to try and get over him. Or win him over. It's not good to be in a one sided relationship. If he doesn't feel as strongly for you as you do for him because of his other relationship, it's just not going to work. If you really want to know this girl try to figure out through friends or his friends they might know more than you. Hope I Helped some. Good luck babe.

*Kaila

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girlygirl answered Tuesday January 11 2005, 4:49 pm:
I'm so glad you didn't waste your virginity on him! You've been pretty honest, he knows you're interested in him. You did the best thing, by just saying 'fine, i'll let you go' It may take awhile, but he'll be thinking of you (when his current chick is a psycho) and at the very least you got away from this player, acting like a lady. Keep your dignity and don't call him... hope this helps.

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MissEmmyBoo answered Tuesday January 11 2005, 4:17 pm:
Obviously this dude is NOT worth any of your time. I mean he was in a RELATIONSHIP already and you two got "serious." This dude is a player! Stay far away. lol!
*Hope I helped!*
~Emmy Boo~

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NEVERLETG00 answered Tuesday January 11 2005, 4:17 pm:
tell him how you feel about him, and i would think that he would feel bad about leading you on and totally like ditching you for another girl, i'm sorry to hear hun, you must be heartbroken =( but just tell him how you feel about him, and you thought that everything would be perfect when you guys get together, dont get too upset, try cheering yourself up, give out a good cry thats what i do, buy a movie eat some popcorn sit home on a saturday night lol, but you can also go hang out with your friends and get him off your mind, but talk to him, i hope things work out, sorry. xo

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