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do wicca spells really work? has anyone performed a love spell and did it work?? any feedback would be nice. thanks (link)
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I don't think they work in extreme conditions. I've performed simple spells, like to do my best in something and those have worked. I personally think that a spell is something that you truly think will work and then you will work harder towards what you want. I think a spell is hust something that will make you feel like you have support in something, and then you will try your best anyway, so it would really be all you. [if that makes any sense] So if someone were to perform a love spell that worked, they would probably actually woo that person themselves, without the actual help of the spell, the spell would just 'back them up' if you get what I'm saying.
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ok so i just started going out with this guy, and we are both kinda shy, so i was wondering what were some good conversation starters.. we dont talk much, so i am trying to get our relationship started by starting conversations.. i don't want to talk just about school, because i dont want to sound like a school nerd.. but any conversation starters would be awesome!! thx (link)
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Talk about interests, common ones, different ones. If he hasn't done something yet that you think is fun, do that together. You can have a blast just laughing. Fun dates will lead to better conversations.
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ok well this is the story of my recent realationship.
well earlier this year in january, my friends got me together with a friend of theirs, max, (they go a different school to me} and they gave him my email, and we started taking heaps over the net.. then on my birthday, 24th of january, me and my friends went to the movies and we invited him, and i met him for the first time.
we had a great time and he told me he would like to be in a realiationship with me, he told me i was perfect and beautiful and i was just so happy :) so then we met up again the following week and we went to the movies again and he officialy asked me out and of course i said yes.
so we were dating and we were both so happy i was so inlove , he would message me all the time.. wwe went to different schools so he would call me everynight. and then i got into his school the following week so i was going to be starting at his school in a week. we were both so excited, and i knew heaps of people there so i wasnt nervous.
so now i go to his school, we would sit with eachother at lunch and recces and sit with eachother in classes. i was so inlove with him and still am .. we were like the happiest couple going around.. then we went out last saturday together and it was basically the best day of my life , i just felt so happy he made me feel so loved. then the next day [sunday] we got into a fight basically over nothing and he was really angry at me and then i tried to sort things out but it was really hard becuase he didnt come to school on monday or tuesday and we didnt speak for 2 days [thats the longest amount of time that we hadnt spoken to eachother] so i sent him an sms on tuesday afternoon telling him that i wanted to sort things out and that i loved him and i asked if he was ok because he hadnt been at school. he then wrote back that he was not well and that he wanted to sort things out aswell, then i told him to call me that night so we could sort it out and his reply was that he had lost his voice and couoldnt talk. so i was left no choice but to sort it out through sms because it was killing me and i just wanted to fix things.
so we just started talking about things and how out realtionship was changing then he told me that he didnt love me anymore and that he was sorry. those words hit me like a ton of bricks and i am heart broken. i didnt understand how he had just fallen out of love with me when the 2 days earlier we were the happiest people walking around.. i am so confused.. he didnt come to school all last week..
and i talked to himn last night for the first time since the break up [a week] and he said he was really sorry and that he is really confused at the moment.. he also said he wasnt over me yet.
i really dont know what to do.. i know that there is still hope for our small little twisted realtionship and everyday i still think to myself.. he will want me back i know he will.. but nothing so far.. i havtn seen him since we were a happy couple so im hoping that when i see him at school next week that he will realise he did the wrong thing..
but could someone help me out i dunno wehter i should just try and move on or try and get him back..
im thinking about him all the time and no matter where i am or what i'm doing or who im talking to; he's the one thats on my mind.
i went out with this guy for a month.. and it was the best month of my life.
i dunno what kind of advice i need but i just need something .. some sort of direction..
thankyou for reading this it means alot to me. (link)
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My advice would be to be yourself around him, but act like just friends. Be nice around him, and give him space to work things out in his head. Give him time. If he comes round, he does. If he decides that the relationship is really over then you have to get over it if you at least want to maintain a friendship. Focus on other guys, do things to keep your mind off of him. Whatever happens, I hope it works out for the best!
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I have mild acne on my face, chest and back.
what would you guys suggest for me to use to help clear it.. i have mixed feelings about proactive...
ive been usind oxy pads, but they havent shown much improvement...
anything will do thx!
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I would try Neutrogena Oil Free Acne Wash on your face as well as your chest and back. It's somewhat strong on some people's skin though, so I would not use it every day, or if you want to, use Clean & Clear Oil Free Morning Glow Moisturizer after washing your face. You'll probably only need to use the moisturizer on your face, because your back probably wouldn't get dry. Both of these items can be found for around $3-$4 each at CVS or Wal Mart.
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ok well theres this new kid in school and he is REALLY CUTE!!! He stares at me in all the classes we have together...
I really want to get to know him and maybe go out with him somtime.
But the thing is he has the same last name as me which makes it kinda weird doesnt iT???
Do you think it would be really weird??!?!?!?
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It would be a little strange at first probably, but if you like him, does it really matter what his last name is? Just because his name is the same doesn't mean that you can't get to know the kid. Go for it!
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warning: might be kinda long!
ok me and this girl, Brittany, have been friends since about last year. we were unseparable. i mean like we told each other everything and spent time together whenever we could. now she is always seeming to find something about me she doesn't like. she messages me on myspace about it. then at school she doesn't mention anything unless i don't laugh every time she does one of her stupid sick jokes (sick as in...gross sick. ya.) and today i was in a bad mood so i didn't laugh. and she blew all up in my face.
soo today i read a message from her saying we are done and F*** you. i don't know what i could have done! yes we have been fighting on and off but nothing really major! she even blames herself!!! she never listens to my side of stuff she accuses me of. like never replying to my friend's messages, when ih ave been!
i don't know what to do....im close to tears because im about to lose my bestest friend! i don't know if we can ever heal our relationship if she meant what she said in her message. i want to be able to forgive her if she didn't mean it...which she also says she talks behidn my back which i hate and she says she doesn't but shes obviously lying.
please help me!! i don't just want to let her go, because then i will have to explain to everyone why we aren't friends anymore, but thats not the only reason. shes like my sister!!!
please help me!!! thanks in advance... (link)
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You deserve better than that. You shouldn't want to be friends with someone who blows up at you and talks about you behind your back. It will be hard to let go of her but you will be better off without her. Find some friends who will accept you for who you are and won't do the kind of stuff that Brittany has done to you. You don't have to talk about why you aren't friends with her anymore to anyone if you don't want to. Just say you don't want to talk about it.
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My friends lately have been doing an abundance of activities without including me. They will go ice skating, or play tennis at the local YMCA. I do not know why they all of a sudden do not want anything to do with me, but it is really getting under my skin. I will call their houses but they will always be on the phone with my other friends. Basically, my question is:
1) How can I talk to my friends, and let them know how I feel.
2) After I talk to them, what is a good activity to do with them?
Thank you, Advicenators, for your help! (link)
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Call your friend up after school and tell her that you really need to talk to her. You can talk to her there if she has time, invite her to your house to talk, or ask for a time to call when she won't be busy. Tell her it is important that you talk with her. Tell her exactly how you feel, and ask her what is wrong. If she argues with you and doesn't want to spend time with you, don't push the matter, you can find better friends than that. If she realizes that shes made a mistake, some things that you can do with her are: Sleepovers
Go to the movies
Shopping
Just hanging out at one of your houses
Go do things with them at the YMCA
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can you get aids by using a toiletseat some1 used who had aids? (link)
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Absolutely not.
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how can I get smooth lips and get rid of the lines?chapstick does not work. (link)
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Blistex works well. There's also a treatment by Mary Kay, a lip exfoliant. You can probably find something like that at a drugstore where it is less expensive.
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I recently asked about birth control, and its side effects, plus what the "yellow dots" meant. So it's the same person here..
Later on I experienced these cramps in my lower abdomen. I started my period awhile back and stopped two weeks ago, and I am getting cramps again.. (no signs of blood or spotting)
I usually don't start until like every 30 days. I could assume I'm just being irregular again but nowhere on my b/c brochure it said you'll experience irregular cramps -- just irregular periods and spotting.
So is this normal or do I need to check with my gynecologist again? I also had these cramps for 3 days now, and nothing else is happening. I could have what's going around perhaps? But it's been off-and-on for awhile.
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I would see a doctor if these cramps are bad and bothering you. If you haven't had your appendix out it could be something to do with that. That happens to me sometimes, and I just take ibuprofen and they usually go away within the day. Call your gynecologist and ask.
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Hey. Well, I get these random "spells" as I call them, of depression. I don't know if I'm bipolar. And like, I have a pretty good life. Not perfect, obviously, but not as bad as other people's. I don't know what's wrong with me. Also, I have little to no self-esteem, if that helps at all. Help!! And thanks in advance :].
P.S. 13/f, Idk if that will help anybody. (link)
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If these "spells" persist, you should see your doctor about them. Nobody here will be able to diagnose you with anything, a doctor will most likely be able to tell you exactly what is wrong and treat you for it.
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I sweat a lot
I went to the doctor and they gave me the strongest prescription deodorant, but I still sweat.
I don't sweat unless I'm really nervous or around guys or when I feel claustrophobic.
I pretty much only sweat around people
I just start to feel really hot and then I start sweating. I need some tips how to stay cool.
I've tried wearing t-shirts, but I still sweat a lot. I need some solutions, please (link)
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Wear tank tops, and use a deodorant with a strong smell. I suggest Secret Platnum Invisible Solid in Glacier Mist. It smells really good. Also, try not to get so nervous. Take deep breaths and stay calm. It will help you overall.
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I am blonde (naturally) and always have been. I can't imagine my life without blonde hair. It is a huge part of who I am today. Anyways, my class mates decide to be sterotypical and now everything thinks I am just another dumb blonde. I am so tired of it. I didn't do my homework assignment once and I now I am dumb. They look at me as if I were an idiot. I'm no though. I have A's and B's and I am in honors and seminar classes! What can I do to prove to them I am not a dumb blonde? or should I just let it go and let them think what they want? (link)
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Why should you care what they think? People who believe stereotypes aren't going to be good friends anyway. I have naturally blonde hair also and I just be myself and my real friends accept me because they know me. Don't listen to those people, they will just bring you down.
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When buying hair prodcuts, would it be cheaper at wal mart or shoppers drug mart? (link)
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It would definately be cheaper at Wal Mart.
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anyone know some hair prodcuts that's about $4 or less that does a lot in one like frizz and straight, silky? List the product, how muhc it costs, and what it does.
I'm trying to find a product that does a lot so I don't have to buy different products for different stuff and waste money.
Oh! and can you suggest a hair creme? Because that's what I prefer to use because it isn't greasy and when I run my hair through it, it desn't like feel weird. (link)
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Aussie, Garnier, and Dove products work wonders on hair. This link: http://www.drugstore.com/templates/stdplist/default.asp?catid=90074&trx=GFI-0-EVGR-MCN&trxp1=111&trxp2=90074&trxp3=2&trxp4=ML
brings you to a whole bunch of anti frizz- silky hair products. I prefer garnier sleek and shine anti frizz serum, but that isnt a creme. It still leavs my hair shiny, but like its name, doesn't weigh my hair down. Almost all of these items are $4 or less, and quite a few are cremes. [If the link doesn't work, let me know and I'll send a new one]
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is it okay for me to drink something like slim fast? im 13 is it too young or waht.. oh and is there another brand similar to slimfast? i think its equate? or something like that? coz i drank one b4 it was so good but the i forgot the name i think it was equate but anyways
2nd question is does virgin coconut oil make your hair grow faster? if it does, how? after i shampoo my hair i just put so coconut oil on it and leave it for a while? can u please gib me sum instructions? please coz i need to grow my hair because im gonna cut my split ends please and thanks so much for your helppppp! (link)
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Well I don't know about your second question, but as for the one about slimfast, or equate, it should be okay to drink it every once in a while because you like it, as long as you make sure you get the rest of your nutrients in some way. It should be fine, it's not like your drinking poison. :]
As for your hair getting longer, I think only time will make it longer. The oil might help make it stronger though, and stronger hair won't break, and it will look longer and healthier. It's healthy to cut your split ends, too and it will make it seem like your hair grows faster as well.
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okay, so my boyfriend and i have been dating for about 2 months. we hit it off really well & we have a very very healthy relationship. we are both strong christians, and have morals, but the farthest we've gotten is french kissing. Now we have friends of ours that we double date with alot. They've gotten way farther than us. like they haven't gone all the way, but he's like fingered her & she says that they've done things that she regrets. but idk. i don't really have an issue with going any farther with my boyfriend. but is it wrong to do anything? because i just feel like a goody goody.
HELP! (link)
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It wouldn't be wrong do do more than french kissing, but like you said, you have your morals. You aren't a goody goody, you just may not feel comfortable doing things that others have done. You shouldn't feel the need to compare yourself to other couples, your relationship with your boyfriend is just fine, and you have only been dating for two months. Take things at your own pace, you don't want to end up doing anything you regret, like your friend did. Learn from her mistake, so you don't have to make your own.
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Alright. I shaved most of my pubic hair a few days ago and it's already coming back.
It's not itchy, it just slightly hurts me.
I don't want to bother shaving there again, I don't trust myself to not cut myself somehow.
So I'd prefer to wax instead.
I can't go to any place...
Is there any home kits?
In how many days should I wax? / What length does the hair have to be?
I just really want the hair removed as soon as possible. It's really uncomfortable.
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Although there are home kits, I probably wouldn't use one because they are tricky, painful and the area you would be waxing is pretty sensitive. I would just shave, but don't shave upward. Shave downward in the direction that your hair grows in and you will have minimal discomfort. Just be careful, and you shouldn't cut yourself. It wouldn't take as long or cause as much redness as waxing either; it takes me less than a minute to shave and I can't even picture myself waxing... OWWWW!
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where can I buy a dream dictionary for a very low price? because the online ones suck.. (link)
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Barnes & Noble
The New England Moble Book Fair (That's where I got mine)
That's where the girl below me got her's too, cause she went with me.
I'm sure the Barnes & Noble have a website, is inexpensive, and sell used books too if you want an even lower price.
I think the second one has a website, but I'm not sure.
If you don't live in New England I you can probably order one and have it sent to you,
and Barnes & Noble bookstores are everywhere, so that shouldn't be a problem.
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hey,
well i'm going to a sleepover, and we probably won't sleep, but ths morning my period came again and i thought it wouldn't till the 26th but its still irregular. and i was just going to wear a tampon because odds are we won't sleep that much and i think if we do sleep we'd go to sleep at like 3a/m and i have to leave at 10. so that's 7 hours. so i think i'll be okay. but what are some suggestions on how to handle this. just wear a tampon and change it ever 6-7 hours? because i refuse to wear a pad to a sleepover eww. hah
thanks~! (link)
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Just wear a tampon, but be sure to change it as often as it says you should.
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