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my broken heart
ok well this is the story of my recent realationship.
well earlier this year in january, my friends got me together with a friend of theirs, max, (they go a different school to me} and they gave him my email, and we started taking heaps over the net.. then on my birthday, 24th of january, me and my friends went to the movies and we invited him, and i met him for the first time.
we had a great time and he told me he would like to be in a realiationship with me, he told me i was perfect and beautiful and i was just so happy :) so then we met up again the following week and we went to the movies again and he officialy asked me out and of course i said yes.
so we were dating and we were both so happy i was so inlove , he would message me all the time.. wwe went to different schools so he would call me everynight. and then i got into his school the following week so i was going to be starting at his school in a week. we were both so excited, and i knew heaps of people there so i wasnt nervous.
so now i go to his school, we would sit with eachother at lunch and recces and sit with eachother in classes. i was so inlove with him and still am .. we were like the happiest couple going around.. then we went out last saturday together and it was basically the best day of my life , i just felt so happy he made me feel so loved. then the next day [sunday] we got into a fight basically over nothing and he was really angry at me and then i tried to sort things out but it was really hard becuase he didnt come to school on monday or tuesday and we didnt speak for 2 days [thats the longest amount of time that we hadnt spoken to eachother] so i sent him an sms on tuesday afternoon telling him that i wanted to sort things out and that i loved him and i asked if he was ok because he hadnt been at school. he then wrote back that he was not well and that he wanted to sort things out aswell, then i told him to call me that night so we could sort it out and his reply was that he had lost his voice and couoldnt talk. so i was left no choice but to sort it out through sms because it was killing me and i just wanted to fix things.
so we just started talking about things and how out realtionship was changing then he told me that he didnt love me anymore and that he was sorry. those words hit me like a ton of bricks and i am heart broken. i didnt understand how he had just fallen out of love with me when the 2 days earlier we were the happiest people walking around.. i am so confused.. he didnt come to school all last week..
and i talked to himn last night for the first time since the break up [a week] and he said he was really sorry and that he is really confused at the moment.. he also said he wasnt over me yet.
i really dont know what to do.. i know that there is still hope for our small little twisted realtionship and everyday i still think to myself.. he will want me back i know he will.. but nothing so far.. i havtn seen him since we were a happy couple so im hoping that when i see him at school next week that he will realise he did the wrong thing..
but could someone help me out i dunno wehter i should just try and move on or try and get him back..
im thinking about him all the time and no matter where i am or what i'm doing or who im talking to; he's the one thats on my mind.
i went out with this guy for a month.. and it was the best month of my life.
i dunno what kind of advice i need but i just need something .. some sort of direction..
thankyou for reading this it means alot to me.
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him im SAM and i know exactly how you feel and i know its tough...well i really like this guy and whenever im with him im just so happy because he hugs me and flirts and is sooo nice.but then one day he says that he doesnt like me and that REALLY hurt because no one understands how much i thought he did...and now i hes confused bout it and i dont know wat to do...my best advise is just be urself around him, try to act normal and just laugh and whatever else it is you normally do. i dont wanna tell u to get over him....as hard as i try it doesnt work. so i think it might work for u but be prepared in case it doesnt. hope i helped
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Hey. I know this is probably really hard right now but I want you to know that almost everyone goes through this at some time in their life and no matter what happens it always works out for the better. This guy (no matter how romantic he acted with you) sounds like he may be like this with a lot of relationships. He may just be very dramatic and then he's afraid of commitement even if he likes you more than anything. So by him missing school for a few days it's his way of not causing conflict or by being embarressed to see you again. This could be one scenario and if so I would try asking him about if this is the case and tell him that you'd really want to work it out. Another situation may be that something happened to him that is really depressing him and he can't think of a relationship or anything right now because he's so sad. That's why he's missing school right now and maybe he doesn't want to talk to anyone at the moment. From what I've heard though, it sounds as if he may be afraid of commitement and this is his way of showing you. I would give him some time to realize how much he misses your relationship. Time heals all wounds and you may not think so now but you will feel better and stop thinking about him as much after you give it a break. If you give it some time and just be cordial to him he may realize how much he misses you. These are a few of the options you can take. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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My advice would be to be yourself around him, but act like just friends. Be nice around him, and give him space to work things out in his head. Give him time. If he comes round, he does. If he decides that the relationship is really over then you have to get over it if you at least want to maintain a friendship. Focus on other guys, do things to keep your mind off of him. Whatever happens, I hope it works out for the best!
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Okay, one of my friends is going through this right now, so I will try to help you as much as I possibly can. I personally think he is going to go back to you, but I would still like him and go for other people at the same time, ya know? Maybe, just like flirt a lot, it might help you possibly get over him too. Don't over do it in front of him though, cause that could make things worse. Still talk to him though, talk to him how you would on your email before you guys met. and honey, if he doesn't go back to you, he's just plain out stupid, and he doesn't realize what he's missing out on .. i hopee i helped [: .. if you need anything else just ask !
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