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close to crying....
warning: might be kinda long!
ok me and this girl, Brittany, have been friends since about last year. we were unseparable. i mean like we told each other everything and spent time together whenever we could. now she is always seeming to find something about me she doesn't like. she messages me on myspace about it. then at school she doesn't mention anything unless i don't laugh every time she does one of her stupid sick jokes (sick as in...gross sick. ya.) and today i was in a bad mood so i didn't laugh. and she blew all up in my face.
soo today i read a message from her saying we are done and F*** you. i don't know what i could have done! yes we have been fighting on and off but nothing really major! she even blames herself!!! she never listens to my side of stuff she accuses me of. like never replying to my friend's messages, when ih ave been!
i don't know what to do....im close to tears because im about to lose my bestest friend! i don't know if we can ever heal our relationship if she meant what she said in her message. i want to be able to forgive her if she didn't mean it...which she also says she talks behidn my back which i hate and she says she doesn't but shes obviously lying.
please help me!! i don't just want to let her go, because then i will have to explain to everyone why we aren't friends anymore, but thats not the only reason. shes like my sister!!!
please help me!!! thanks in advance...
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You deserve better than that. You shouldn't want to be friends with someone who blows up at you and talks about you behind your back. It will be hard to let go of her but you will be better off without her. Find some friends who will accept you for who you are and won't do the kind of stuff that Brittany has done to you. You don't have to talk about why you aren't friends with her anymore to anyone if you don't want to. Just say you don't want to talk about it.
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k well Brittany needs some balls. if she wants to yell at her, tell her not to be a coward and just tell you to your face.
#2. she's not your best friend, she's not your friend. if she talks about you, that means shes not very trustworthy. and if she flips on you all the time for stupid stuff, she's not even worth your time.
i went through a situation like this and i stopped being friends with the girl because i couldn't but up with her making me upset like that anymore. so i told her i didn't wanna be friends with her, and she kept coming back and kept apologizing, but i blew her off. because people can say they are gonna change but they won't.
and if you are worried on what to tell people, just say that you couldn't put up with her anymore. and if they ask why just be like idk she was too moody.
but if you still wanna hold on to your friendship. just talk to her about it and give her another chance to change. but if she doesn't, she's really not worth it
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