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Friends
My friends lately have been doing an abundance of activities without including me. They will go ice skating, or play tennis at the local YMCA. I do not know why they all of a sudden do not want anything to do with me, but it is really getting under my skin. I will call their houses but they will always be on the phone with my other friends. Basically, my question is:
1) How can I talk to my friends, and let them know how I feel.
2) After I talk to them, what is a good activity to do with them?
Thank you, Advicenators, for your help!
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Call your friend up after school and tell her that you really need to talk to her. You can talk to her there if she has time, invite her to your house to talk, or ask for a time to call when she won't be busy. Tell her it is important that you talk with her. Tell her exactly how you feel, and ask her what is wrong. If she argues with you and doesn't want to spend time with you, don't push the matter, you can find better friends than that. If she realizes that shes made a mistake, some things that you can do with her are: Sleepovers
Go to the movies
Shopping
Just hanging out at one of your houses
Go do things with them at the YMCA
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Gee-I just went through the same thing.
I ended up talking to my friends-challenging, but I did it.
Maybe they don't realize that they're doing this to you?
1)Speak straight from your heart. Whatever's on your mind, speak it. They're your friends because you can trust them-and this will test their trustworthiness.
2)Start by staying at one of your houses-just hanging out. Gradually work your way to what you used to do before they started leaving you out.
Good luck!!
-Jam
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I think that you should try and talk to them at school or next chance you get and be liek I need to talk to you guys.
Then sit dowm and tell them how you feel
I think that you should do an activity that you all like.
And just start from there.
I hope I have helped in any way :]
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